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"    Max, 28, and Pamela, 26, have been together for five years, but live apart. Every Tuesday, they enjoy a fun date night\u2014whether it&amp;#039;s dinner and a movie, taking a rock climbing class, or playing trivia at a local bar with another couple. Pamela recently started a new job and the workload has been stressing her out. As a result, she&amp;#039;s had to cancel date night more frequently, and Max is starting to get upset. Who&amp;#039;s right? He says: &amp;quot;I love Pamela and understand her new job is important to her, but I put a lot of effort in making our weekly date nights fun. When she cancels last minute because she&amp;#039;s too tired after work, it&amp;#039;s hurtful and makes me feel unappreciated. Plus, going out with me should be a good stress reliever and not a burden for her, which is how I feel when she backs out.&amp;quot; She says: &amp;quot;I hate canceling on Max, but I just feel so burnt out after work sometimes that I know I won&amp;#039;t be much fun. I don&amp;#039;t want to give up our weekly tradition either but committing to every Tuesday right now is really hard for me. We&amp;#039;ve all been through new-job stress so I don&amp;#039;t see the problem with telling him I just can&amp;#039;t make it sometimes.&amp;quot;  Have an argument you want settled? Email your argument detailing your side of the argument and your man&amp;#039;s side to karenkarbo@redbookmag.com or post below in the comments section and please include your names and ages. Letters may be edited for clarity and length.     poll by twiigs.com    "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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