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"Fidelity tracking poll, part one In the wake of what could be called Dallas-gate on this website, or the Airport Marriott Scandal, or for those who don&amp;#x27;t follow this space regularly, the Time I Let a Lady with Magnificent Boobs Hit on Me at a Hotel Bar in Dallas and Didn&amp;#x27;t Tell Her I Was Married but Also Didn&amp;#x27;t Encourage Anything Either, I went out and asked my friends about their cheating ways. I threw out a bunch of head-scratching questions in a rigorous manner that included beer, sometimes peanuts and always total anonymity. And this is what they had to say: 20% of those surveyed (there were 10 men surveyed, to be honest. You want a more scientific poll? Go talk to Gallup) said they had at least once thought about someone else while having sex with their wife. 10% admit that the person was Jessica Alba. 80% of those surveyed do not think it is cheating if you think of someone else while you&amp;#x27;re having sex. 0% of me is certain any one of the subjects wasn&amp;#x27;t lying to me at one time or another. 20% of them have kissed another woman who is not their wife, on the mouth, with tongue and slobber, since they have been engaged. 50% of those who have done this kissing do not consider it officially cheating. And so 50% do. 10% of respondents said they could understand making the argument that sex with a condom isn&amp;#x27;t cheating. (The guy who said that is someone who has never actually cheated. He&amp;#x27;s just a lawyer and likes to argue impossible points, and he is 100% wrong if he thinks he could ever make that argument to his wife.) 100% of them thought what I did in Dallas was well within the letter of the law and needn&amp;#x27;t be disclosed. 10% of respondents, though, said it was &amp;quot;kind of against the spirit of the law&amp;quot; and wanted to know how I&amp;#x27;d feel if she did that. (My honest answer is: totally fine, as long as she refrains. If she wants to flirt and it makes her feel good, that&amp;#x27;s fine--as long as she chooses me.) 20% of respondents have cheated, by any definition of cheating except the one which involves having two families in different cities and a lot of frequent-flier miles. 80% are afraid they&amp;#x27;re going to cheat someday. 50% are afraid their wife is going to cheat someday. 20% hadn&amp;#x27;t ever considered that it could be their wife who cheats, and now that they&amp;#x27;ve thought about it, they&amp;#x27;re a little freaked out. 30% said they&amp;#x27;d cheat once if they knew they could get away with it. 70% said they wouldn&amp;#x27;t. I know one follows the other, but it&amp;#x27;s worth thinking about, because what I want you to glean here is that while people have different experiences, different thresholds, different moral codes, most of us are pretty good, loyal and trustworthy."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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