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"Last May, my friend Anne wanted me to introduce me to this guy. I was too busy to meet him before I left for Nantucket, but somehow he got hold of my number and called me up about a month ago. Phone Guy and I talked for an hour and a half the first time. I think the second call lasted over two hours. All I remember was, it included bathroom breaks. Since then, we&amp;#x27;ve been talking, emailing, and texting. He said something funny last night. He is 28, but he said that when he was 24, the idea of getting married was like having a heart attack--it would probably happen someday, but he could never imagine what it would feel like. Ha! Anyway, when I come back to New York next month and meet him, what if one of us doesn&amp;#x27;t find the other attractive? Obviously we get along, so if, for example, I don&amp;#x27;t want to date him, he&amp;#x27;ll know it&amp;#x27;s because of the way he looks. I&amp;#x27;ve been trying to pace the frequency and amount of contact we have...I&amp;#x27;ve even explained to him our little dilemma. We haven&amp;#x27;t exchanged photos because I just feel that&amp;#x27;s weird. Guys are never all that photogenic anyway, or they show you a picture from their college days, when they were thirty pounds lighter. I think my best chances of finding him attractive are seeing him for the first time live and in person. In college, my sister&amp;#x27;s friend set me up with her brother. I was in L.A. and he was in Annapolis, MD and we emailed for a year. When June rolled around, he flew to California for his sister&amp;#x27;s graduation. He actually turned out to be completely gorgeous and a great kisser. But he was young and lived far away, so nothing ever came of it. Now he&amp;#x27;s married. Have you ever had a pen pal or You&amp;#x27;ve Got Mail-type relationship like this? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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