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"  DEAR E. JEAN : This is a new one for me: My wonderful boyfriend claims I&amp;#039;m not &amp;quot;girly&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;romantic&amp;quot; enough when it comes to sex. We have a great relationship and we&amp;#039;re the best of friends, but I like sex to be spontaneous and fun; he gets embarrassed when I grab his tush and make X-rated suggestions. E. Jean! I adore this man! I don&amp;#039;t want him to get away! What should I do?\u2014I&amp;#039;m Too Sexy for My Shirt TOO, YOU TORRID TROLLYMOG : Oh, please. The fellow doesn&amp;#039;t want X-rated suggestions. He wants the good old-fashioned chase\u2014the sizzling uncertainty, the saucy intrigue, the secret codes, the arch glances, the peeks at the La Perla, the tingling in the loins, the protracted-till-they&amp;#039;re-unbearable smooches. To him, the hunt is as exciting as the surrender. It&amp;#039;s the pursuit, the quest, the game that he&amp;#039;s dying for. Play it with him. You&amp;#039;ll be amazed how intensely sexy it is. E-mail your questions to e.jean@askejean.com Related: Ask E. Jean: Am I Too Self-Sufficient? Related: How Do I Stop A Cougar From Stealing My Boyfriend? Related: Am I Classist? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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