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" I was a late bloomer. This vavavoom, sexy Latina was once a wallflower that asked her friends how to flirt. Need further proof? I lost my virginity at 23. Once I was sexually active, however, I wanted to explorar. My then boyfriend had me open. Getting freaky in a club? Check. Sex morning, noon and night? Check. Stripteases and lap dances? Check. But what about sex toys? I wanted to try them. I wanted to let my freak flag fly. And so a new sexual adventure began. It&amp;#039;s a process to get a guy to agree to use them. Here&amp;#039;s how I did it.  Buying Sex Toys I bought some toys at a sex shop in The Village in NYC. A vibrator just for my clitoris and a cock ring for his...ahum. I purchased non-threatening toys for a reason. When introducing sex toys, it&amp;#039;s important to start with smaller (pun intended) toys as to not bruise your hombre&amp;#039;s ego. I also purchased fun items that will help him ease into it, like a tingling, edible cream for blow jobs and edible melting wax. I clearly took note while watching Madonna in &amp;quot;Body of Evidence.&amp;quot; Like a virgin, who? Talking to Your Man I approached the subject while in bed. When in Rome, right? We began fooling around and I introduced the edible creams and wax. He was excited. What man wouldn&amp;#039;t be? You bought a cream to suck him off and make him feel even better? Sign me up! Once I went down south I asked if he wanted to try the cock ring. He was so happy with my special treat that he didn&amp;#039;t hesitate. Focusing on Your Clitoris If your boyfriend is a little shy, or feels like cock rings and dildo&amp;#039;s are too much too soon, there&amp;#039;s something you can do. Jus don&amp;#039;t talk to him about your clitoris. &amp;quot;Honey, did you know that the clitoris has more nerve endings than a penis?&amp;quot; Turn off. Don&amp;#039;t compare clit to pene. What you need to do is show him what you like. This is when you summon your inner fresca and whip out that vibrator. During mid-suck, open your drawer and show him your new toy. Tell him you want to masturbate in front of him. You can use the vibrator then. Once he&amp;#039;s turned on (and he will be) give him the vibrator to finish you off. My man finished me off, and he got off because he pleased me. What man doesn&amp;#039;t want to feel like he&amp;#039;s the best his woman&amp;#039;s ever had? The trick is to assure your papi chulo that he&amp;#039;s not competing with the toys; he&amp;#039;s working with the toys. Take it from this once shy and inexperienced Dominicana: this collaboration is for the good of The Big O. Sujeiry Gonzalez is the Love Guru for Exitos 93.9FM, a relationship writer and author of &amp;quot;Love Trips.&amp;quot; Get her relationship advice daily on LoveSujeiry.com. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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