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"  On the first episode of Gok&amp;#039;s Style Secrets, we saw super-stylist Gok Wan meet 33-year-old Zoe Burgess - a nursery nurse who lived at home with her mum and has never had a long-term relationship. We watched as Gok transformed the single lady into a bonafide babe - but it wasn&amp;#039;t easy. SEE MORE SHOWS WE&amp;#039;RE EXCITED ABOUT IN 2013 The show&amp;#039;s concept is simple; it is essentially a makeover series (Gok loves a makeover series!) but this one concentrates on the single ladies. It&amp;#039;s no secret that Gok is a pro at making his prot\u00E9g\u00E9s look and feel better, but the finishing touch on this show isn&amp;#039;t just a waist cincher belt - it&amp;#039;s the confidence to bag a new man. HOW TO DRESS SEXY FOR YOUR SHAPE In each episode Gok is not only a personal stylist, he&amp;#039;s the flirting coach, the agony uncle, the shoulder to cry on and the coolest wingman EVER.  Here&amp;#039;s what we learnt from episode one: Body language On the first date, we watched as Zoe kept her arms crossed around her body (almost giving herself a self-cuddle). She looked like a scared animal, so it&amp;#039;s important to remember to loosen up, relax but still keep your poise and posture.  Date etiquette It was cringe-tastic when Zoe talked about herself through pretty much all of the first date - it&amp;#039;s the perfect reminder that it&amp;#039;s good to open up and talk about yourself but you need to remember it&amp;#039;s not all about you - ask him questions. Dating and flirting is about learning about each other and finding a common ground - so let him talk. On the prowl Gok took Zoe out to a bar to give his top tips for finding a man. Our favourite tips were\u2026 The Triple A Access  Attract Attention Access This is about checking out who you fancy in the room. Do a lap of the room in a &amp;#039;figure of eight&amp;#039;. The figure of eight is all about taking quick glances of the men in the room but don&amp;#039;t spend too long or make lingering eye contact with anyone - save those for later. Next up, it&amp;#039;s the attraction stage... Attract Otherwise known as &amp;#039;the driveby&amp;#039;. Once you&amp;#039;ve found your target, make an excuse to go near him (look for a menu or buy yourself a drink) and confidently but subtly get his attention. It&amp;#039;s all about getting yourself noticed.  Attention Get your own wingman. We can&amp;#039;t all have a Gok on hand to go up to the men we fancy (in our dating dreams!), but it&amp;#039;s good to get someone to help with bagging the man of your dreams. So if you have a friend offering to help, let them. That way, they can do all the work and you can sit back and look pretty. Practice makes perfect The more men you talk to, the easier it will become\u2026 HONEST. If all else fails... watch next week&amp;#039;s show and stock up on more tips - we know we will. Gok&amp;#039;s Style Secrets, 8pm, on Channel 4. We&amp;#039;re secretly hoping Gok might write his own dating book...  READ MORE CONFIDENCE TIPS BE A DATING DIVA "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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