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"I was dating this guy who seemed to be really into me. Then he started flaking on plans, not returning phone calls, and poof \u2014 he just disappeared. A month later, I got a call from him, apologizing and asking if we could start over. He said he would phone that week to make dinner plans, and once again, he went missing. What is going on with him? There could be a million reasons why this guy pulled the vanishing act on you. Maybe there was another girl. Maybe he was keeping his options open. Maybe he&amp;#039;s freaked out by commitment. Bottom line though: He&amp;#039;s not into you enough to treat you like a legitimate love interest.  That being said, I&amp;#039;m sure he likes you, at least a little, or else he wouldn&amp;#039;t have come back in the first place. But the problem is, he also knows that you have feelings for him. He probably thinks that it&amp;#039;s okay to change his mind on a dime because you will still be there to answer his calls, accept his apologies, and stroke his ego.  Of course, you could play hard to get, but why get involved in that game? Anyone who treats you so disrespectfully isn&amp;#039;t worth it. Next time this guy calls \u2014 and he probably will \u2014 don&amp;#039;t pick up the phone and don&amp;#039;t call him back, not even to speak your mind. Most important, don&amp;#039;t waste any more time trying to figure out what&amp;#039;s going on in this dude&amp;#039;s head. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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