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"  DEAR E. JEAN : My husband is paid very well to think about sex all day. He produces &amp;quot;sports entertainment,&amp;quot; i.e., female wrestling. The problem is that he&amp;#039;s a self-proclaimed recovering sex addict (as in a 12-step program). His friends are envious. But he&amp;#039;s like an alcoholic working in a brewery. Recently his company had the wrestlers auction off their used underwear for charity. One pair was signed &amp;quot;Orgasmically Yours.&amp;quot; Another, &amp;quot;Tastes Like Candy&amp;quot;\u2014Candy being the owner of the used thong. It&amp;#039;s a never-ending battle of Quit Your Job vs. I Will Never Quit My Job. What should I do with this well-paid fool?\u2014Wrestling Without a Conscience WRESTLING, HONEY WAFFLE : I read your letter to Dr. Douglas Weiss, PhD, a counselor specializing in sex addiction and the author of Partners: Healing From His Addiction. Dr. Weiss says, &amp;quot;Changing another person is never an option. The husband is real clear. He&amp;#039;s not quitting the job. He likes the work, the money, and flirting with his addiction. He&amp;#039;s not going to restyle his whole life. So the wife has three choices: 1. Stay in the marriage and stop complaining. 2. Stay in the marriage and complain. 3. Leave and find someone more suitable.&amp;quot; I believe you have a fourth choice. Be glad your husband works with wrestlers. The sexiness is hilarious, the costumes conspicuous, and the scripts make even Joanie Laurer blush(as Chyna, she always managed to lose a top, or her pants, in Pay-Per-View events). But the lust is out there. It&amp;#039;s blatant. Your husband is safer with the charity thong givers (where you can see what&amp;#039;s going on) than he would be at a quieter job where he&amp;#039;s surreptitiously looking at porn sites all day (which is how 90 percent of sex addicts spend their time), or, for instance, on the production staff of a network news show, which is a jungle pool of ambitious, brainy, brutally beautiful young women clawing their way up the production ladder. I once spent a couple of days on the road with Vince McMahon&amp;#039;s WWE wrestlers, and I never saw such a bunch of straight-edge old ladies. Yes, they pair off, but the good news is, if your husband made even a halfhearted pass at a sexy girl on the circuit, her lover (male or female) would kill him. Related:Ask E. Jean: Am I Too Aggressive in Bed?Ask E. Jean: Is It Wrong to Wear My Wife&amp;#039;s Underwear?Ask E. Jean: Should I Marry a Man Who Drinks Too Much? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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