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"FacebookPinterest\n\n **\n\nDear GQ Advice Lady,\n\n**\n\nHow is it that all women I met and have sex with only want sex and not even considering a relationship? Honestly my last 5 affairs ended with the words: \"You are a great guy and we have a great fucking going around. Let's not destroy this.\" It can't be me, can it? Usually people count me into the nice guy section. Women these days...\n\n\u2014Wants a Relationship\n\nDear Wants a Relationship,\n\nIt can be you! In fact, it probably is you. For starters, ladykind's pupils tend to turn to X's upon encountering phrases like \"Women these days...\" (Did you read this column?) and bitter-tinged \"I'm a nice guy!\" assertions. Hint: Most nice guys don't declaratively insist upon their nice guy status. Call it the Unappeasable Paradox Of Nice Guy Existence. Another hint: Don't place universal blame on the entire XX population because it turns out five ladies didn't want to backspoon you for all of eternity. Or even on the regular. This is life. Sometimes people don't want what you want. Get used to it because this will be true for all of eternity. Consider yourself officially in a relationship with this fact. (You guys look so cute 2gether!!!!!)\n\nLast hint: Work on this phrase, \"we have a great fucking going around.\" I mean I get it, but also \"WHAT?\" and \"gross?\"\n\nGoing forward, maybe you shouldn't kick off your courtship with sex if you're looking for a relationship. It's not a hard and fast rule by any means\u2014I know plenty of happy couples who started off as fuck buds, but then again you don't have the right to be frustrated when your casual sex partner doesn't want to change the tenor of your genital friendship. It's like inviting her over for pizza, and then getting mad she doesn't want Thai just because your particular appetite happens to have shifted. Ask a woman you like that you're not currently boinking if she wants to go to dinner! Or to a movie! Or out for drinks! A relationship is about getting to know someone. And not just biblically."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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