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" Did you catch the Saturday Night Live sketch with Paul Rudd and Vanessa Bayer sitting in a diner with their divorce lawyers? The splitting couple argues nonstop \u2014 that is, until the Fleetwood Mac song &amp;quot;I Don&amp;#039;t Wanna Know&amp;quot; comes on. Then, the two start singing and dancing, forgetting that they want a divorce. It turns out many couples have moments like this. Hearing a certain song, seeing a certain photo, or even saying a certain word is all it takes to stop fighting and start laughing. Check out the creative tricks the following couples use to diffuse disputes in mere seconds. 1. Do something silly. &amp;quot;My husband purposely falls to the floor to get me to laugh and end the argument. What can I say? I grew up watching America&amp;#039;s Funniest Home Videos,&amp;quot; says Griffin Sutton, of Hampstead, NC. Kac Young of Cambria, CA, uses a similar strategy with her hubby. &amp;quot;When we have a disagreement, one of us makes a fishy face. This is the signal that we&amp;#039;ve lost communication, and the giggles always bring us back to reality,&amp;quot; she says. &amp;quot;My boyfriend and I will poke or tickle each other, and that usually turns into a hug or snuggle,&amp;quot; adds Janine Sutton of Boston. So try doing something goofy that will remind you both that fighting isn&amp;#039;t worthwhile.  RELATED: These 8 Phrases Will Stop a Fight Fast 2. Come up with a code word. &amp;quot;My husband of 20 years and I were in marriage counseling a few years ago, on the brink of divorce. The counselor suggested that we say a code word when an argument gets out of hand. Whenever one of us says &amp;#039;cock-a-doodle-doo,&amp;#039; we bust out laughing and the argument&amp;#039;s over,&amp;quot; says Stacey Glaesmann, of Pearland, TX. Choose a code word or phrase that&amp;#039;s easy to remember and is likely to end the argument. &amp;quot;When one of us gets cranky or rude, either of us yells &amp;#039;restart button&amp;#039; and begins the conversation over,&amp;quot; says April Ricchuito, of Orlando, FL. &amp;quot;It stops us from making attacking statements that can make the argument snowball into a much bigger issue.&amp;quot; 3. Start dancing together. Whether you&amp;#039;re into line dancing or break dancing, moving your bodies can release built-up tension in a more positive way than arguing. That&amp;#039;s what Traci Bild&amp;#039;s husband of 15 years does with her in Clearwater, FL. &amp;quot;He&amp;#039;ll grab me and twirl me around. It completely changes my mood and makes it impossible to stay mad! It immediately takes me back to why I fell in love with him,&amp;quot; she says. 4. Eat something. Registered dietitian Jan Patenaude from Carbondale, CO, realized that low blood sugar can trigger a fight. &amp;quot;One time an ex hadn&amp;#039;t eaten anything in about six hours. In the middle of a fight he had instigated, I poured him a glass of orange juice and within minutes, he was apologizing for being a jerk,&amp;quot; she says. RELATED: 6 Biggest Marriage Mistakes to Avoid 5. Give a suggestive look. If your partner&amp;#039;s favorite activity happens between the sheets, use that to your advantage when you&amp;#039;re attempting to end an aggressive confrontation. &amp;quot;My husband is my professional partner, so it&amp;#039;s even more important that we&amp;#039;re in sync. The best fail-proof argument-buster for us is sex! A &amp;#039;come-hither&amp;#039; look instantly squashes any fussing and fighting,&amp;quot; admits Selena Cuffe, of Brooklyn, NY.  6. Play some music. Maybe a particular romantic tune reminds you both of an epic date night and immediately puts you in a better mood. Or perhaps one of you can provide the entertainment. &amp;quot;Whenever my husband and I are in a fight, I step away and write a song about the situation. Something about my guitar and vocals calms him down, and he&amp;#039;s able to listen to my side of the story. It&amp;#039;s all about knowing how your guy listens. If you just keep yelling it will never go anywhere,&amp;quot; says Leanna May Patterson, lead singer of The Whiskey Circle in San Diego, CA. 7. Play with your pet. Believe it or not, Fido can make an excellent relationship counselor \u2014 without saying a single word. Keep your furry friend nearby during any heated debate at home, as Kelly Hadous of New York City does. &amp;quot;Any time my boyfriend and I are fighting, our adorable dog, Milo, comes next to one of us to cuddle. We both end up petting him and forgetting about the fight. He&amp;#039;s the perfect mediator,&amp;quot; she says. RELATED: 10 Ways Your Marriage Should Evolve 8. Mention your kids. Stephanie Adams-Nicolai of New York City says that going through family pictures can relieve tension during an argument &amp;quot;because looking at our son reminds us quickly of the love we have, the love we created and the love that continues to grow.&amp;quot; Bringing up children also works for Angela Todd, of West Mifflin, PA. &amp;quot;Our eldest was a micro preemie. When we&amp;#039;re heading into an argument, my partner&amp;#039;s likely to say, &amp;#039;Our kids are healthy, we&amp;#039;ve been through a lot together and it&amp;#039;s all going to be OK.&amp;#039;&amp;quot; 9. Imagine what life would be like without him. Warning: This is super-morbid, but it&amp;#039;s bound to put things in perspective really fast. &amp;quot;I picture my partner in a coffin. That usually centers me and stops the fight. In that brief moment, I realize that, alive, he&amp;#039;s a pain in the butt. But dead, he&amp;#039;s a pain that can&amp;#039;t take out the garbage. I recognize how much I&amp;#039;d miss him. When I remember that nobody will be here forever, I don&amp;#039;t waste my precious time fighting,&amp;quot; says Sylvana Joseph of Philadelphia. TELL US: How do you stop fights in your relationship? This story originally appeared on WomansDay.com "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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