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" I have been dating this guy for more than seven months, and I really thought I had a future with him. That is, until his mom decided that she hates me. The two of them are superclose! He says that he still wants to be with me, and I&amp;#039;ve even heard him on the phone with her, going on and on about how much he loves me and how important it is to him that she give me a chance. Still, she refuses to change her mind. Should I even bother sticking around? If so, how can I make things a little easier on all of us? Ugh, the dreaded monster-in-law (to be?) &amp;amp;#151; I think the best thing you can do is steer clear of this nightmare of a woman and let your guy sort out the whole mess himself. He&amp;#039;s the only one who will know what to say or do to change her mind. Plus, the more you try to get involved, the worse it might get. As for sticking around? Yes, you should. In fact, if anything positive has come out of this predicament, it&amp;#039;s that your guy has proved how much he cares about you. It&amp;#039;s not easy to stick up for your girlfriend when Mommie Dearest is doing everything in her manipulative power to tear you two lovebirds apart. Show him how much you appreciate his efforts. If he has a nasty showdown with his mom about you, don&amp;#039;t get angry or defensive or give him advice like &amp;quot;You should have told her this....&amp;quot; That&amp;#039;s exactly what she wants &amp;amp;#151; to pit you two against each other. Instead, let him know how much his support means to you and reassure him of your love. Although his mom is a bitch, be the bigger person. If you come across as the saint and she comes across as the spawn of Satan, that will only make him want to defend you more. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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