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"  &amp;quot;When I became a mom to my two beautiful daughters, Poet, 6, and Jagger, 4, I saw other women who looked like they really had this grown-up thing down. All around me, they would open their strollers with a flick of the wrist, not a hint of spit-up on their clothes or baby vomit in their hair. I stared at them in complete awe, wondering if there was a secret manual I had somehow missed. That&amp;#039;s when I turned to Twitter and Facebook, and found a whole group of people who felt just as clueless as I did--and the more I talked, the more they opened up about their own messy moments.I found comfort in documenting the &amp;quot;happy chaos&amp;quot; on my website, moonfrye.com, where I post about the worry, uncertainty, joy, and excitement of everyday life for thousands of women who, in turn, share what they know with me. I&amp;#039;m excited to pass on some collective wisdom. Got a problem? Let&amp;#039;s work it out--together.&amp;quot; Read Soleil&amp;#039;s latest girlfriend advice: &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m Sick of Mean Office Girls&amp;quot; &amp;quot;How Do I Tell Him He&amp;#039;s the Father?&amp;quot;  &amp;quot;My Stepkid is a Nightmare!&amp;quot; Talk to Soleil: Send questions about your complicated friend, family, marriage, or work situations to soleil@redbookmag.com and include your initials, age, and state, or tweet us @redbookmag with the hashtag #Soleil. Questions may be edited for clarity and length. Check out Soleil&amp;#039;s perfectly imperfect adventures in parenting on moonfrye. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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