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"My boyfriend and I have a long-distance relationship. To tide us over between visits, he really wants to have phone sex. I have no idea what to say, and I always feel foolish. Any advice? Phone sex is the perfect way to make a carnal connection when you and your man are apart. And while the thought of it may leave you speechless, tantalizing talk isn&amp;#039;t as tricky as you think. Just use your erotic imagination. Share your steamy desires, describe details from your favorite fantasy or tell him, step-by-step, what you wish you were doing to him. Remember, aural sex isn&amp;#039;t all talk and no action. Up the erotic ante by simultaneously masturbating. Explain to each other exactly what you&amp;#039;re doing (&amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m tracing circles on my inner thigh&amp;quot;) and how it&amp;#039;s feeling (&amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m getting so wet&amp;quot;). He&amp;#039;ll go nuts. Giving good phone is a lot easier -- and more fun -- if you get into a lusty mood before you dial his digits. Lie back and envision a supercharged bedroom scenario with your guy. Start stroking yourself, and when your pulse is pounding, give him a call. Since this is your first time starting sexy phone speak, you might be a little tongue-tied. But don&amp;#039;t feel forced to say something XXX-rated. Just chat with him as you normally would and ease into a more intimate exchange by saying something as simple as &amp;quot;I wish you were lying next to me.&amp;quot; Or lift his libido by reminding him of an incredibly hot sack session you had together. You&amp;#039;re guaranteed to get a rise out of him. If you aren&amp;#039;t comfortable initiating a kinky conversation, suggest your boyfriend take the lead. Close your eyes and concentrate on every wanton word. As you touch yourself, fantasize that you&amp;#039;re feeling his tantalizing fingers caressing your skin. If at first you feel shy, just moan or sigh while he narrates a naughty story. As the encounter escalates, you may be very surprised at the frisky phrases that pop out of your mouth. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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