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"    Men have roles \u2014 at work, as a father, as a husband, as a friend \u2014 and those roles have rules. But then there&amp;#039;s the other stuff \u2014 when suddenly there are no rules and everything is out of control. The Oh Sh!t Guide to Being a Man &amp;amp;gt;&amp;amp;gt; Published in the June/July 2013 issue Resist the urge to scream, at least in her presence, and take a few days to talk her through her options. Contact outside help. If she&amp;#039;s in love and wants to get married, have her talk to a therapist so she can sort through her feelings responsibly. If she wants to have an abortion, some medical centers that offer abortions also offer counseling. If she wants to look into adoption, ditto. Please note that you cannot make her do anything, and imposing your will on her will only backfire. If she is going to have the baby, talk to your insurance company as soon as possible. Usually there is no coverage for the baby of a dependent, so you should put your daughter on her own plan so that her baby&amp;#039;s medical needs will be covered under insurance. If your daughter is going to keep and raise the baby herself, contact a lawyer to establish paternity (and set terms for child support and custody) as soon as possible. Things get uglier the longer you wait.  With thanks to M. Patricia Marrison, lawyer and owner, Marrison Family Law, Colorado Springs, Colorado.    And what about when... Your Teenage Son Gets a Girl Pregnant? Contact the girl&amp;#039;s parents to make sure they know you&amp;#039;re ready to help manage the situation. Your son has no parental rights to the unborn child, but it&amp;#039;s important that everyone is aware of all the decisions. If the girl decides to keep the baby, contact a lawyer to establish paternity. Once the baby is born, split child-support payments with your son until he can afford to pay them himself. You don&amp;#039;t want him dropping out of school and/or compromising the rest of his life. He&amp;#039;s still a kid, and he&amp;#039;s got a future. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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