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"  If you pinch your cheeks when the cute UPS guy arrives, your secret is safe with us \u2014 and you don&amp;#039;t need to feel guilty. &amp;quot;Being attracted to other people after you&amp;#039;re taken is normal,&amp;quot; says Andrea Syrtash, an advice columnist and author of the new book Cheat on Your Husband (With Your Husband). &amp;quot;Women assume it means something is wrong at home, but I&amp;#039;m happily married and I&amp;#039;ve had crushes on everyone from the guy who checks me out at the grocery store to coworkers. It&amp;#039;s fleeting and fun. We&amp;#039;re social animals and need to connect with people.&amp;quot; In fact, if you bring home the rush you get from flirty exchanges, your connection with your partner can actually benefit from it. &amp;quot;When you have a crush, it reminds you that you&amp;#039;re a sensual, sexy woman, and every one of us needs that,&amp;quot; she says. &amp;quot;It can inspire you to channel that energy into your own marriage and flirt with your husband as well.&amp;quot; All that said, if a crush turns truly lustful or consumes your thoughts, it&amp;#039;s time to back off. &amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s normal to fantasize, but you&amp;#039;ll know you&amp;#039;re crossing the loyalty line if you start to conceal your interactions with your crush,&amp;quot; says Syrtash. That may be a signal that your relationship at home needs some special attention. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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