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" You already know it&amp;#039;s important for you and your guy to tell each other &amp;quot;I love you&amp;quot; \u2014 as often as possible. But you shouldn&amp;#039;t depend on those three little words to let your one-and-only know what&amp;#039;s in your heart. In fact, nonverbal displays of affection are often a better way to get through to the man in your life. &amp;quot;Guys tend to be action-oriented, so they feel less comfortable using words to express emotions,&amp;quot; says REDBOOK Love Network expert and psychiatrist Scott Haltzman, M.D., author of The Secrets of Happily Married Men. &amp;quot;They&amp;#039;ve seen enough Tom Hanks movies to know they&amp;#039;re supposed to always say &amp;#039;I love you,&amp;#039; but they&amp;#039;re not sure that words alone convey how they feel.&amp;quot;  Ready to let what you do speak louder than what you say? We asked REDBOOK readers and the men in their lives to share some sweet ideas. Plus, we added in some expert tips on how to give your love a boost without uttering a word.  &amp;quot;Sometimes I &amp;#039;write&amp;#039; a love message on my husband&amp;#039;s breakfast toast. Using cookie cutters, especially my Valentine&amp;#039;s Day set of hearts, I press one lightly into a slice of bread, just hard enough to imprint it, then I toast it. It never fails to bring a smile to his face.&amp;quot; \u2014Anita Crehan, Mason, NH  ROMANCE, REVISITED &amp;quot;Every now and then I leave a card saying how much I love and appreciate him under his pillow for him to find before he goes to sleep.&amp;quot; \u2014Cim Collins, Springfield, IL &amp;quot;My wife, Leigh Anne, sometimes has to travel for work, and when she gets home, I give her a small gift for every day she has been gone. I&amp;#039;ll set them on the kitchen table and wait for her to notice them \u2014 things like her favorite perfume, fresh flowers, or a cool piece of handmade jewelry. I love to spoil her!&amp;quot; \u2014John Montgomery, Birmingham, AL &amp;quot;I place special little love notes, cartoons, jokes, or small articles \u2014 sometimes racy ones \u2014 in her underwear drawer. She never knows what to expect next. She gets a big kick out of them and knows it is my way of saying I love her.&amp;quot; \u2014Joe Cirillo Jr., Englewood, FL &amp;quot;When I take a shower at night, I write messages on the fogged-up mirrors so they appear when he takes a shower in the morning before he goes to work.&amp;quot; \u2014Jackie Peirce, Oley, MAKE LIFE A LITTLE EASIER &amp;quot;My husband puts toothpaste on my toothbrush and leaves it lying on the sink for me every night before bed. He is the sweetest husband ever!&amp;quot; \u2014Lisa Wilkes-North, Heath, TX &amp;quot;I scour the TV listings for his favorite movies or a sporting event that I know he&amp;#039;d love to watch. I TiVo it without telling him, then surprise him with it on Saturday morning. Bonus: While he&amp;#039;s on the couch, I&amp;#039;ve just bought myself some me-time. Manicure, pedicure, here I come!&amp;quot; \u2014Cindy Panowicz, Grand Island, NE &amp;quot;Before my husband leaves for work, he sets the table for my breakfast. He lays out a bowl for cereal, a cup for orange juice, strawberries, a napkin, and a spoon. For a big, manly union guy, this is a really major step!&amp;quot; \u2014Patricia Armstrong, Danvers, MA &amp;quot;I love that my husband gets up every morning when I do. His job doesn&amp;#039;t start till 9, so he could easily sleep later than me, but he doesn&amp;#039;t. While I get ready, he gets our three kids dressed and loads them into the van with their backpacks. To me, this is one of the best ways he can say he loves us all.&amp;quot; \u2014Jeanette Dominguez, El Paso, TX SHOW YOUR APPRECIATION &amp;quot;We brag about each other when we&amp;#039;re out with our friends \u2014 even if it&amp;#039;s about something little, like, &amp;#039;Oh, Barry had the best idea the other day&amp;#039; or &amp;#039;Barry fixed the whatsit that&amp;#039;s been leaking!&amp;#039;&amp;quot; \u2014Jennifer Starr, Columbus, OH  &amp;quot;For Christmas, I bought a dictionary and went through it, highlighting all the definitions that describe him or remind me of him.&amp;quot; \u2014Jaynee Germond, Roseburg, OR  &amp;quot;Every morning before I get up, he leaves two folded towels in the bathroom for me for when I take a shower \u2014 one big towel for my body and a smaller towel for my head.&amp;quot; \u2014Amy Rossi-Espagnet, Atlanta  \u2022 EXPERT CHALLENGE: SHOW HIM YOUR GRATITUDE WITH A BEAR HUG &amp;quot;The number one complaint I hear from guys is they feel like they don&amp;#039;t get rewarded for the things they do, only told what they didn&amp;#039;t do. Next time your man takes out the trash without being asked or starts the coffee pot for you in the morning, reward him with a 30-second full-body hug. Guys are so physical \u2014 it&amp;#039;s easy and teasy.&amp;quot; \u2014Toni Coleman &amp;quot;In the wintertime I start my husband&amp;#039;s car in the morning so it will be toasty warm for him on his way to work.&amp;quot; \u2014Autumn Griffin, Canton, OH HIGH-SPEED SIGNS OF DEVOTION &amp;quot;I changed the banner on his cell phone to read &amp;#039;I Love You&amp;#039; when he wasn&amp;#039;t looking!&amp;quot; \u2014Becky White, Newton, AL &amp;quot;My husband and I send each other short e-mails to say what we are thinking about at that very moment. Once, he wrote me, &amp;#039;The new Brad Paisley song makes me think of you.&amp;#039; Now every time I hear it on the radio, I&amp;#039;m reminded how much my husband loves me.&amp;quot; \u2014Michelle Magnetti, Colorado Springs, CO &amp;quot;My husband gets up at 5:30 a.m., but he pulls his dresser drawers open the night before so the noise of them opening and closing won&amp;#039;t disturb me. Now, that&amp;#039;s love!&amp;quot; \u2014Connie Maynord, Bastrop, TX SEND A SECRET MESSAGE \u2022 EXPERT CHALLENGE: POINT THE WAY  &amp;quot;Here&amp;#039;s a suggestive sign he can&amp;#039;t miss: Leave a trail of Post-it notes in the hallway with arrows on them leading all the way to the bedroom.&amp;quot; \u2014Joyce Morley-Ball, Atlanta psychotherapist and author of Seeds for the Harvest of a Lifetime. &amp;quot;Every time we kiss, we do it three times, which stands for &amp;#039;I love you.&amp;#039; When my husband pulls out of the driveway in the morning, I stand at the door while he sets off the emergency light on his truck, also three times for &amp;#039;I love you.&amp;#039;&amp;quot; \u2014Peggy Clayton, Dubuque, IA \u2022 EXPERT CHALLENGE: DRAW HIM A MAP  &amp;quot;Use your eyeliner to give yourself a temporary tattoo \u2014 an arrow that starts at your navel and points down. Remember: Men are very visual!&amp;quot; \u2014Scott Haltzman, M.D. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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