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" Damn you, oxytocin. Why must you keep me from falling asleep after sex and instead force me to have The Talk? For those of you who don&amp;#039;t know, oxytocin is a hormone that&amp;#039;s released in a woman&amp;#039;s body following an orgasm and makes you want to bond with your guy after getting it on. And just a few hours ago, following some really, really good sex, with oxytocin flowing through my blood stream, I decided D. and I should discuss the future of our relationship. Ugh. But I&amp;#039;ll start at the beginning\u2026 D. was looking at the book earlier today and chose the Pleasure Pick-Me-Up. We started in GOT and just like the book instructs, he picked me up, cradling my butt so that he was standing and my legs were on either side of his hips, feet resting on the bed. He slipped out a few times and we had to return to the bed, where I slid onto him again. Then he lifted me up again, this time making sure to hold my butt tight against him. Surprisingly, I was able to thrust just by pushing my feet against the bed. We went at it like this for about 30 seconds then D. turned around and sat down on the bed. His legs were spread slightly, feet planted on the floor, and my knees were bent so that they were just under his armpits. Later, while flipping through the book after we finished, I saw that this position already exists in The Cosmo Kama Sutra. And there we were thinking we&amp;#039;d come up with something unique! Those Cosmo editors think of everything. The pose is called Row His Boat, and it&amp;#039;s meant to be done on a big chair, but I found the bed to work well. The only difference is that the guy has to lean back and put his weight on his arms rather than reclining, as he would in the chair. But D. said he liked leaning back because it allowed him to get a better view of my body. There was great clitoral stimulation and something about having my knees bent made it easier to orgasm. We finished within a few minutes. I have three words to describe this pose. So. Effing. Good. OK, in all fairness, I stole those words from D., who muttered them after we finished. &amp;quot;Agreed,&amp;quot; I said. If only that were the only thing I said. Instead, the oxytocin took over and I asked D. where he thought our relationship was heading. He said what he always says\u2014that he&amp;#039;s really happy with me and in fact, has never been this happy with someone before. Of course that makes me happy, but I guess I was looking for him to talk in the future tense, not the present tense. I dropped it, in an attempt to not ruin the hot sex we&amp;#039;d just had. But I&amp;#039;m still thinking about our conversation. How do you talk to your boyfriend about what&amp;#039;s going to happen down the road? Or do you think it shouldn&amp;#039;t be discussed and you should just see what happens? Oh, and have you found that bending your knees helps you climax? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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