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" April 16, 2009 I&amp;#039;m hella-paranoid that India is about to break up with me. I&amp;#039;ve been on the other side and I know the look. I know the body language. She&amp;#039;s about to hit the reject button and there&amp;#039;s nothing I can do to stop it.  How can I be so sure?  Exhibit 1: Her tweets lack a certain personality.  Namely me. She never mentions my name on Twitter. Ever. She writes about how she&amp;#039;s taking the kids to Playland or getting her car washed, but she never writes stuff like, &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m about to meet my man for dinner in the city&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;Psyched for movie night with Zach.&amp;quot; It&amp;#039;s like I rank lower on the import scale than &amp;quot;going to Whole Foods to pick up some organic grapes.&amp;quot; That&amp;#039;s a bad sign.  Exhibit 2: She closes her eyes during sex.  She never used to do this before \u2014 at least not that I remember. It&amp;#039;s incredibly demeaning. Is she falling asleep? Is she imagining she&amp;#039;s having sex with someone else? Is she so disgusted with me she can&amp;#039;t even look in my direction?  Exhibit 3: She picks fights over retarded things.  Just yesterday I left a closet door open in her room and she reamed me for it, saying that she wanted me to be less &amp;quot;spacey.&amp;quot; Harsh! I mean, it&amp;#039;s not like I forgot her birthday or something \u2014 I left a frickin&amp;#039; closet door open. She leaves hair in the sink all the time, but I don&amp;#039;t accuse her of getting all Kevin Spacey about it.  Exhibit 4: She got a new haircut.  And it&amp;#039;s really hot. Makes her look a lot younger, too. Normally I&amp;#039;d be thrilled about my girlfriend making improvements to her appearance. But I fear she didn&amp;#039;t do this for me. She did this to impress someone else. I don&amp;#039;t think she&amp;#039;s cheating, but maybe she&amp;#039;s thinking about it.  Exhibit 5: She doesn&amp;#039;t call back right away.  My feeling is when you&amp;#039;re really crazy about someone, you want to talk to them every minute \u2014 especially in the honeymoon stage when you can&amp;#039;t get enough of each other. But she&amp;#039;ll wait two, sometimes three hours to call me back. She always returns my calls, but I don&amp;#039;t get a sense of urgency about it \u2014 like she&amp;#039;s doing it because she has to, not because she wants to. So that&amp;#039;s where I&amp;#039;m at right now. And it&amp;#039;s not a fun place to be. Something has to give soon. Either I have to confront her or she has to just pull the plug, because I&amp;#039;m on edge and I&amp;#039;m not sure how long I can take it. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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