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"Blossoms shares why she won&amp;#x27;t read her husband&amp;#x27;s blog Dear Husband&amp;#x27;s Blog Readers: I heard you guys were wondering if I know about this bloggy thing my betrothed is doing on the Glamour website, and if I read it, and why. In order of these questions, let me tell you: Yes, I know about it (we&amp;#x27;re honest with each other!), no, I don&amp;#x27;t read it, and here&amp;#x27;s why. I don&amp;#x27;t read it because I see it as my husband&amp;#x27;s personal journal. And while there was a time I would have read my husband&amp;#x27;s personal journal (seriously), I&amp;#x27;m trying to grow up and respect his privacy. And yes, it&amp;#x27;s a journal read by thousands of women, but you guys don&amp;#x27;t know his real name--so it&amp;#x27;s still anonymous. I don&amp;#x27;t read the blog because I&amp;#x27;m old enough to have learned there are some things I don&amp;#x27;t want to know. I know my husband might engage in acts of self-pleasure, for instance, and that&amp;#x27;s fine with me as long as the specifics remain foggy. I know he looks with lustful thoughts at cute girls occasionally. Fine, but don&amp;#x27;t tell me about it. Just like I keep my very detailed Clive Owen fantasy to myself. I also don&amp;#x27;t want to know every complaint he has about me. I did read one blog entry once because he asked me to give him my edit on it. It was about 10 things about me that drive him crazy. I burst into tears and called a friend and said I married the wrong guy. I calmed down. My mistake wasn&amp;#x27;t in marrying him, though. My mistake was in reading that thing. Because I know he&amp;#x27;ll confront me about the stuff that he really needs to change, and for the stuff that doesn&amp;#x27;t reach that threshold, well, I&amp;#x27;m happy it doesn&amp;#x27;t. It&amp;#x27;s a marriage philosophy, really: I trust you, so I don&amp;#x27;t need access to your every thought. And I don&amp;#x27;t want access to your every thought. A famous philosopher once said that without some secrets, you are living in a totalitarian state. But here&amp;#x27;s the good part: I know all of you keep him honest. He tells me enough about your responses for me to realize you&amp;#x27;re like a thousand-woman conscience for him. Plus, you serve to inject a womanly perspective into his private thoughts, without that womanly perspective having to come from me. (You give him better advice than his boneheaded dude friends, I&amp;#x27;ll tell you that!) So really, I&amp;#x27;m lucky to have you guys out there to keep him honest. Thank you! Read more Married Jake &amp;amp;gt;"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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