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"You&amp;#x27;re not allowed to ask for either. Or at least not in my relationship&amp;amp;#133; Have you ever said anything in your relationship that, I don&amp;#x27;t know, backfired? Like one day J asked for a blow job and I told him &amp;quot;no&amp;quot; because when you ask for it, it ruins the mood and makes me not want to give one. Makes sense, right? Well, fast-forward a couple months to me walking home and seeing tons of beautiful flowers on display at the mini markets around town. I get to our place and tell J, &amp;quot;It would be so nice if you bought me some flowers. Our apartment could really use &amp;#x27;em!&amp;quot; His reply? &amp;quot;Not if you ask for them. Just like the blow jobs.&amp;quot; OUCH. But he did have a point&amp;amp;mdash;the surprise of your man bring you home flowers (or, ahem, performing an impromptu sexual act) is better when it&amp;#x27;s just that: a surprise. Not asked for. Not initiated by anyone other than Y-O-U because you are feeling generous and thinking about the other person. A gift is a gift, no matter the form. And, yes, I get J non-sexual gifts. Sometimes. But what do you think? Is it OK for your guy to ask for a blow job? How do you feel about your guy asking for a blow job? Umm, and how do you feel about asking for flowers? In the meantime I&amp;amp;#8217;m going buy myself some daisies and surprise J with some action when the mood strikes me. But tell me, has anything you ever said to your guy backfired like this? More on blow jobs... * What Men Want: The 10 Commandments of Blow Jobs * How to Give Him the Best Blow Job He&amp;#x27;s Ever Had * Sex Tip From a Guy (Friend): Blow Jobs are Better With that Head-Shakey Thing Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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