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" You know you&amp;#039;re just not that into someone when you find yourself signing up for 10Ks just so you have an excuse not to sleep over. True confession. Sort of. Date with Medievalist on Friday, and it was fine, and he&amp;#039;s a nice person, but there just aren&amp;#039;t any sparks. Specifically, THOSE kind of sparks. I went back to his apartment and, after\u2014you know\u2014he asked me to sleep over. And I was so torn, because, on one hand, it was late, and my apartment was all the way across town and I was so, so tired, but, on the other hand, I just knew I didn&amp;#039;t really want to sleep WITH him.So I fell asleep, and had, basically, the worst night ever\u2014tossing, turning, waking up every 10 minutes, and finally just leaving at 6am, where I exhaustedly fell asleep in my bed. I&amp;#039;m SO bad at sharing a bed with someone. So, anyway, next week I have two races in the AM, so I won&amp;#039;t have to think about it, but it still brings up the idea that, while I like HIM, and the idea of HIM, I&amp;#039;m just not that into him.  Anyway. A friend passed along a book she&amp;#039;d received called Not Tonight, Mr. Right: The Best (Don&amp;#039;t Get) Laid Plan for Finding and Marrying the Man of Your Dreams. In the book, the author believes that, under no circumstances, should ANYONE sleep with a guy until they&amp;#039;ve been dating exclusively for six months. What do you think? Do you have any hard and fast rules when it comes to sex while dating? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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