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"There are some questions about men that only a guy can answer. We asked the dudes at guyspeak.com (read more about them here), for their take on this dating conundrum: Q: I just started dating this guy, and we&amp;#x27;re so physically attracted to each other that we ended up having sex on our first date. Now he wants to step back to &amp;quot;take it slow&amp;quot; and wait on the sex to see if we can develop our relationship into something more. Is there a catch?! There is something to be said about making sure you&amp;#x27;ve got some solid bread before slathering on the sex-onnaise. This guy might be legit and wanting to make sure your foundation is in place. Is it suspect? That proof will be in his putting in the time and actually developing your relationship. Walks, dinners, phone calls, emails, museum nights and Socratic debate over a shared bowl of calamari. If things like this don&amp;#x27;t happen, and in its place are tumble weeds and crickets, then he was lying. Unfortunately, sometimes, man has sex, doesn&amp;#x27;t like the sex or the person and rather than having the balls to respectfully end it, he creates stories and fictitious plans. I hope that&amp;#x27;s not the case if you dig this dude. Take it slow, (as he suggests). See if he&amp;#x27;s peddling towards you or back&amp;amp;mdash;and respond accordingly. --Written by Amit Wehle for guyspeak.com Has a guy ever wanted to take it slow with you? How did it work out for you? More from guyspeak.com: * 5 Basic Rules For Getting It On * Do I have a second chance with a guy I slept with? * Does casual sex ever really exist between two people? * Friend GuySpeak on Facebook and follow them on Twitter. More Ways to Get Glamour Visit Shopglamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter. Add Glamour to your iGoogle homepage. Photo: Thinkstock "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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