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"  DEAR E. JEAN: What are my rights under international law? I live in the States. He lives in Zurich. We had a one-month intense foreign affair via e-mail. Then he came, he stayed, we loved! He&amp;#039;s brilliant, gorgeous, very successful, and he adores me. We still talk three times a week and text four times a day. In the beginning, we were talking about moving together to New York, but now, not so much. I&amp;#039;m a firm believer in &amp;quot;no rules&amp;quot; when it comes to love, but I want a plan. Marriage is not a priority, but I do want to be with him. I don&amp;#039;t feel comfortable asking, &amp;quot;What&amp;#039;s going to happen in the next year?&amp;quot; I want to believe he&amp;#039;s not making me feel that I can&amp;#039;t ask, but I think I know better. Though we&amp;#039;ve only been in the same vicinity for a month total, I&amp;#039;ve got something special here. Can I ask him when we&amp;#039;re pulling out the troops? \u2014Dare I Want More? DARE, DOLLFACE: No. No. Nooooooooooo. You may not ask him. What have you been doing? Reading self-help books about &amp;quot;communication&amp;quot; that were written by people who haven&amp;#039;t gotten laid in 20 years? Don&amp;#039;t be in such a hurry. It&amp;#039;s too soon. It&amp;#039;s too pushy. It&amp;#039;s too desperate. It strips the wonder. It strangles the charm. It will crush the romance. Write to me in a year\u2014then it may be time to talk. E-mail your questions to e.jean@askejean.com Related:Ask E. Jean: How Do I Find a Career I Feel Passionate About?Ask E. Jean: How Can I Get Myself to Stick With a Good Exercise and Diet Routine?Ask E. Jean: How to Handle a Cheating Husband "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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