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" My guy&amp;#039;s last girlfriend was apparently superadventurous in the sack, which I&amp;#039;m not. I&amp;#039;ve always felt insecure about sex, but my guy reassures me that I&amp;#039;m the best he&amp;#039;s ever had. He says all that kinky stuff wasn&amp;#039;t as satisfying as sex with me. Is he just trying to make me feel better? Look, you may not be some crazy, kinky sexual aficionado, but give yourself some credit. When he says that sex with you is more satisfying, he&amp;#039;s not lying. It&amp;#039;s a known fact that the more you love someone, the deeper and more meaningful the sex, for women and men. So I would take him at his word. That being said, what I want to know is why the hell he&amp;#039;d tell you about his ex-girlfriend&amp;#039;s sex habits in the first place? On the one hand, he&amp;#039;s giving you a compliment, but on the other hand, he&amp;#039;s saying you don&amp;#039;t stack up in the adventurous department. Sounds like passive-aggressive male behavior to me. When guys are too embarrassed to ask for something, we&amp;#039;ll talk about others (&amp;quot;I like how your friend Katie dresses&amp;quot;) as a way to hint at what we want. He&amp;#039;s obviously trying to give you a subtle nudge in a naughtier direction. You have two choices here: Either you drop the subject and accept that you&amp;#039;re the better lover or you find new ways to push your sexual boundaries. I&amp;#039;m not talking about whipping out the hot wax and blindfolds, but something within your comfort zone, like suggesting new sex positions or trying a sex toy. Come on, wouldn&amp;#039;t you rather blow his mind in bed than just merely &amp;quot;satisfy&amp;quot; him? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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