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"I&amp;#039;m not too keen on giving oral. I have a gag reflex, so I never really go all the way with it. How do I get over this &amp;quot;fear&amp;quot; of gagging on it? It&amp;#039;s a really common misconception that to give good head you have to take the whole penis in your mouth. You don&amp;#039;t, and there are plenty of gag-free ways to totally satisfy your man.   To start, just run your tongue up and down the entire length of his shaft. Then take him in your mouth, but only partway. One tantalizing trick: As his excitement \u2014 and size \u2014 escalates: Wrap your hand around the base of his penis, and gently squeeze or twist it as your mouth stimulates the rest of his shaft. Besides preventing his penis from going too far down your throat, grasping his member creates pressure, which adds to your boyfriend&amp;#039;s arousal.   Also, realize that the head of the penis is the most sensitive part, so focus a lot of attention on that, especially the underside (called the frenulum). Again, with your hand around the base, alternate between licking and sucking the tip. To keep his excitement at a fever pitch, vary the speed and pressure of your mouth moves.   As he becomes more aroused, especially when he nears orgasm, breathe through your nose to maintain a steady rhythm. If you don&amp;#039;t want to finish him off orally, switch to manual stimulation or intercourse.   Remember, there&amp;#039;s no absolute right or wrong way to have oral sex. It depends on what works for both of you, so experiment with various techniques until you figure out what you and your boyfriend like. Because, if you&amp;#039;re not enjoying what you&amp;#039;re doing, he won&amp;#039;t be having a good time either. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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