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" You&amp;#039;ve got it all backward, Benjamin Button. The phrase is not &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m going.&amp;quot; It&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m coming.&amp;quot; She hurries up and finishes because she thinks you&amp;#039;re about to leave. (People over 15 can usually time it.) And anyway, you can&amp;#039;t condition someone to come (note the verb) on cue. Orgasms require some tactile stimulation, no matter how inept. Otherwise, we&amp;#039;d all have them all day long. That&amp;#039;s not to say there can&amp;#039;t be conditioning with regard to sex. Michael Domjan did amazing things with domesticated quail over at the University of Texas at Austin&amp;#039;s Sexual Learning Laboratory. &amp;quot;We have shown that an artificial stimulus that is initially totally unrelated to sexual activity can become associated with copulation through a Pavlovian conditioning process.&amp;quot; If all goes well, he says, &amp;quot;these domesticated quail will, in fact, copulate with an artificial object.&amp;quot; (I realize this doesn&amp;#039;t apply to you. I just thought I ought to mention it in case anyone from the UT Austin board happens to be reading.) What I mean to say, Pavlov, is that you haven&amp;#039;t conditioned her; you&amp;#039;ve confused her. And I&amp;#039;d look again at the phrasing of your question, Sherlock Holmes. That &amp;quot;seems to&amp;quot; is telling. Got a sex question of your own? E-mail it to us at sex@esquire.com. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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