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"    Q: When my boyfriend and I first started dating, he told me that he&amp;#039;d just gotten out of a seven-year relationship. But three months in, I found out he was actually still married, though he&amp;#039;d been separated from his wife for four months. He told me he lied because he was ashamed. Despite all this, we love each other very much, and he and his ex have now officially filed for divorce. Should I continue to move forward with him, even though he lied? \u2014 T.R., 28, Georgia A: You have my sympathy! I once dated a guy who told me his divorce was final when he was, in fact, still married. He too claimed he was embarrassed for the mess that was his personal life. But it was the first of many lies to come, large and small. I&amp;#039;m not saying &amp;quot;once a liar, always a liar,&amp;quot; because circumstances always differ. Still, this untruth is a red flag. Moreover, if my math is correct, you two started dating after he&amp;#039;d been separated for only a month. That&amp;#039;s barely enough time for him to change his mailing address, much less heal from the loss of his marriage. My advice: Take a step back from the relationship until the divorce is final. If you feel just as strongly for each other after some time apart, you can move forward, sure that you&amp;#039;re doing the right thing. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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