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" Question I find it very difficult to get an erection, and when I do I soon lose it.  It can take up to 10 minutes of playing, even when it is the woman! This usually means that they get bored and &amp;amp;#8216;go off the boil&amp;amp;#8217;. When I do eventually get an erection, I ejaculate immediately at the slightest touch from the woman or when trying to enter her! I have had this problem right from the beginning of my sexual life. I approached my doctor who put me on antidepressants for a month and this had no effect! The doctor&amp;amp;#8217;s lack of interest has frightened me to not going back! It took me five years to get the courage to go, but now I can&amp;#039;t!  I don&amp;amp;#8217;t suffer from stress and I don&amp;amp;#8217;t go into sex position thinking there will be a problem! My girlfriend has tried getting me erect while I was sleeping to see if it was a mental problem, but it didn&amp;amp;#8217;t work! This problem is now becoming a large strain on my life! I have had a blood test and urine test &amp;amp;#8211; they were okay and there was no sign of diabetes! Please help as I am getting depressed: it has caused me to lose out on two relationships!  My current girlfriend says it doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t matter, but I can tell she is getting frustrated!   Answer David writes: Basically, you have premature ejaculation. But there&amp;#039;s a lot of other stuff going on as well and you need to get everything sorted. Sorry to hear things didn&amp;#039;t go well with your own doctor. You obviously need to see another one &amp;amp;#8211; or alternatively a therapist specialising in sex problems. To find a therapist, please begin by calling the family planning association&amp;#039;s (fpa) information service.. Finally, although you say that you &amp;#039;don&amp;#039;t suffer from stress&amp;#039;, your email absolutely reeks of it, I&amp;#039;m afraid. The fact that you finish every sentence with an exclamation mark suggests that it would really help you to calm down a bit. Let&amp;#039;s see what Christine has to say about that.  Good luck to you. Christine adds: Yes, I too feel that you are very tense about all of this &amp;amp;#8211; which is entirely understandable. But obviously this tension is not helping you. Can I suggest that you take a look at the factsheets I wrote on stress? If you can learn to be kinder to yourself, this alone will help you. Then if you can try to forget your bad experience with your own doctor, and put your faith in a new doctor &amp;amp;#8211; or therapist &amp;amp;#8211; who is recommended to you by the fpa, I&amp;#039;m sure you&amp;#039;ll soon begin to feel very much better. Yours sincerely Dr David Delvin, GP, and Christine Webber psychotherapist   Other Q&amp;amp;As Can I get NHS treatment for ED caused by medication? Can&amp;#039;t keep an erection, can&amp;#039;t ejaculate Erectile dysfunction at 28 Help for impotence I cannot maintain an erection I&amp;#039;ve started having problems maintaining an erection Impotent because of blood pressure treatment Incontinence and erectile dysfunction Lump makes erection painful  My new boyfriend has a problem keeping an erection Problems sustaining an erection When the condom comes out, the erection goes down Will Viagra help me?   Last updated 03.07.2014 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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