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"My husband hasn&amp;#039;t wanted sex for more than a year. He has zero sex drive and says he&amp;#039;s OK with it - but I most definitely am not. I don&amp;#039;t want to leave him but I don&amp;#039;t want a life without sex either. Would an affair be so bad in the circumstances? Yes, yes, yes, it would. Affairs can be toxic for all involved and I would never recommend them. But neither should you put up with a sexless marriage. I&amp;#039;m assuming he wasn&amp;#039;t always this way, which means that something&amp;#039;s gone wrong. Depression, anxiety, stress, grief, exhaustion and guilt are all passion killers, so check he&amp;#039;s not dealing with any of these. Saying he&amp;#039;s `OK&amp;#039; with it is not good enough: you need to tell him that being married means doing his best to meet the demands of the relationship, as well as meeting his own needs. If he&amp;#039;s not willing to work at it, you may have to ask yourself why you&amp;#039;re hanging on in there. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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