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" I brought a guy home after our second date, and when things started to heat up, I grabbed a condom from my bedside table...but he stopped me and said he wanted to take it slow! I was shocked and offended. Could he be telling the truth, or was he not that into me? Guys can&amp;amp;#146;t win. If we go fast, you think it&amp;amp;#146;s bad, and if we take it slow, you think it&amp;amp;#146;s bad. What the hell do you want from us?  Okay, I got that off my chest. Admittedly, his behavior is unusual. When the heat is on, most guys go full-speed ahead, even if deep down they know it&amp;amp;#146;s not a good idea. But why do you just assume he stopped because he wasn&amp;amp;#146;t into you? It sounds like you may have the issue, not him.  Maybe he has performance anxiety. Maybe he&amp;amp;#146;s a virgin. Maybe he&amp;amp;#146;s gay. Maybe he has an STD and put on the brakes as a courtesy. Or maybe, just maybe, he was telling the truth and worries that if you cross the line too early, it&amp;amp;#146;ll ruin the potential for a real relationship. Why is it cool for girls not to want to go too fast, but when guys do it, they&amp;amp;#146;re huge weirdos or insensitive a-holes?  Sorry, I got carried away again. Listen, you clearly like this guy, so give him another shot. You have to admire a dude who has the willpower to thwart you mid&amp;amp;#150;condom reach. That is not your stereotypical male. If by the fourth or fifth date he&amp;amp;#146;s still &amp;amp;#147;taking it slow&amp;amp;#148; and you&amp;amp;#146;re tired of waiting, then by all means, move on and find someone who&amp;amp;#146;s a better fit. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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