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"In my last post I spoke about what I meant by &amp;quot;submitting&amp;quot; to my husband. A radio listener heard me talking live on this subject last week and wrote in with a very interesting question. I&amp;#039;d love to see your take on it, and then I&amp;#039;ll give mine. (I know, it&amp;#039;s a shock I have an opinion.) As for now, I&amp;#039;m off to chat with Rex. As irony would have it, shortly after I blabbed about how we budget our money, I went ahead and bounced a check. (Hey, I never said I was perfect at financing. I said I was done fighting about it. Let&amp;#039;s see if I can keep that same composure tonight.) Here&amp;#039;s the letter. I&amp;#039;d love your feedback! (And so would Penny.) &amp;quot;Hi Andrea, I heard the insight that you and Mrs. Passmore had to offer on Santita&amp;#039;s show this morning. I was moved by something that you said that I have been desperately wrestling with, submission to my hubby, but you called it by another term, surrender.  It&amp;#039;s very, VERY difficult for me to submit to him, although I really, REALLY want to, because his income is not guaranteed income. Being that I am the sole/main-source breadwinner at times, I have a hard time relinquishing the power (of what I don&amp;#039;t know). I have a hard time allowing him to be the head of the household. To me, (and maybe I&amp;#039;m wrong), making the money = power (of what I don&amp;#039;t know). Sometimes, I have that, &amp;quot;you can&amp;#039;t tell me nothing&amp;quot; attitude because I work and make more money than he does. and, yes i know that is not the right attitude to have.....  However, I do want to surrender, SURRENDER to him and make our home a happier home. I have no problem surrendering to him in the bedroom. It&amp;#039;s just when it comes to the money and many other aspects of our lives, I want to always be in control. Please help he get to that place of surrender. PLEASE! Thanks, Penny&amp;quot; "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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