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" Dear E. Jean: I&amp;#039;m 33 and have always been in monogamous relationships. A couple of weeks ago, the man I&amp;#039;ve been seeing for eight months took me to a swingers party without telling me. Of course we had a big argument the following morning. He told me he was into this lifestyle and claimed I &amp;quot;just didn&amp;#039;t realize&amp;quot; that I&amp;#039;m also into this type of sexual activity. Since then he&amp;#039;s badgered me into going to parties and has kept insisting that I &amp;quot;play&amp;quot; with other people (making out, etc.). So finally I slept with a couple. He watched the whole thing without participating. Did it turn me on? Yes. But I had to be very drunk to do it. He wants me to keep doing it. I don&amp;#039;t know what to think! He gave me a ring the very morning after I slept with the couple for the first time. Is he weird? Is he in love with me? \u2014Too Conservative for Him? My enchanting numbskull: Many and varied are the ways of loving, but it seems to me it does not require five mojitos to realize that an old swinger coercing you into shagging a couple of strangers is not true love. Related:  Ask E. Jean: How Can I Erase the Memory of Her?  Related:  Ask E. Jean: Do You Believe in Love At First Sight?  Related:  Ask E. Jean: How to Start Over After an Affair  "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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