<http://schema.org/articleBody>
"  Dear E. Jean:  I&amp;#039;ve been secretly seeing someone for the past four years. We&amp;#039;re both married (he&amp;#039;s supposedly happy in his marriage; I&amp;#039;m definitely not). The sex is amazing. Recently, however, I&amp;#039;ve had the feeling that he may be seeing someone else\u2014besides me and his wife. I hadn&amp;#039;t heard from him, so I called several times and hung up after one ring (our signal). He never got back to me.  I thought he might be seeing a mystery woman. I was jealous and hurt, and wrote him a letter asking him why I hadn&amp;#039;t heard from him. He called me\u2014furious!\u2014and said how dare I send a letter to his home! Then he said it was over and hung up on me. I can&amp;#039;t believe he just ended it like that. I want to try to talk to him but I don&amp;#039;t know how. \u2014Sad and Confused  Sad, you delectable simpleton:  When contacting a secret lover, today&amp;#039;s entrepreneur employs the prepaid throwaway cell phone and Gmail, or simply changes her Facebook relationship status to &amp;quot;I hope it&amp;#039;s still complicated, or I&amp;#039;m going to tell your wife!&amp;quot;  Apropos: When tipping off a wife\u2014as you cruelly intended with that letter; don&amp;#039;t deny it!\u2014paper and pen have fallen into complete disuse (along with the &amp;quot;one ring&amp;quot; marketing device). Today&amp;#039;s enterprising rival simply starts a quick Gchat with the poor wife and sends her a link to a YouPorn video of her husband trying a new management plan with another woman&amp;#039;s panties.  But come on. You&amp;#039;ve been running a shoddy business, Miss Sad. As CEO of your marriage, you&amp;#039;re disreputable and unkind. Have the decency to either tell your husband the truth and ask his forgiveness, or close down the wedlock concession. E-mail your questions to e.jean@askejean.com "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
<http://www.elle.com/life-love/ask-e-jean/q-and-a/a10905/ask-e-jean-scorned-by-an-extramarital-affair-410370/?click=smart&kw=ist&src=smart&mag=ELM&link=-SMT-ELM>