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" \n1. Playing It Safe Can Backfire Most people see taking risks as opening themselves up to unnecessary, maybe even dangerous chances. But the truth is, avoiding risks won&amp;#039;t keep you safe, nor will it guarantee a smooth ride at work or in life. In fact, the opposite is often true. It&amp;#039;s like the monkey parable: A monkey sees a nut in a hole and reaches in to grab it. Once he&amp;#039;s closed his fist around it, he can&amp;#039;t get his hand back out of the narrow opening. Now he&amp;#039;s stuck. He can&amp;#039;t free himself unless he lets go of the nut, but because he&amp;#039;s afraid to lose it, he won&amp;#039;t let go. Trying to avoid risks is like clinging to that nut. You may think you&amp;#039;re playing it safe by holding on to what you have, but in reality, you&amp;#039;re just hindering your own progress. 2. Failing = Success The consequences of failure \u2014 just like the potential consequences of taking risks \u2014 are almost never as terrible as they seem. Just about anyone you can think of who&amp;#039;s a huge success has overcome failure to get where they are today \u2014 think of Michael Jordan, who was cut from his high school team, or J.K. Rowling, who was turned down by a number of publishers before one decided to take a chance on her manuscript about a young wizard named Harry Potter.  Related Video   3. Heed the Two-Step Rule Anyone can go the extra mile. Try to make a habit of taking the next step or two beyond what you&amp;#039;ve been asked to do.  A couple years ago, an article in one of Hearst&amp;#039;s magazines, House Beautiful, misidentified the legendary Est\u00E9e Lauder chairman, Leonard Lauder. Argh! It was an innocent mistake but an incredibly stupid one, and once I was told about it, I knew we needed to fess up immediately. It was a Friday before a holiday weekend. I got on the phone to Leonard&amp;#039;s office and learned from his assistant that he and his wife, Evelyn, were traveling in France. Hearing my desperation, the assistant gave me the number of his hotel in Paris. &amp;quot;Leonard, I&amp;#039;m sorry,&amp;quot; I said. &amp;quot;And most of all, I&amp;#039;m embarrassed.&amp;quot; Leonard laughed and told me all was forgiven. And as he later told an interviewer for a magazine article profiling me, he was pleased I&amp;#039;d gone to the trouble of tracking him down to apologize. 4. Give Up Control... Sometimes In any office environment, there are many factors you can&amp;#039;t control \u2014 the trickiest of which are often interpersonal. People get on each other&amp;#039;s nerves, step on each other&amp;#039;s toes, vie for each other&amp;#039;s jobs, and sometimes, at the other end of the spectrum, get inappropriately involved with each other. At one point much earlier in my career, I had a boss who was having an affair with a subordinate of his, an awkward situation that made all our lives more complicated. It would have been easy to get upset about the situation, but to what end? The only thing you can do is accept what you can&amp;#039;t change and work around it. That allows you to have a modicum of power over it.  Related Video   5. Show Your Ignorance The act of asking is one of the most important elements of success. All too often, people fear that asking questions reveals ignorance, yet the opposite is true. The root of the word ignorance, after all, is ignore. The minute you ask about something, you&amp;#039;ve taken a step toward understanding it. On the other hand, if you just ignore the fact that you don&amp;#039;t know, believe me, you won&amp;#039;t get away with that for long. 6. If You Think You Know the Answer, Check Again There&amp;#039;s an old saying among journalists: &amp;quot;If your mother says she loves you, check it.&amp;quot; And in fact, you can be sure that the minute you take something for granted, it won&amp;#039;t be what you thought it was. Take my name, for example. When I was in junior high, a skinny, awkward preteen with big dreams, I decided I wanted to be different. So one day, I changed the spelling of my name from Cathy to Cathie. Silly, I know...but what can I say? I can&amp;#039;t tell you how many times over the years I&amp;#039;ve received letters addressed to Cathy Black or Kathy Black or Kathleen Black. It seems like a little deal, but it&amp;#039;s a big deal to me...and it&amp;#039;s the quickest way to lower my opinion of the letter writer.  7. Sometimes You Have to Boss Your Boss When I watched the movie The Devil Wears Prada, one scene that stuck in my head was when the assistant, Andy, stood behind her boss Miranda&amp;#039;s shoulder at a party, whispering the names of guests as they approached. Smooth as satin, Miranda greeted each person, coming off as an attentive and caring hostess rather than the frosty, bored snob she really was. There&amp;#039;s no quicker, easier way to earn your boss&amp;#039;s respect and gratitude than helping her look good. 8. Have a No-Surprises Policy Never surprise your boss. If you have bad news, tell it. If you have good news, share it. For one thing, no one likes to feel out of the loop. And for another, hiding a crisis from someone who needs to know virtually guarantees the problem will be compounded. Think of your boss as a small woodland animal \u2014 make no startling moves or strange gestures. Do the work to make things easy on him or her.  9. Be a Little Naughty Rule breaking is an underappreciated and underutilized skill. If you look at any list of highly successful people, it&amp;#039;s invariably populated with rule breakers \u2014 from college dropouts like Bill Gates to female trailblazers like eBay&amp;#039;s Meg Whitman to Internet wunderkinds like Google cofounders Sergey Brin and Larry Page, who refused to believe that a little startup couldn&amp;#039;t take on the biggest, richest companies in cyberspace. All these people trusted their ideas and themselves enough to know which rules they could break. You can do the same. 10. It&amp;#039;s Not PC, But Looks Count The way you present yourself makes a huge difference in how people perceive you, and not just in a superficial way. People make judgments about your abilities, self-confidence, and savvy based in part on what you choose to wear and how you choose to carry yourself. When I was just out of college and looking for my first job, I wrangled an interview at Cond\u00E9 Nast, then one of the biggest magazine-publishing companies in New York. I dressed in a nice, conservative suit and felt pretty good about how I looked \u2014 right up to the moment I stepped into the elevator at the Cond\u00E9 Nast building. I immediately felt the penetrating gazes of half a dozen fashionably dressed young women as they looked me up and down, several of them clutching their Louis Vuitton bags. Suddenly, I felt like a complete hayseed. I couldn&amp;#039;t help but be self-conscious \u2014 exactly the opposite of how you want to feel going into an interview \u2014 and all because I hadn&amp;#039;t given enough thought that morning to how I should dress. The experience taught me a lesson I never forgot.  Your Burning Work Questions Answered Here, Cathie Black lends career-related advice to a few of our readers. Q: I recently landed my first job. Now I&amp;#039;m looking toward my first promotion. When can I expect to move from entry level to midlevel? \u2014Kathleen, 22 A: Wait a minute! How about concentrating on doing the job you were hired to do and making sure that you are doing it really, really well? Ambition and drive are very important attributes, but experience is also essential. Have a conversation with your boss about her goals for you. When you have achieved the goals you have both agreed upon, have another meeting with your boss, and express your desire to grow within the company. Q: I work with a lot of men. I wear skirts often but find stockings to be uncomfortable. Is it appropriate to go without them? \u2014Christine, 31 A: It depends on what is acceptable in your industry. For example, bare legs may be de rigueur in the worlds of fashion, beauty, advertising, and publishing, but at a very formal law firm, they could be seen as inappropriate. You never want to feel uncomfortable or make anyone else uncomfortable with your appearance at work, so look around. If your coworkers skip the stockings, you can too. If they wear them religiously, toe the line or invest in a fabulous pants suit! Q: I just started working at a new job in a laid-back place and noticed that a lot of my coworkers listen to their iPods while they do their work. Is it okay for me to do this if other people are? \u2014Megan, 19 A: It is always a good idea to take cues from colleagues if it is clear that their behavior is acceptable to management. Some people find it easier to concentrate if outside &amp;quot;office noise&amp;quot; is blocked by listening to an iPod. Personally, I would encourage you not to work with earphones. If you are in the early stages of your career, it is important to keep your eyes \u2014 and ears \u2014 open to everything. You&amp;#039;ll be surprised at how much you can learn just by being alert and engaged by the world around you. Q: I&amp;#039;m content in my job, but I feel like I could probably be doing more to be successful. What&amp;#039;s the best way to really shine? \u2014Jessica, 31 A: When you start off your question with &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m content,&amp;quot; it makes me think you are possibly becoming complacent in your work. Are you bored? If so, then it is time to reassess your goals. But if you feel that you still have more to contribute and if you are still engaged and happy at your current company, rather than looking for opportunities elsewhere, I recommend a conversation with your boss and the HR department to map out a plan for your future growth. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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