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"Q: My boyfriend and I are best friends and he is the only one for me in the whole school. Nothing could change that until Bridget came to our school and became popular and decided that she wanted my boyfriend. I knew before we went out we would have this problem because a lot of girls like him. Girls, mainly Bridget, act like my friend then they back stab me and try to take my boyfriend. He is a nice person and being rude to them is not in his nature. That&amp;#039;s why I like him so much. I trust him but not her! How can I handle her with class, not become the joke of the school, and still have the man of my dreams? - Too Trusting?   A: If you trust him, there really isn&amp;#039;t anything for you to worry about. You don&amp;#039;t have to &amp;quot;handle&amp;quot; Bridget. Let her know that you are aware that she&amp;#039;s faking friendship and that you are disappointed. Then let her go. No need to get into a screaming cat-fight. Your boyfriend should be supportive of you and treat her the same way you do. People only get away with being fake when we let them.   You should make sure that you aren&amp;#039;t incorrectly assuming that every girl wants to take your boyfriend. Just because they&amp;#039;re nice to him, maybe even a little giggly and flirty, that doesn&amp;#039;t mean they&amp;#039;re trying to steal him. A lot of girls don&amp;#039;t know any other way to behave around guys. They just naturally turn into babbling airheads. It looks and sounds like they&amp;#039;re flirting, but they&amp;#039;re really just nervous. Think about that before you act. Is it possible you have a jealousy problem? My friend is homicidal...she has an urge to kill. I&amp;#039;m her sole confidant in this and we&amp;#039;re both scared. She has expressly told me she&amp;#039;s not going to see a counselor, teacher, or anyone. Is there anything that I can do to help? - Witness  It is your duty as a friend and as a human being to tell someone about your friend&amp;#039;s problem. Whenever there has been a Columbine type tragedy, we hear about how other kids heard the killers talk about what they were going to do but nobody did anything and then it was too late. They always say, &amp;quot;I never thought they were actually going to do it.&amp;quot; It&amp;#039;s not your job to figure out whether or not she really means it and it&amp;#039;s not your job to be her therapist.   You should tell your school guidance counselor or a teacher or tell your parents and have them talk to the school. Your friend will go to a therapist because she won&amp;#039;t have a choice in the matter...and why should she have a choice? She&amp;#039;s clearly not right in the head!   She may get mad and end the friendship, but who needs a friend who wants to kill people? And after she gets some therapy and works through her problems, she may appreciate what you&amp;#039;ve done for her. She&amp;#039;s not happy now. After some counseling, she may be able to be happy in the future. I am a 36D bra size and I am dreading running the mile in gym. This may sound really stupid but my boobs bounce and they end up hurting. They slow me down and it&amp;#039;s extremely embarrassing even wearing both a sports bra and a regular bra together. My gym teacher and my guidance counselors are both guys and my mom thinks my reasoning is dumb. Is there any way I can get out of this? - Don&amp;#039;t Want to Be a Baywatch Babe  Your reasoning isn&amp;#039;t dumb. Running with your boobs bouncing all over the place can be extremely painful. Unfortunately, if your mother won&amp;#039;t support you, then the only way you can get out of it is to talk to the gym teacher or a guidance counselor yourself. Yes, it&amp;#039;s going to be embarrassing but maybe it will be a little less embarrassing than running in front of everyone. What you need to do is come up with an alternative to running. Ask if you can walk the mile instead, at a different time so you don&amp;#039;t feel embarrassed walking while the other kids whiz past you. That will show that you&amp;#039;re not being lazy but that you actually have a physical condition that make running painful. You could also ask your doctor or the school nurse to support you. Talking to a male teacher about boobs won&amp;#039;t be easy, but they are grownups and it&amp;#039;s not a big deal to them. If you really think it&amp;#039;s impossible, write out a note explaining your situation. Be sure to check the spelling and make sure you make you argue your point in an intelligent and logical way. They&amp;#039;re teachers and that&amp;#039;s important to them! Good luck! There&amp;#039;s this new girl in my class. She worships Hitler for his power. My mom says I shouldn&amp;#039;t be friends with her but she is really nice. Should I just be friends with her without my mom&amp;#039;s permission or should I just not get to know her?   - Fascist&amp;#039;s Friend You&amp;#039;ve got to admit it&amp;#039;s pretty sick to worship Hitler for anything. There have been a lot of powerful people throughout history and a lot of murderous psychos as well. But her boy Adolf has a body count that&amp;#039;s unrivalled. That said, chances are this girl is just trying to be &amp;quot;different.&amp;quot; Tell your mom that this could be an opportunity for you to be a positive influence in someone&amp;#039;s life. Ask her over for dinner and let your mom ask her what if she thinks it&amp;#039;s a cool use of power to kill millions of Jews, gypsies and homosexuals. Don&amp;#039;t attack her because then she&amp;#039;ll get defensive and she won&amp;#039;t listen. Discuss it and let her admit that she&amp;#039;s picked the wrong guy to worship. Maybe you can come up with some examples of people who&amp;#039;ve used their power in positive ways throughout history. This could be a lively and eye-opening conversation. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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