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" My boyfriend has a hard time climaxing unless I talk dirty during sex. The only problem is that I end up concentrating so much on what to say, I can&amp;#039;t stay focused on enjoying the experience. How can I do both? You won&amp;#039;t be so distracted if you verbalize what&amp;#039;s going on at the moment. Instead of getting hung up trying to sound like a porn star or come up with some erotic fantasy, just tell your man what you&amp;#039;re thinking or feeling.  For example, if you&amp;#039;re caressing him all over, say something like, &amp;quot;I love the way your hard-on feels in my hands.&amp;quot; Or, whisper in his ear what you&amp;#039;re going to do to him next. The anticipation of what&amp;#039;s about to happen will work him into a frenzy. You can also voice your own requests. Guys want to please their partners in bed, and they appreciate any direction they can get. So, don&amp;#039;t be shy about asking for what you want. And, when his touches send waves of excitement through your bod, praise his technique. Saying, &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;re making me so hot and wet,&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;You&amp;#039;re driving me wild!&amp;quot; will boost his ego...and his arousal. And pretty soon you&amp;#039;ll both be uttering the ultimate frisky phrase: &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m coming!&amp;quot; A line that&amp;#039;s so simple, yet so sexy. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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