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"Do you have that one friend who attracts male attention everywhere she goes, even if there are tons of other women around? I do. Ever wonder what her secret is? Let&amp;amp;#8217;s ask some guys&amp;amp;#133; You might be saying to yourself that her secret is probably that she&amp;amp;#8217;s gorgeous, but the thing is, I have lovely friends that get lots of attention, andI have other equally lovely friends that men never seem to notice. It&amp;amp;#8217;s definitely not all about looks. There are a lot of good-looking women in the world (hello, look at our readers!), so what makes men more likely to notice you amongst a sea of people? To get some insider tips, I asked a few guys to spill what makes a woman stand out in a crowd, or what would make them decide to approach a girl on a night out. Here&amp;amp;#8217;s what they had to say: &amp;quot;You assume that I&amp;#x27;ve ever gone up to a girl in a bar in my life, ha. But if I did, &amp;#x27;cute&amp;#x27;, not &amp;#x27;hot&amp;#x27;. It&amp;#x27;s a subtle difference, but there definitely is one. And in a small group. It&amp;#x27;s hard enough to go up to a girl when she&amp;#x27;s chatting with 2 or 3 friends, but outright impossible when she&amp;#x27;s with 6-7 girls. And of course, not already talking to a guy.&amp;quot;-Mike, 30 &amp;quot;1) Honestly, a girl who smiles and laughs a lot puts me at ease enough to actually talk to her. I don&amp;#x27;t even care if she&amp;#x27;s just humoring me! 2) A distinct personal style. Doesn&amp;#x27;t matter to me exactly what it is, but something that shows that she&amp;#x27;s confident about expressing herself. It could even just be one small thing, like an interesting ring.&amp;quot;-Lucas, 29 &amp;quot;There&amp;#x27;s one thing a woman can do to stand out in a crowd....make eye contact with me with a slight smile. Even if she isn&amp;#x27;t interested in me or me interested in her she will stand out in my mind. Although hopefully she&amp;#x27;s interested if she gives the little smile and eye contact. It doesn&amp;#x27;t matter what she looks like, what she&amp;#x27;s wearing, or how she looks....I&amp;#x27;ll remember her.&amp;quot; -Bryan, 32 &amp;quot;Well, I guess drink choice would be a pretty good indicator. If I would see a girl ordering a cosmo at a dive bar, I&amp;#x27;d be more than likely to avoid said girl. No offense to her and her drink choice, but through a long history of research (being in a fraternity and coming into contact with sorority girls) I&amp;#x27;m pretty sure we won&amp;#x27;t have much to discuss. Now if she is ordering a tall boy of Labatt or possibly a glass of wine (don&amp;#x27;t want to anger my wife, a wine-drinker) I was more likely to approach. Please note: I never approached girls in bars, I would mostly talk about approaching them and instead get amazingly drunk and wander home and lament that I didn&amp;#x27;t approach them. I guess another good indicator for me at least is if it looks like she isn&amp;#x27;t trying too hard. By that I mean, if she isn&amp;#x27;t wearing some impossibly low cut shirt or something meant to attract attention. That to me means that she does not have the time or energy to spend time speaking to someone who had a pick up line of basically, &amp;quot;so you...like stuff?&amp;quot; I&amp;#x27;d be more likely to be comfortable speaking to a girl if she looked like she just came from a day of hanging out with friends and had just stopped home to change into a slightly more fancy shirt.&amp;quot;-Ryan, 31 What do you think of the guys&amp;amp;#8217; answers? Are you surprised by what makes them notice a woman? This a man&amp;amp;#8217;s brain. This is a man&amp;amp;#8217;s brain on women: *What Guys Really Think: About One Night Stands and Sex On a First Date *What Guys Really Think: About Your Number (Yes, That Number) *What Guys Really Think About A-Cups Photo: Thinkstock "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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