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" \nAt first glance, Chris Brown seemed like the last celeb capable of the charges brought against him recently. The rising young star&amp;#039;s nice-guy image and affectionate exchanges with Rihanna are part of what makes this incident so shocking \u2014 and out of character. But according to Debbie Magids, PhD, &amp;quot;There are some major red flags that could foreshadow this kind of behavior.&amp;quot; Below, the signs that a guy could become violent.  He&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;too&amp;quot; nice It&amp;#039;s not human to be happy all the time. It&amp;#039;s normal to feel \u2014 and to show \u2014 a gamut of emotions. The guy who puts on a facade of perfection is especially alarming because he can do an emotional 180 in a matter of seconds, and it can catch you off guard. Be wary if he appears unnaturally calm and in control of his emotions. He doesn&amp;#039;t take disappointment well If your guy throws a tantrum every time things don&amp;#039;t go his way, it could mean he never learned how to handle setbacks as a child. Does he punch walls, break things, or erupt in a fit of rage when he&amp;#039;s met with a letdown? If so, it&amp;#039;s not beyond the realm of possibility that he could turn those aggressions on you one day. There&amp;#039;s violence in his family If your guy&amp;#039;s past includes emotional or physical abuse, there is a very high chance he&amp;#039;s hardwired to repeat those actions. While we don&amp;#039;t want to unfairly brand every guy raised in an unstable home, it is cause for concern, especially if he exhibits any of these other behaviors.  There&amp;#039;s violence in your family People wind up together because they &amp;quot;fit&amp;quot; in some way. If you were abused once before, it isn&amp;#039;t outside your reality to return to familiar territory, even if you know it isn&amp;#039;t right. Take an honest look at your own past; If there wasn&amp;#039;t physical abuse, maybe you dealt with emotional or verbal punches. Knowing that you may have a predisposition for violent guys could ensure that you don&amp;#039;t end up with one. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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