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"I&amp;amp;#8217;m here to help you navigate the sometimes impenetrable, inscrutable male mind and make dating a more pleasant and hopefully more fruitful experience. So please feel free to ask me anything via Twitter at @glamourmag #jake or via email smittenbloggers@gmail.com. Dear Jake, I&amp;#x27;ve been dating a guy around six months. He&amp;#x27;s recently divorced, so this sometimes makes me wonder: 1. Is he really into me, or am I just there to fill his loneliness? 2. If his marriage with his &amp;quot;perfect wife&amp;quot; did not work out&amp;amp;#8212;this is according to me because she has her master&amp;#x27;s and a good job&amp;amp;#8212;then what about our relationship? I&amp;#x27;ve already talked about these things with him but wanted to hear your opinion too. &amp;amp;#8212;Chris Dear Chris, You ask if he is really into you or just trying to fill his loneliness? That&amp;amp;#8217;s hard to say&amp;amp;#8212;but in a sense, aren&amp;amp;#8217;t all relationships in some way there to fill our loneliness? Is that bad? We&amp;amp;#8217;re always going to compare ourselves to our partner&amp;amp;#8217;s exes, and it&amp;amp;#8217;s almost always not healthy. As far as why his marriage to his &amp;amp;#8220;perfect wife&amp;amp;#8221; didn&amp;amp;#8217;t work out that really shouldn&amp;amp;#8217;t have anything to do with you and your relationship with him. The question is: Are you happy together? You mention how she has a master&amp;amp;#8217;s degree and a good job, and my sense is you feel somehow inadequate to her. But if the marriage failed, obviously something wasn&amp;amp;#8217;t right. As a divorced person myself, I know there were a lot of great things about my marriage and a lot of not-so-great things. No relationship is ever perfect. My marriage didn&amp;amp;#8217;t work out, but I still want to find love again, just as, perhaps, he does. So, try to dwell less on his past relationship and focus on the present one with you. For more advice, download Glamour&amp;#x27;s digital edition or pick up an issue on newsstands now. P.S. Do you have dating or relationship questions for Jake? Ask in the comments below, tweet him @glamourmag with #jake, or email smittenbloggers@gmail.com."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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