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" Dear E. Jean: I&amp;#039;m a 28-year-old television news producer in Atlanta, and I met a guy (a creative director at an ad agency) two weeks ago in a bar. We had fantastic chemistry. After dancing half the night, we went back to my place. It all felt so good until he took his shirt off. I ran my hand over his back, and he was covered in large moles! I got seriously turned off, couldn&amp;#039;t touch him, couldn&amp;#039;t even look at him. I said we were moving &amp;quot;too fast&amp;quot; and asked him to put his shirt back on. He stayed the night, so basically we made out. I have to admit I was not impressed with the way he kissed. In the morning, I just wanted him out of my bed. Frankly, I was desperate to get him out of my apartment. Okay, he was a lousy kisser and his moles got to me, but my question is: It&amp;#039;s been 13 days, so why haven&amp;#039;t I heard from him? What went wrong? I thought he liked me! Why hasn&amp;#039;t he called?\u2014Crazy, Stupid Crush Miss Crazy: Auntie Eeee will lose her faith in womankind if you&amp;#039;re sincerely asking why you haven&amp;#039;t &amp;quot;heard&amp;quot; from a chappy you couldn&amp;#039;t bear to &amp;quot;touch,&amp;quot; &amp;quot;look at,&amp;quot; kiss, or run your hand over. For future reference, if you want a man to call, tell him: &amp;quot;Don&amp;#039;t call me.&amp;quot; Men (and women\u2014as you so perfectly prove) are more turned on by a challenge than by an invitation. For more tips about calling (and cocktail coaching), go to DatingEJean.com. E-mail your questions to e.jean@askejean.com MORE E. JEAN:   Should You Delete Photos of Your Ex?  Is Your Boyfriend Making You Fat?  How To Get Him Out of Your Bed "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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