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" Sure, you hit it off with his parents and bonded with his buddies. But a less conspicuous milestone awaits you: your first vacation together. You&amp;#039;re thinking about moonlit beach walks; he&amp;#039;s thinking about whether he can handle the round-the-clock togetherness. Although we&amp;#039;d never let on, men are always searching for signs of whether we&amp;#039;ll click with a girl long-term or clash and burn, and traveling provides the perfect opportunity to collect that crucial info. Here are four ways to guarantee smooth sailing ... and a return trip. Pack Lightly Men don&amp;#039;t want to date women with baggage ... especially when we have to lug it. As much as we love to flex our muscles (real or imagined), we don&amp;#039;t want to risk a back injury because you insist on bringing 10-pound dumbbells for your daily toning session. Besides, when you pack six bags for a four-day trip, we wonder if every outing will be a major undertaking. Showing packing restraint pays off, as Kevin,* 28, points out. &amp;quot;My girlfriend is ready to go anywhere in 10 minutes, and she never travels with anything bigger than a tote bag,&amp;quot; he marvels. &amp;quot;That alone makes her a keeper.&amp;quot; Let It All Hang Out Somehow, strange little quirks seem more endearing when they&amp;#039;re unveiled on vacation. So by all means, hang your good-luck horseshoe on the bungalow door. He&amp;#039;ll love it. Why? When a man asks you to go away with him, he wants the real you, not the sanitized version. Your willingness to show your true colors proves that you have nothing to hide. &amp;quot;When I took my girlfriend on a cruise, she would sing cheesy songs in the shower,&amp;quot; remembers Jeremy, 30. &amp;quot;By the end of the trip, we were both in there singing off-key.&amp;quot; *Names have been changed.   Play Things by Ear For a guy, getting away means, well, getting away. The only agenda he wants to follow is one that lets him lounge freely. &amp;quot;When I took my ex-girlfriend to Maryland, I was expecting some peace and quiet,&amp;quot; recalls Dan, 23. &amp;quot;But she had the whole thing planned so that most of the weekend was spent running from one place to the next. When I said I wanted to relax, we had a fight ... and the trip ended early.&amp;quot; So whether you&amp;#039;re trekking across the Greek islands or just spending a weekend at a bed-and-breakfast, ditch the to-do list and wing it for once \u2014 spontaneity scores major points with guys. Pencil in Time Apart Be honest: No matter how much you dig your boyfriend, being connected at the hip for a week straight can wear on your nerves. So do yourself (and him) a big favor by going solo, whether it&amp;#039;s to the hotel gym for a quick workout or to the stores for souvenir shopping. &amp;quot;When we travel, there&amp;#039;s at least one day when my girlfriend kisses me good-bye and says, &amp;#039;I&amp;#039;m going to do my thing for a few hours. I&amp;#039;ll meet you for lunch,&amp;#039;&amp;quot; says Michael, 25. &amp;quot;Just that little bit of breathing room keeps us from getting at each other&amp;#039;s throats.&amp;quot; If you follow this woman&amp;#039;s lead, ladies, he won&amp;#039;t leave home without you. Vacation Stories Here, a few guys reveal their latest vacay experiences: The Good: &amp;quot;I lost my passport, and the girl I was seeing took control by calling the consulate. I saw how much she cared and how competent she was.&amp;quot; \u2014Nathan Small, 22 &amp;quot;Like an idiot, I didn&amp;#039;t wear sunscreen and got a major burn. But my girlfriend took good care of me so I would have to move as little as possible.&amp;quot; \u2014Michael Russell, 27 The Bad: &amp;quot;When we went to Canc\u00FAn, I wanted to party, but the girl I was seeing wanted a quiet, romantic getaway. I realized we just weren&amp;#039;t on the same page at all.&amp;quot; \u2014Carl Stephens, 27 &amp;quot;After we had sex, my girlfriend decided to reveal that she had forgotten to bring her birth control pills. I spent the rest of the time stressing about it.&amp;quot; \u2014Glinyer Piccirillo, 21 The Ugly: &amp;quot;My date left a notebook on the bed with a letter to her &amp;#039;boyfriend&amp;#039; saying how she was having such a good time on vacation with her &amp;#039;friend.&amp;#039;&amp;quot; \u2014Justin Prouty, 30 "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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