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"A longtime commenter recently stated that dirty talk doesn&amp;#039;t do it for her. In fact, she really despises it, despite having incredible sex with her mate. She simply can&amp;#039;t bring herself to use &amp;quot;those&amp;quot; words in the bedroom. (Or the garage. Or the patio. This married gal keeps the sparks alive, and good for her!) As a writer, I feel a bit differently. I don&amp;#039;t mind a little sassy talk. What is going to happen, sometimes more than what actually happens, feels thrilling. Words seduce me. They make me drunk. A six pack of abs? Pshaww. But an adjective used cleverly with a noun that rhymes with hick but describes a male body part? I&amp;#039;m gone. Part of the reason I adore country singer Brad Paisely is because of his words. He just makes me laugh. Take this song: &amp;quot;Every time you take a sip In this smokey atmosphere You press that bottle to your lips And I wish I was your beer And in the small there of your back Your jeans are playing peek-a-boo I&amp;#039;d like to see the other half Of that butterfly tattoo...&amp;quot; He goes on add: &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;d like to see you... out in the moonlight I&amp;#039;d like to kiss you... way back in the sticks I&amp;#039;d like to walk you through a field of wildflowers ...I&amp;#039;d like to check you for ticks.&amp;quot; Is this song going to cure cancer? Hardly. But words like this, combined with some rocking guitar and a sweet face, just makes me feel good.  Rex is no songwriter, but I sure love when he uses his nice words. It makes me want to use other not so nice ones in the bedroom.  And while my little tech god is a far cry from a romance writer, there&amp;#039;s other things Rex has done in the wordsmith department - like reading out loud. He and I read together on our honeymoon. This goes down as some of the most romantic and heartfelt times of my life. The stillness, the quiet, and the words... yup, those beautiful, intoxicating words... have permanently imprinted my soul.  It&amp;#039;s been awhile since we&amp;#039;ve done that. If anyone has a suggestion for a good fireside read, I&amp;#039;d love it. Meanwhile, I&amp;#039;d also love to know your thoughts on dirty talk. Or, as I like to put it, &amp;quot;aural&amp;quot; sex. After all, it&amp;#039;s what&amp;#039;s between the ears that is the best libido enhancer there is. (But if you happen to love your husband&amp;#039;s face, like I do mine, well... that works out nicely, too, now doesn&amp;#039;t it?) Happy Sunday!  *Photo from I-stock  "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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