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" D. and I seem to be back on the saddle. Almost literally. This morning, I decided that even if we were going through a bit of a rough spot emotionally, we needed to step it up physically. Which is why I resisted sending him any emails, texting him, calling him, Facebooking him, or otherwise inundating him with &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m here for you&amp;quot; messages. Instead, I sent him this email: To: D. From: S. Subject: bonin&amp;#039; Body: Please clear your schedule tonight. We will be trying the Twirl-a-Girl. All the best, S. Within a few minutes I got this reply: To: S. From: D. Re: bonin&amp;#039; Body: ha! Schedule cleared. Bed ready and waiting. Can you send a calendar invite to my junk? Screw emotions, right? When in doubt, win a guy over with humor and sex! We met up late night and I forced myself to be purely sex goddess-y, not girlfriend-y. No talking, no &amp;quot;How do you feel?&amp;quot;, just sex. As soon as we were in bed, I grabbed D.&amp;#039;s face and planted some hard, hot kisses on him \u2014 biting his bottom lip, pulling his hair a little, and moaning. Apparently his junk didn&amp;#039;t need the calendar invite because he was standing at attention anyway. I pushed D. down on the bed, straddled him, and started moving over him. After a minute, I leaned back on my hands, put my feet up by his head (trying very, very hard not to feel self-conscious) then slowly spun into Twirl-a-Girl. I thrust by lifting myself onto my hands and feet (think: how you imitate a crab walking) then lowering myself again. It was only slightly awkward, but I trusted the Cosmo Kama Sutra that this is a &amp;quot;surefire guy turn-on&amp;quot; and kept going. We went at it for a while...actually D. took sort of a long time to finish. But he said afterwards that it was \u2014 direct quote \u2014 &amp;quot;fucking hot&amp;quot;. I, on the other hand, have a few gripes: D. wasn&amp;#039;t easily able to manually stimulate me, I felt like I was doing all the work and it was a lot of work, and it wasn&amp;#039;t all that pleasurable. But D. looked pretty damn happy for the first time in the past day or two, so I&amp;#039;m happy. Sigh. I guess that&amp;#039;s what adult relationships are about sometimes. Do you dislike positions that leave you doing all the work? Or do you prefer to be the one in control? Do you find that your guy takes longer to finish when he&amp;#039;s stressed, like D.? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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