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"    Q: My fianc\u00E9 rants about his job frustrations every night, and I&amp;#039;m getting tired of deflecting all his negative energy. Why doesn&amp;#039;t he just make a change? Does he enjoy being miserable at his job? A: A job change would be best, but in this economy that&amp;#039;s easier said than done. Maybe he feels trapped. Remind him to appreciate what he has (employment), then encourage him to do something that makes him feel good when he&amp;#039;s not at work. If he has so much time to complain, then he has enough time to start a garden, fix up a bike, start running, coach a youth team, or volunteer at the ASPCA\u2014anything but wallow in self-pity. I&amp;#039;ve been there, by the way, and when my wife realized that empathy wasn&amp;#039;t working, she gave me a swift kick in the ass and told me what I was taking for granted. It worked. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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