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"When my man and I first started dating, he always worked out and ate healthfully. But recently, he&amp;#039;s been gaining weight like crazy. Meanwhile, I still look my best. I&amp;#039;m beginning to lose my physical attraction to him. How can I tell him nicely that he needs to lose some weight? The only reason many dudes work out in the first place is so chicks will be attracted to us. Once we have you, we lose some of our incentive to hit the gym. And men are really no different than women are when it comes to feeling down about something like disliking our job \u2014 we sometimes seek solace in party-size packages of Nutter Butters. So if there&amp;#039;s a larger emotional problem, you probably need to tackle that first.  That said, here&amp;#039;s the upside: Guys tend to be far less uptight than women are when it comes to comments about our weight. We can even have a sense of humor about it. So I doubt you need to pussyfoot around the issue as much as you think. If you were to say teasingly to your guy &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;m not sure your beer-and-nachos wonder diet is working out,&amp;quot; he would probably think you were cool for being honest and lighthearted about it.  What you must avoid is confessing that you&amp;#039;re losing your attraction to him. Telling him that will cause nothing but resentment and insecurity. Here&amp;#039;s the best solution: Make his weight-loss program a joint venture. Join a gym together, take him hiking, and start to eat healthy meals together. Sometimes it takes two to trim down. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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