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" I&amp;#039;m writing this blog a little late, because I just finished having a long girl talk with my roomie. You know those talks where it ends up taking 3 hours just to analyze one text or one date or one boy? We have those conversations a lot. My roommate is trying to navigate &amp;quot;defining the relationship&amp;quot; with the guy she has been seeing. She&amp;#039;s too nervous to have the talk, because she has a bad feeling about what the guy will say. In my opinion, he would be an idiot to pass up my BFF. She&amp;#039;s a total catch. I know, though, that sometimes it&amp;#039;s hard for guys (sorry dudes, I know I&amp;#039;m generalizing) to see what they have until it&amp;#039;s gone. That&amp;#039;s why I gave my roommate the following advice. Are You More Than Just Friends? Take This Quiz to Find Out If you have been seeing a guy that you really like for a few months (or however long it takes you to start feeling antsy for commitment), then it&amp;#039;s important that you feel comfortable enough to ask him where he sees the relationship going. If you have that &amp;quot;serious talk&amp;quot; and it doesn&amp;#039;t go well, end it. I&amp;#039;ve been in situations where you want to think that he&amp;#039;ll change his mind, or he just isn&amp;#039;t ready yet, but the bottom line is that it&amp;#039;s not worth it to wait around for someone that can&amp;#039;t decide if he really likes you or not. Relationships aren&amp;#039;t effortless, but they should seem like it at the very beginning. You shouldn&amp;#039;t feel stressed or worry constantly about whether or not the other person likes you. I told my roommate just to call this guy and get the awkward DTR convo over with. Best scenario? He says he really likes her and they live happily ever after, and she can stop stressing about &amp;quot;what they are.&amp;quot; Worst case scenario? He doesn&amp;#039;t like her back. And really, that&amp;#039;s not as bad as you think it is if you look at the long run: It&amp;#039;s better to find out that he doesn&amp;#039;t like you sooner rather than later. Don&amp;#039;t force things that don&amp;#039;t come easily; I would know! Have you ever had to initiate the DTR talk? How did you do it and are you glad you did it? Spill in the comments below! MORE:  Colton Haynes&amp;#039; Flirtexting Tips 6 Ways To Overhaul Your Love Life 10 Things Guys Don&amp;#039;t Really Care About "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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