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"  When was your first multiple orgasm?  Woman A: Age 16, I think. Woman B: I honestly can&amp;#039;t remember, but it was in my late teens sometime.   Did you give it to yourself the first time, or was it with a partner? Woman A: I had given myself multiple clitoral orgasms by masturbating ever since I was little, but the first time I experienced multiple vaginal/vaginal+clitoral orgasms was with a partner during intercourse. Woman B: I gave them to myself the first times, but not long after that I had them with my partner.   Did it surprise you?  Woman A: Yes, in a good way! Woman B: Only in so much as it was awesome. Actually the most surprising thing was how specific the stimulation had to be in order for it to happen. It&amp;#039;s basically sex math.   How do you generally need to be stimulated to have multiple orgasms? Woman A: I can have multiple orgasms through vaginal penetration, most often when coupled with clitoral stimulation. Woman B: First I need to be super-turned on. I need to draw out the foreplay or the porn-watching (if solo) well beyond what I usually do. I can only have a multiple on my first orgasm, I don&amp;#039;t know why that is, and the longer I delay having it, the more likely I am to have one. Also, I have to have both clitoral and vaginal stimulation. I&amp;#039;ve never had it any other way. Like I said, sex math.   How long does it take? Woman A: Maybe 10 to 15 minutes. It&amp;#039;s hard to say and depends on my partner. With my first boyfriend, if I was really turned on, I could have multiple orgasms in just five minutes or so. Woman B: The direct/focused stimulation part doesn&amp;#039;t take long at all. Five minutes max. It&amp;#039;s the teasing it out at the start that takes forever. Or like, 45 minutes. Maybe more? The whole process is faster if I do it compared with doing it with someone.   How much foreplay is required?  Woman A: Again, that depends on how turned on I am to begin with. Probably 10 to 15 minutes of foreplay in most cases. Woman B: So much. Like, all the foreplay. And given that I know I can have one orgasm in 15 minutes, the waiting and drawing it out is the hardest part of having a multiple orgasm.   Can you describe how it feels? Woman A: The first orgasm feels the same as when I have only one (obviously), but the subsequent ones are usually a little painful but in a good way. I feel a little out of it when I start to have multiple orgasms and feel a little overwhelmed by the feeling. It feels like my body is out of my control, which again feels good but in a strange way. It&amp;#039;s hard to describe, but I&amp;#039;d say having multiple orgasms feels a lot different from having only one. Woman B: Really amazing. As the first one trails off, the second wave starts to follow, and then it rushes really fast into the second orgasm. I&amp;#039;ve never had more than two. But to be honest, some single orgasms feel almost as good. I don&amp;#039;t know if this is common, but my orgasms vary so much. Some are disappointing, others are out of this world. The multiples vary the same way.   Can you have an orgasm just from penetration? Woman A: Yes, and I am very thankful for that! Woman B: Yes. But it&amp;#039;s much easier from fingers and sex toys than from penises. Like, 10 to one.   How much do you think it&amp;#039;s due to a skilled partner and how much due to your body&amp;#039;s own capabilities? Woman A: I&amp;#039;ve achieved orgasm multiple times with partners who were not at all skilled, but it took a lot of effort on my part and wasn&amp;#039;t very enjoyable. More than being due to having a skilled partner, I think it&amp;#039;s due to being with someone who knows my body well and cares about pleasing me. Anyone who&amp;#039;s been able to help me achieve one orgasm has also succeeding in giving me multiple. Woman B: It&amp;#039;s mostly me. Say, 90 percent me, and the extra 10 percent is all about how well they take direction. It&amp;#039;s not like they have to execute some difficult maneuver or have an enormous penis, they just need to be open to direction.   What positions would you suggest to women interested in having multiple orgasms? Woman A: For me, missionary actually really works. It helps if the man&amp;#039;s pelvis is in direct contact with my clitoris the whole time, rather than using his or my hand to stimulate me there. Also, woman on top works very well because I can control the rhythm, pace, and depth. Woman B: For me, it&amp;#039;s from behind when I&amp;#039;m with a partner. If it&amp;#039;s masturbation, I need a vibrator/dildo that&amp;#039;s slightly curved so it hits my G-spot easily from a sitting position. My favorite without a doubt is the Lelo Soraya (I use a small clitoral stimulator simultaneously).   What&amp;#039;s the general attitude other women have when you tell them that you have multiple orgasms? Woman A: Impressed/jealous! Other women are often curious about what it feels like and how I achieve it, also. Woman B: It&amp;#039;s mixed. Some women think I&amp;#039;m lying (although I don&amp;#039;t know why I would \u2014 lying doesn&amp;#039;t give me orgasms). Some think I&amp;#039;m lucky. I really, really think I have orgasms frequently during sex (straight sex with a penis and also gay sex with fingering and dildos) because I masturbate a lot, at least that&amp;#039;s what I gather from talking to friends and women I date. I also experiment a lot with masturbation: I try different sex toys, different porn, I do it in different places and different positions. I also don&amp;#039;t know if this is normal, but I almost always ejaculate when I have a multiple.   Follow Anna on Twitter.   Photo Credit: Getty "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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