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"I&amp;amp;#8217;ve always been a fan of the word &amp;amp;#8220;grab.&amp;amp;#8221; It&amp;amp;#8217;s close to &amp;amp;#8220;snatch&amp;amp;#8221; but it&amp;amp;#8217;s more softer and sounds less like you&amp;amp;#8217;re a thief in the night: &amp;amp;#8220;Grab me some apples when you pass the fruit stand?&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8220;Can you grab some ice on your way over?&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8220;Grab those refugees before the warlord returns!&amp;amp;#8221; Or, in this sex tip, which shy readers should avoid: &amp;amp;#8220;Baby, grab my ass.&amp;amp;#8221; This is really a sex tip for both parties, because ass grabbery is really a two-way street. For you: Grabbing a guy&amp;amp;#8217;s ass, during coitus, is a many-layered action. Depending on location, severity, and tone, it can say everything from &amp;amp;#8220;I think your wee bum is cuter than a seal-pup,&amp;amp;#8221; to &amp;amp;#8220;I want you to enter me like a smart-bomb into a bunker.&amp;amp;#8221; Let&amp;amp;#8217;s focus on the latter kind, the kind that takes during sex. This is not a pinch, it is not a &amp;amp;#8220;I like you, honk honk,&amp;amp;#8221; like he does to your boobs when you come out of the shower. This is an &amp;amp;#8220;eff me hard&amp;amp;#8221; or &amp;amp;#8220;I want you inside me&amp;amp;#8221; squeeze that is both an act of encouragement, and act of lust, an act of love, and an act of control (potentially; you can use your grabbing like a joystick, or steering wheel, for angles and tension). That said, you&amp;amp;#8217;re not trying to cause bruising. Grab as hard as you like, but aim for the kind of tension you&amp;amp;#8217;d apply to a sticky doorknob; not doing chinups or holding on to dear life from a window ledge. (if you want to do a softer grab, and maybe move a finger gently and slowly towards his Miyati garage, it&amp;amp;#8217;s up to you&amp;amp;#8212;that&amp;amp;#8217;s some advanced ass grabbing). For him (and this applies to you, too): If your fella is the gentle sort, he may need to get told to get his grabbery going. And this doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t have to be un-sexy. Guys love to hear &amp;amp;#8220;grab my ass.&amp;amp;#8221; It&amp;amp;#8217;s hot, kinda dirty and is a hot way for us to be further in control. His grab, once you get the tension sorted out, should be similar to this grip on his motorcycle handlebars. He should feel free to move his hands and change position. And, like you, his thumps should look for naughty little badger dens to explore. Sometimes great sex can be about the slightest adjustments and eaily-forgettable actions. Grabbing the right flesh could give your sex life a whole new level of vibrancy to hold on to. Do you grab his butt during, before or after sex? Does he grab yours? What do you like to have grabbed? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. Can be totally Anonymous! More Sex Tips Glamour.com My Guide To Kinky Sex, Vol. 2: Biting How Sex With Someone New Can Involve Minimal &amp;quot;Ouch, Ouch, You&amp;#x27;re on My Hair&amp;quot; 6 Guys Tell Us What Foods Get Them In the Mood Photo: Thinkstock "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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