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" My boyfriend and I are engaged, and I&amp;#039;m superexcited about the wedding. I want to make it a really great party, and my fianc\u00E9 says that he does, too. The thing is, every time I ask for his opinion, he&amp;#039;s like &amp;quot;I don&amp;#039;t care. Whatever you want.&amp;quot; It&amp;#039;s making me feel like he doesn&amp;#039;t care. What do you think? Trust me, he cares about the wedding...but he doesn&amp;#039;t care if there are white roses in the centerpieces. Remember, he&amp;#039;s a guy &amp;amp;#151; he doesn&amp;#039;t have an opinion on which throw pillows to get for the sofa either. It&amp;#039;s no reflection on you or your life together; he&amp;#039;d just rather leave those details in your capable hands.If you want your fianc\u00E9 to be more involved in the planning, simplify the process. He&amp;#039;s not going to have a natural understanding of flowers and wedding invitations &amp;amp;#151; or any inclination to learn &amp;amp;#151; so do the research yourself. Then, rather than come at him with tons of choices, present him with two or three options and ask him to decide between them. Also, only ask for his opinion if you&amp;#039;re really prepared to hear it. Let&amp;#039;s be honest: In some cases, you simply want to make sure he agrees with your picks, and if he doesn&amp;#039;t, you jump down his throat. Finally, give your dude ownership over part of the planning. For example, let him hire the band or the photographer, or ask if he wants to map out the honeymoon. These are areas he might give a crap about, so he can get excited about the wedding, and you&amp;#039;ll finally feel like he&amp;#039;s contributing. Word of advice, though: If you don&amp;#039;t want a rib-and-chicken-wing buffet on your big day, don&amp;#039;t put him in charge of the catering. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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