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"  Masturbation \u2014 there, we said it. Touching yourself might feel taboo and you might be embarrassed to talk about it, but exploring your sexuality is totally normal. It&amp;#039;s a healthy way to learn about yourself and your body, so you feel more comfortable when you&amp;#039;re ready to have a sexual partner. (And hey, it&amp;#039;s fun and feels good, too.) If you think you&amp;#039;re the only one of your friends who has done it, you&amp;#039;re probably not. Here, 18 girls open up about how they do it, how often they do it, and all the complicated feelings (pleasure, empowerment, happiness, embarrassment) that go along with it.   1. &amp;quot;I was 13 or 14 when I masturbated for the first time. I was watching TV with my grandma \u2014 I think it was Modern Family \u2014 and they brought up masturbation. I had no idea at that time what it even meant, but handy ol&amp;#039; Google quickly filled me in. I masturbated for the first time shortly after that. It was awkward at first. I tried the whole shower head thing to see what all the hype was about, but it didn&amp;#039;t work for me. I probably masturbate twice a week now. I come from a very religious family, so I thought it was something to be ashamed of. Now, it&amp;#039;s completely different. A girl&amp;#039;s got needs.&amp;quot; \u2014 Spencer, 17 2. &amp;quot;I was 15 years old when it first happened. Up until a few months ago, I was COMPLETELY embarrassed about masturbation. Each time I did it, I was ashamed that it happened and wished that it didn&amp;#039;t. I knew this feeling would occur afterwards, but I always did it anyways. However, now that I&amp;#039;m entering college and defining who I am, I am realizing that it isn&amp;#039;t something I should be ashamed of. I can&amp;#039;t be the only one who does it, right? The feminist in me has given me the ability to feel empowered and in control of myself and what I want each time it happens.&amp;quot; \u2014 Malia, 18 3. &amp;quot;I use my hand, read sexy stories, and fantasize about past experiences. I masturbate quite frequently actually \u2014 at least four times a week. I&amp;#039;m an open book when it comes to literally anything else, but when it comes to masturbation, I&amp;#039;d never admit to doing it. Honestly, typing, or even saying the words &amp;#039;I masturbate,&amp;#039; feels so foreign and taboo. I&amp;#039;m not ashamed of doing it, I&amp;#039;m just super secretive about it.&amp;quot; \u2014 Noelle, 17 4. &amp;quot;I started experimenting with masturbation last year. I was a little nervous about it, but when I attempted it, I felt a little pleasure and wasn&amp;#039;t so turned off by the idea anymore. I usually do it before I go to bed so I fall asleep better. At first, I used a pillow to masturbate and just recently switched to doing it myself. There&amp;#039;s so many good things that come from having an orgasm so why wouldn&amp;#039;t you? You&amp;#039;ve got to learn what you like and figure yourself out before someone else can.&amp;quot; \u2014 Annaka, 17 5. &amp;quot;I started when I was 17. I had my first orgasm, and after that, it became something I had to do every night. I just tend to use clitoral stimulation because it&amp;#039;s foolproof for me and it&amp;#039;s what I am most comfortable with at the moment.&amp;quot; \u2014 Jackie, 19 6. &amp;quot;I was 19 years old and had just gotten out of a pretty bad relationship. One day when I was sad, my best friend/roommate said I need to lock myself in my room, explore my body and love myself. Ever since, I&amp;#039;ve been very open to masturbating and truthfully regret not pleasuring myself sooner. Since then, I would say I regularly masturbate maybe three times a week, whenever I have free time in my bed really. I use my hand and read stories from time to time. It&amp;#039;s empowered me to take control of my body and dictate when and how I experience pleasure. In a society that prioritizes men&amp;#039;s sexual pleasure over women&amp;#039;s, I take pride in knowing that I love myself and deserve all the pleasure I want and enjoy.&amp;quot; \u2014 Avery, 22 7. &amp;quot;My mom told me once that she saw me playing with myself when I was a toddler, but the first time I can remember masturbating was in my early teens, maybe 13 or 14. I think it was to a fan fiction. It was pretty clumsy, and I recall being more embarrassed and worried that someone would walk in on me than focused on pleasure. Now, it makes me feel happy and satisfied. It&amp;#039;s nice to be able to take pleasure into your own hands... literally.&amp;quot; \u2014 Megan, 19  8. &amp;quot;I usually masturbate once a day. I have to have visuals, so I watch porn. It&amp;#039;s hard for me to just imagine stuff. I&amp;#039;m not embarrassed that I masturbate; if we&amp;#039;re close enough and you ask me, I won&amp;#039;t deny it at all. Or sometimes when I&amp;#039;m texting my friends in the group chat I&amp;#039;ll be like, &amp;quot;brb gonna go mb.&amp;quot; It&amp;#039;s completely normal. I used to be really ashamed about it, though.&amp;quot; \u2014 Fran, 22 9. &amp;quot;I masturbate roughly one to three times a week. When I first started masturbating, I&amp;#039;d use either my fingers or my shower head. Now that I&amp;#039;m 18, I bought myself a vibrator.&amp;quot; \u2014 Jill, 18 10. &amp;quot;I was about 11 the first time I masturbated. It was kind of an accident. I had a pillow between my legs to keep them from sticking to each other, and next thing I knew, I was humping the pillow. I usually start off reading sexy stories on Tumblr or porn websites, hump my pillow, and then start to use my hand. I&amp;#039;ve never talked to anyone about masturbating because I feel like I&amp;#039;d get judged for doing it. But the older I get and the more I hear about women masturbating, the better I feel about it. I don&amp;#039;t think of masturbating as a bad thing anymore.&amp;quot; \u2014 Ada, 18 11. &amp;quot;I was probably like 15 my first time. It was a really awkward and clumsy experience, and I felt guilty for doing it. I just use my hand, and usually if I&amp;#039;m in the mood to do it, I really don&amp;#039;t need to think about anything else to help. It makes me feel proud that I&amp;#039;m secure enough with myself and my body to do it. I&amp;#039;m not ashamed at all because theres nothing wrong with doing it. It&amp;#039;s a great way to relieve stress.&amp;quot; \u2014 Michaela, 17 12. &amp;quot;I was 18 when I first tried. It was a super uncomfortable feeling. I think because I felt like it was a &amp;#039;dirty&amp;#039; thing to do \u2014 even though the reason I was trying it in the first place was to familiarize myself with my body while I&amp;#039;m alone so I&amp;#039;d be comfortable and know my body when I was with my boyfriend as our relationship got more serious. I just Googled how to do it. The website I read had a ton of different ways to do it. I used my shower head. I switched the water power setting to a soft little stream. I moved past feeling dirty or embarrassed about masturbating, because I realized how comfy I am with my body now. I&amp;#039;m proud that I&amp;#039;m so in tune with myself.&amp;quot; \u2014 Jordyn, 19 13. &amp;quot;I was 17 the first time I did it. At first, I didn&amp;#039;t know what to do, and then I kind of just learned to move my hips around to get different feelings. I like to fantasize about guys when I&amp;#039;m doing it and I let the faucet do all the work. I want to try it with a dildo or vibrator, but I just don&amp;#039;t have the guts to go buy one and risk getting caught with it in my room.&amp;quot; \u2014 Kelly, 19  14. &amp;quot;I&amp;#039;ve tried talking to my friends about masturbation. I think they felt uncomfortable and a little astonished that I was so open with my sexuality. I think masturbation is a completely normal and healthy expression of loving your body and who you are. Over the years, I&amp;#039;ve shifted from feeling guilty to feeling proud of my body.&amp;quot; \u2014 Lacey, 17 15. &amp;quot;I usually use my hand, but sometimes when I&amp;#039;m really worked up I use a mini vibrator to amp things up. Typically I watch steamy videos, but sometimes I will read written stories as well. The very first time I masturbated, when I was 11 or 12, I was thrilled by it. I instinctively knew it was something I needed to keep to myself, but I apparently didn&amp;#039;t do a very good job because about a week or so later, my mom came to talk to me about it (LOL). There was no shame involved, she just wanted me to make sure I only did it when I knew I had private time, as my little sister was in the house as well.&amp;quot; \u2014 Tori, 23 16. &amp;quot;I stumbled across masturbating when I was 14. I used my fingers to rub my clit really quickly because that&amp;#039;s how I thought you were &amp;#039;supposed&amp;#039; to do it. I Googled tips. Eventually realized I liked slower motions and also lying under the bathtub faucet. I would&amp;#039;ve rather died than admit that I did it in high school, but once I got to college, my friends started talking about it more openly. That helped me feel comfortable talking about it, too.&amp;quot; \u2014 Lauren, 22 17. &amp;quot;I was about nine or ten. I kind of stumbled upon it so it was pretty clumsily done. I remember being blown away with how good it felt. Since then, I just capitalized on what I felt and that&amp;#039;s how I began masturbating. I masturbate anytime I really feel the need to. Sometimes I fantasize about different situations, read sexy stories, and I have a special playlist of pornos on my iPhone&amp;#039;s Reading List that I watch. Growing up in a Christian community keeps me from talking so openly about it to my family, but my friends and I speak about it openly in our small circle.&amp;quot; \u2014 Carla, 18 18. &amp;quot;I was 12 years old the first time I masturbated. It was an overwhelming experience; I didn&amp;#039;t know what I was supposed to feel, and once I felt the rush, I didn&amp;#039;t expect to feel it so strongly. I mostly just use my hand, but I&amp;#039;ve used my shower head a couple times before too. I actually read a lot of young adult books that have sex scenes in them and that would get me really aroused too.&amp;quot; \u2014 Zaire, 21 Related: 15 Things Every Girl Needs to Know About Masturbation "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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