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" 1. You won&amp;#039;t find a husband if you can&amp;#039;t cook. If you can whip up a banging meal, more power to you. But 21st century men are not only looking for chicks that can make a mean pernil. Plus, who needs to cook when you&amp;#039;ve got delivery?  2. Men don&amp;#039;t like women with &amp;quot;bad attitudes.&amp;quot; By &amp;quot;bad attitudes&amp;quot; abuela meant women with an opinion. This whole &amp;quot;be a doormat&amp;quot; advice is beyond outdated, because there&amp;#039;s nothing sexier than an educated woman with something to say. Playing dumb was never cute. 3. Stick it out until the end, no matter what.  Yes, loyalty just runs deep in Latinas&amp;#039; blood, but there should be nothing that keeps you tied down in an unhappy relationship, even if you have kids. 4. You have to get married and have kids before you&amp;#039;re 30. The truth is, our 20-something years should be reserved for getting a feel for what we want, establishing our careers, and making stupid mistakes. Don&amp;#039;t ever rush to marry and have kids just because you feel like you have to \u2014 do it when you want to. 5. The man should always make the most money.  Although women \u2014 especially Latinas \u2014 still don&amp;#039;t make as much money as men, there are plenty of women kicking ass, taking names, and brining in way more dough than hombres could ever dream of and that should make you feel really damn good, not guilty.  Read: 10 of Abuela&amp;#039;s Ridiculous Latin Remedies. Follow Jelani on Twitter.  Image: Getty "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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