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"  Listen: We could go on and on about the do&amp;#039;s and don&amp;#039;t&amp;#039;s of our sexual preferences, but there is one really simple thing that women can do that would lead to better, more satisfying sex for everyone involved. Watch more porn. We know, we know: Porn is demeaning and the women look like cartoon characters and the guys are all on steroids. But just as people who read a lot of books tend to be smarter, women who watch at least a little porn tend to be better in bed. And the truth is porn isn&amp;#039;t what it used to be: There&amp;#039;s so much variety now, and there are categories like female friendly, amateur, striptease, massage\u2014Fifty Shades of Porn! If you dig around on your own, you&amp;#039;ll be able to dial \u2028in on what makes you most comfortable and turned on. Related: Esquire Editors Explain: How to Talk to a Man Then show it to us. We may try to watch as much porn as we can without you finding out, but we&amp;#039;d much rather watch it with you, because 1) it&amp;#039;s kind of hot, and 2) it facilitates the kind of honest feedback that is all wrong mid-coitus. For instance: Is your pasty missionary-loving hunk of a man drilling when he should be teasing, pinching when he should be rubbing? Watch one of the video studs thrill his woman by performing oral sex with a little butt play and some gentle hair pulling. Tell him it looks fun. Or not. With porn, you can show us exactly what you want. Related: What Men Say and What They Really Mean Also, consider picking up new tricks. Over time we all settle into our own particular way of doing things, but that doesn&amp;#039;t mean it&amp;#039;s necessarily \u2028the right or best way of doing things. Not quite sure if your blowjob is where you&amp;#039;d like it to be? Watch all the ways it&amp;#039;s done by the pros, then try a few of them. Ask us afterward (always afterward) if we noticed the difference\u2014better or worse, we will notice a difference\u2014and adjust accordingly. We&amp;#039;ll do the same. Adult education is a wonderful thing. All that because of a little porn. Oh, and one last thing: Ball cupping is important\u2014so important. We&amp;#039;ll do anything to have our balls cupped. This article appeared in the May 2014 issue of ELLE magazine. Photo: Getty Images "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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