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"The idea that grown men are unable to identify and express their feelings is one of the great postmodern myths of our time. If a guy says he&amp;#x27;s not sure about you, that, in its way, is an answer to the negative--as hard as it is to hear it. It&amp;#x27;s time to send this particularly nasty bit of dating folklore the way of the dinosaurs. Who&amp;#x27;s with me? This is just another He&amp;#x27;s Just Not That Into You-esque timesuck, but guys--and some girls--will tell you differently. Ahh, don&amp;#x27;t listen! Here&amp;#x27;s why! According to Em and Lo&amp;#x27;s guy friends, sometimes dudes don&amp;#x27;t know, are scared, realize too late, need to be &amp;quot;pushed.&amp;quot; While some guys, obviously, are rather derpy about feeling their feelings, this applies more to the kind of person they are than it does their gender: There are plenty of girls who are equally as derpy. It&amp;#x27;s extremely tempting to entertain the notion that someone you really care about is still &amp;quot;figuring it out,&amp;quot; but... well, that&amp;#x27;s not always true. Internal Conversation That Must Be Had Re: The &amp;quot;Men Not Knowing&amp;quot; Theory But he&amp;#x27;s different. No, he&amp;#x27;s not. He&amp;#x27;s a guy, not a brush or a flowerpot. He is a person with feelings and as long as he has a mouth he can say it. I think it&amp;#x27;s just hard for him to say it. If he&amp;#x27;s not self-aware enough to know what his feelings are or articulate them on either side, he&amp;#x27;s emotionally stunted. Assume he doesn&amp;#x27;t and bail--you deserve to be with someone who knows how he feels and isn&amp;#x27;t afraid to say it. Maybe I should just give him time. Oh my God, don&amp;#x27;t do that! You&amp;#x27;re going to be dancing around him and acting evasive and crazy and then you&amp;#x27;ll wake up one day and literally be this witch. It&amp;#x27;s impossible to tell what he&amp;#x27;s thinking. You&amp;#x27;re not in Twilight. He&amp;#x27;s thinking about a sandwich he had earlier. I can&amp;#x27;t talk to anyone the way I talk to him. Please, you can send your cat videos to tons of other people (like me). I can&amp;#x27;t break up with him if there&amp;#x27;s still a chance he might love me. Yes, you can. I totally believe in you. Have you ever gone out with a guy who didn&amp;#x27;t know how he felt about you for an extended period of time? Did it work out for you or did you kick him to the curb? More dating advice: *How A 14th-Century Logician Changed My Dating Life (And Can Change Yours, Too) *Do You Know Couples Who Have Exceeded Their Expiration Date? *6 Ways to Know When That Guy Who Always Gchats You Is a Waste of Time Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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