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"Women are far from the only gender that worries about sex. Guys are supposed to be up for it all the time, and never insecure, but naturally there are fears we have to confront one the clothes come off, just like you. Here&amp;amp;#8217;s what some of my friends worry about most: &amp;amp;#8220;After six years of marriage, a lot of the stress goes out of sleeping together, and it becomes more about &amp;amp;#8216;Are we getting bored? Is our sex life still exciting&amp;amp;#8217;? One thing that I still worry about is not getting it up. It happens [to most guys] from time to time, and while it&amp;amp;#8217;s no big deal, it&amp;amp;#8217;s a mood killer. My wife doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t freak out or get mad, it&amp;amp;#8217;s more like, &amp;amp;#8216;There goes the next 20 minutes of fun I had planned&amp;amp;#8217;! And then we do something else.&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8212;Arjun, 29, insurance &amp;amp;#8220;The bra strap. I&amp;amp;#8217;m never guaranteed a win on that thing. I&amp;amp;#8217;ve had many successes, but the failures mean there&amp;amp;#8217;s just no certainty. I always worry that I&amp;amp;#8217;ll be fumbling with it and she&amp;amp;#8217;ll be thinking, This guy does NOT know what he&amp;amp;#8217;s doing. And it will be game over.&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8212;Sean, 25, banker &amp;amp;#8220;I&amp;amp;#8217;m a little big, I&amp;amp;#8217;ve been told, and I worry about making her uncomfortable. I want everyone to have a good time, including me, so I can be a little too gentle or cautious when we first start going.&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8212;Terrence, 25, bartender/guitarist &amp;amp;#8220;I worry that I won&amp;amp;#8217;t be able to make her come (first) with my mouth, and all the pressure will be on the coitus. I&amp;amp;#8217;m better at giving orgasms with my tongue.&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8212;Jonathan, 30, advertising exec &amp;amp;#8220;I worry that she&amp;amp;#8217;ll be super quiet. I don&amp;amp;#8217;t need crazy porn noises, but I appreciate a reaction; it&amp;amp;#8217;s a huge part of the experience. If she&amp;amp;#8217;s quiet, it&amp;amp;#8217;s not as hot, and it feels more like work.&amp;amp;#8221; &amp;amp;#8212;Michael, 21 student What&amp;#x27;s at the top of your list of worries when having sex? Have a question about Dating, Relationships, or Sex for Single John? Submit it here. Can be totally Anonymous! More on Hooking Up at Glamour.com Trojan Condoms Shares Some Fun Cross-Country Sex Statistics! Hooking Up: Racy Stats About Outdoor Sex! Hooking Up: 4 Guys Confess The Weird Things That Turn Them On More Ways to Get Glamour: NEW! Now You Can Read Glamour on Flipboard! Visit ShopGlamour.com for cute stuff starting at just $10! Download Glamour Magazine for your iPad--print subscribers, it&amp;amp;#8217;s now part of your subscription plan! Enter the latest Glamour sweepstakes! Follow us on Twitter. Photo: Thinkstock"^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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