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"  Do you ever go out sometimes and feel like guys aren&amp;#039;t giving you the attention you deserve, and you can&amp;#039;t figure out why? That used to happen to me too. Then I became a part-time &amp;quot;wingwoman&amp;quot; \u2014 a girl who helps guys meet chicks in bars by posing as the guys&amp;#039; platonic female friend. (Wingwoman services are available in many cities, including New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, Dallas, Miami, and Saint Louis.) While earning my wings, I learned lots of little tricks every single girl can use to improve her success with guys. Warning: Once you perfect these moves, you might find that you&amp;#039;re such a powerful man-magnet, you attract guys everywhere. I used to date a guy who asked me out at the ATM!  Wingtip #1: Go out in groups of no bigger than three. Larger groups of girls are supertough (read: intimidating) to approach. Three is a good number because your two friends can keep each other company when a guy walks up to chat with you. Wingtip #2: Hold a drink in your hand. Guys don&amp;#039;t want to be used. Meaning: They don&amp;#039;t want to buy you a drink right off the bat. My clients and I used to look for the girl with half a cocktail. That way, if she finishes her beverage while chatting with my guy, he could offer to buy her another to keep things moving. Wingtip #3: Smile genuinely. So obvious, right? But I can&amp;#039;t stress it enough \u2014 and I can&amp;#039;t believe I ever acted aloof in an attempt to seem sexier. Now I know that women smile all the time naturally (when we&amp;#039;re nervous, when we&amp;#039;re trying to be polite, etc.), so if you don&amp;#039;t do it at all, you look like an unapproachable bitch. Wingtip #4: Work the eye contact. To reel him in from across the room, tilt your chin down a bit and flash him a couple of sultry glances. (Guys love it when you look up at them \u2014 it makes them feel manly.) If the guy across the room is so gorgeous you have a hard time looking straight at him and are simply too nervous, fake it by focusing on the tiny area right between his eyes. He won&amp;#039;t be able to tell the difference. Wingtip #5: Don&amp;#039;t immediately ask him what he does. Some men think all women are gold diggers. A lot of my clients hated being asked what their job is. It&amp;#039;s that fear-of-being-used thing again. Wingtip #6 Make positive small talk. Once I started studying other women, I couldn&amp;#039;t believe how negative some of us appear. When you&amp;#039;re out on the town, you&amp;#039;re supposed to be having fun, and any complaint (&amp;quot;It&amp;#039;s hot in here!&amp;quot;), pessimism (&amp;quot;There will definitely be another terrorist attack&amp;quot;), or snarky quip (&amp;quot;Look at that chick&amp;#039;s belt \u2014 so 2002!&amp;quot;) pretty much pokes a hole in the fun-girl aura you should be projecting. Some better small-talk topics: recent vacations, favorite bands, hilarious movies. You can hit him with your deep, dark world-view some other time. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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