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"facebook dialogPinterest\n\nI hate telling my friends how I feel face-to-face. I text instead. I know I shouldn't, but it's what my group does. How do I stop? - Elizabeth, age 16_\n\nDear Elizabeth,\n\nI totally get it. Texting is so much easier than having to look someone in the eye and wonder how they're going to react. But - and it's a big but - texting actually makes conflict worse. Here's why:\n\nPeople act all kinds of crazy. When you're holding a piece of hardware in your hands and not looking someone in the eye, you say stuff differently. So does the person you're talking to. Throw any amount of anxiety, panic, anger or fear into the mix, and people start writing things they don't mean. They type impulsively. They don't think. Have you seen the movie \"Alien\" when the monster explodes out of that dude's stomach? It's kind of like that. Okay, not exactly, but you see where I'm going with this.Thanks for the memories. That girl (or guy) you fought with might save the text fight you had. Now she can whip out the phone whenever she feels like it and remind you of your temporary digital insanity. Do you love the features on your phone - like the camera and the MP3 player? Well you've got another one: it's a little grudge machine.Bring it on...and on....and on. Thought your fight was one-on-one? Not so much. She just forwarded what you wrote to her people, who are now on your back. You can never be sure what someone will do with what you write. Once it's out there, anyone can see it.Say What? So much drama starts because there's no way to really know what someone means. Capital letters, emoticons, exclamation points, abbreviations and the holy trinity of jk, lol, and hahaha get confusing and weird. You're already pretty anxious when you're having drama with someone online. You see what you want to see and often interpret the worst."^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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