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" Hi, E. Jean: I&amp;#039;m 25, and my boyfriend is 27. We&amp;#039;ve been together six months, and we&amp;#039;re talking marriage. There&amp;#039;s a sore point, however: In my iPhoto library on my computer, I have pictures of guy friends and ex-boyfriends. He wants me to delete them all! Is it fair to delete my memories? Isn&amp;#039;t he being overly possessive?\u2014Treasuring My Past Miss Treasure, My Tigress: Don&amp;#039;t delete! Do you want to give Auntie Eeee apoplexy? Each of those ex-boyfriends is a gem. Every chump, cad, prince, and asshole you&amp;#039;ve dated is a signpost in your life. How can you remember the lessons you learned about love and living if you can&amp;#039;t look at the chaps you were dumped by? Who owns your past? You or this current twit of a boyfriend? If you think he&amp;#039;s &amp;quot;the one,&amp;quot; then you haven&amp;#039;t heard the news. When a man tries to wipe out your past\u2014while invading your privacy\u2014it does not bode well for the future. Possessiveness is a serious flaw usually based in some insecurity. Reassure him that he&amp;#039;s the one, but if he can&amp;#039;t get over his craziness, the next time he mentions it, delete him. "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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