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"The computer is like the remote control&amp;amp;#8212;you can stay connected without getting off your butt. My sister and I have a friend in L.A. who has been emailing with a guy. He&amp;amp;#8217;s clearly interested in her, but he just continues with the chit-chat, back and forth, back and forth. He never asks her out, and she is frustrated. I was watching The Millionaire Matchmaker on TV this weekend, and the matchmaker, Patti Stanger (I love her), was talking about guys as hunters. She was trying to get a guy named Andrew to approach girls and be aggressive. She said guys in L.A. are lazy and don&amp;amp;#8217;t go after girls. (They really are, from what I remember of my USC days.) On the other hand, guys in New York City totally hunt and fish, but man, are they are quick to throw back their catches. My sister thinks our friend, rather than just stop responding, should casually write: &amp;amp;#8220;We should get coffee or a glass of wine next week.&amp;amp;#8221; She doesn&amp;amp;#8217;t have to pick the activity, time, or place (the date planning is his job), but just let him know that the emailing chit-chat is getting old and it&amp;#x27;s time to take it to the next step. She has nothing to lose. I agree with my sister&amp;amp;#8217;s advice. But it is annoying to have to take the bull by the horns. Why don&amp;amp;#8217;t men go after what they want? Do they not want anything bad enough? Are guys lazy in your town? What gives?? "^^<http://www.w3.org/2001/XMLSchema#string>
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