title: How do I handle deletes in react-apollo
body: <p>I have a mutation like</p>
  <pre><code>mutation deleteRecord($id: ID) {
    deleteRecord(id: $id) {
      id
    }
  }
  </code></pre>
  <p>and in another location I have a list of elements.</p>
  <p>Is there something better I could return from the server, and how should I update the list?</p>
  <p>More generally, what is best practice for handling deletes in apollo/graphql?</p>