title: how to collect user message in DM in Discord.js
body: <p>I'm trying to gather a user's response to my bot's message, but it's all happening in DMs. How can I complete this task with Discord.js (13.x)?</p>
  <pre><code>    const Discord = require('discord.js');
  const intents = new Discord.Intents(32767);
  const client = new Discord.Client({ intents });
  const config = require('./config.json');
  const privateMessage = require('./private-message');
  client.on('ready', () =&gt; {
      console.log('Ready!');
  
      privateMessage(client, '!match', 'hello please enter your birthday as this following format day/month ')
  
  })
  
  
  client.login(config.token)
  </code></pre>