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This week in “Spring Cleaning for Your Heart and Home” we are cleaning in our master bedroom and praying over our marriage as we go.
Today we prayed protection over our marriage as we scrub our walls and windows. Proactively praying for your marriage is a subject I am especially passionate about. We make sure that we protect so many other things in our lives, why shouldn’t we put as much effort int protecting our most important relationship on this earth?
Last year, my husband Nick & I spoke in a chapel service for the ministry he works for that serves Nascar about this topic.
You can build protective walls around your marriage, just as real and sheltering as the ones that enclose your home.
Here is a list of suggestions to plant protective a hedges to keep people and threats out of your sacred marriage relationship:
Avoid unnecessarily spending time with someone of the opposite sex. For instance, if you’re looking for a personal trainer at the local gym, choose someone of the same sex.
If you find yourself sharing things about yourself or your marriage that you haven’t or wouldn’t share with your spouse, that’s a red flag. Not all affairs are physical-an emotional affair is just as damaging.
Hedge 3: Stay in large, public settings.
Determine not to meet one-on-one with anyone of the opposite sex. If your coworker asks if he or she can join you for lunch, ask a third person to join you as well. If necessary, don’t hesitate to share the boundary you and your spouse have agreed upon in your marriage. You just might lead by example.
Hedge 4: Don’t be naïve.
Most people who end up in affairs don’t set out to have one. Infidelity usually begins with an innocent relationship that, in time, moves to an emotional depth that crosses a line of fidelity.
Hedge 5: Increase your investment at home.
Solid marriages are built by spending time together, laughing together, and playing together. If you aren’t dating your mate, set up dates for the coming months and make spending time together a priority.
Hedge 6: Pay attention to your thought-life.
When all you think about is your spouse’s faults, any other man or woman will look better. Make a list of the strengths that initially attracted you to your spouse. Increase encouragement and decrease criticism.
Hedge 7: Don’t play the comparison game.
We all make mistakes, have bad habits and annoying behaviors. When we compare a “new friend” to our spouse, it’s an unfair comparison because we aren’t seeing that person in a “living under the same roof, taking care of kids at 3 a.m., struggling to make ends meet” reality.
Hedge 8: Seek help.
Seeking help is a sign of strength, not weakness. A Christian counselor can provide valuable perspective and help set new strategies for a marriage that can go the distance.”
This list of  hedges came directly from the book “Hedges: Loving your marriage enough to protect it,” by Jerry B Jenkins.
So sweet sisters, as you evaluate the cleanliness of the walls & windows  in your bedroom, pray hard considering how to protect your marriage! God is faithful & his promises will affect the future of your marriage as you pray them.
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April 12, 2016September 15, 2017 AmyTerry 3 Comments
3 thoughts on “The Walls Around Your Bedroom and Your Marriage ”
April 12, 2016 at 11:12 pm
Hi Amy! I loved today’s blog post & listening to the MRO podcast with you & Nick. Jason & I have built protective walls around our marriage for many years especially when those “storms” came through and we were really struggling with the medical needs and safety of our daughter. God is so good! We feel so blessed that our families have met and paths have crossed! Many blessings to your family this week. 🙏🏻
April 13, 2016 at 2:24 am Author
We are so blessed getting to know your family Stacy! I am sure that season was very difficult and that those protective walls helped your family tremendously. What a testimony. God is so faithful to make us stronger through hardships. Looking forward to seeing you again soon!
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