Five men and nine women stand equally spaced around a circle in random order. The probability that every man stands diametrically opposite a woman is $\frac{m}{n},$ where $m$ and $n$ are relatively prime positive integers. Find $m+n.$
For simplicity purposes, we consider two arrangements different even if they only differ by rotations or reflections. In this way, there are $14!$ arrangements without restrictions.
First, there are $\binom{7}{5}$ ways to choose the man-woman diameters. Then, there are $10\cdot8\cdot6\cdot4\cdot2$ ways to place the five men each in a man-woman diameter. Finally, there are $9!$ ways to place the nine women without restrictions.
Together, the requested probability is \[\frac{\tbinom{7}{5}\cdot(10\cdot8\cdot6\cdot4\cdot2)\cdot9!}{14!} = \frac{21\cdot(10\cdot8\cdot6\cdot4\cdot2)}{14\cdot13\cdot12\cdot11\cdot10} = \frac{48}{143},\] from which the answer is $48+143 = \boxed{191}.$
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