For positive integers $m$ and $n$ such that $m+10<n+1$, both the mean and the median of the set $\{m, m+4, m+10, n+1, n+2, 2n\}$ are equal to $n$. What is $m+n$?
$\textbf{(A)}20\qquad\textbf{(B)}21\qquad\textbf{(C)}22\qquad\textbf{(D)}23\qquad\textbf{(E)}24$
The mean and median are \[\frac{3m+4n+17}{6}=\frac{m+n+11}{2}=n,\]so $3m+17=2n$ and $m+11=n$. Solving this gives $\left(m,n\right)=\left(5,16\right)$ for $m+n=\boxed{21}$. (trumpeter)