I just moved to the city. This is the first time that I have lived in the city. I need to find a hobby. I do not want the hobby to involve alcohol. I have been a part of AA for 1 year. I have not had alcohol for 15 months. I am taking heavy medicine. Sometimes I see funky things. I used to farm dairy cows. I do not miss dairy farming early mornings. I miss the peacefulness of dairy farming. I played basketball as a kid and in high school. After I stopped playing basketball things in my life went downhill. I haven't joined a basketball team yet but may start playing on a rec league with my friends. Playing sports keeps my mind in a good place. Meeting new people will be helpful to me.
I play music. I drink alcohol. I grew up on a small farm. I miss the home farm. I played basketball in elementary school. I enjoyed organized sports. I haven't played any sports as an adult. I was busy with lots of activities while I was in school. I'd like to make new friends. I love to host dinner parties. My parents had big parties. I grew up on a farm.
Have you thought about joining a basketball rec league as a way to make new friends? Oh gosh, Its been so long since I last played basketball that I think I would need to work off the rust before joining a rec league. How is the skill level in the rec league you're thinking about joining?  The skill level is from beginner to advanced for adults. It is suitable for anyone that wants to play. What skill level were you at when you last played? I think I'd have to start from square one with my skill level. Hopefully the muscle memory is still there from fourth grade, LOL.  Maybe I could play in a pickup game with you and your friends to try to ease into it before joining a rec league. Fourth grade! So long ago. You are definitely welcome to join us. What other organized sports have you played? That would be great! I also played a little bit of soccer in high school. Do you play soccer at all? No I haven't played soccer. I was only into basketball throughout school and then I had to stop as I got older. It is hard to stay in a positive mental place without an outlet. Especially without the peace of the farm. I hear you. I always felt like the grassy soccer field reminded me of the farm more than being stuck inside playing basketball. I think the fresh air definitely helps to keep a clear and happy mind. I agree. The alcohol used to get my mind right but it became so easy to abuse. How are you able to keep things in check without an outlet? Or do you have an outlet we haven't talked about? Music. 100% music. When I start playing my guitar everything just melts away. Have you tried learning to play? It makes for a great cheap hobby. Yes actually I have tried! I love it but I haven't touched it in a while since my learning was slow. Do you have any suggestions on how to get better? We should have a jam session and I'll help you get the rust off. I tend to have people over to play and have dinner on some weekends. It would be a great way to meet some new people in the city.