I do not want an open relationship. I am a traditional minded person.
I wanted to remarry. My boyfriend doesn't want an open relationship.
I was thinking about an open relationship myself, and wanted to let you know. I think its a good idea and that being traditional is just boring.  I'm actually rethinking the idea. Maybe I just don't want to be with this guy. If that's what you think is best for you. Are you two living together, would you have to find a new place to live? Luckily, we aren't living together. His family are super religious. They don't even know about me. That's a relief, it makes it easier to cut ties when you aren't living together. I can't believe he hasn't even told his family, how long have you guys been together? Does he not think they would accept you or does he have other reasons? To be honest with you, all of the above. He's super scared of them. He never stands up for himself; they basically run his life. It's an argument we've had several times. I'm starting to think he's not the man I deserve. I'm sorry to hear that, that must be hard. I completely agree with you though, you deserve someone who is proud to show you to his family and friends. Do you think you'll end things soon? Yes. I think I'll do it tomorrow. How do you think he'll take it? Maybe do it in a public place so he doesn't cause a scene.  We live a bit far from each other. I'll have to do it over the phone. He's not the scene-making type. It does hurt, though. He'll probably cry and say he can't lose me, but I can't do this anymore. I'm sorry to hear that, that's hard, for both of you. Maybe this will be the wake up call that he needed, and maybe he will start standing up for himself. Do you have friends close-by that can take you out and be a shoulder to cry on, if needed? I hate saying this, but this won't wake him up at all. It will only make him give up. I do have amazing friends. Thanks so much for being so much help.