I am a member of a band. My band plays classic rock and has been together 17 years. I own a music store. I plan on moving to Florida. I am an animal activist. Hobby includes song writing.
I am getting married. I am in a local theater company. I know my spouse for 5 years.
I still haven't decided whether I want to move to Florida or not. Can you help me? That depends how close are you with the people in your band? We all met in high school. Actually, it was for our high schools musical that we formed the band.  Wow, 17 years and you're going to leave them? Can they all move with you to Florida? Sadly, no. Two of them are married now with kids. I doubt they would want to move their families just to keep the band together. Do you have any kids? I don't have any kids, that I know of. I just don't think I know my spouse well enough to have a kid with them, 5 years just isn't long enough. Maybe at 10 we'll discuss it. Yea, no need to rush that kind of commitment. How did you and your wife meet? At the adoption centre, I planned to adopt. I was getting lonely and then I met her, I know longer needed to adopt thankfully. I'm not the biggest fan of kids, are you? Oh I love kids. So long as they belong to someone else. I am the godfather to my bandmates son, and its been cool to see him grow up. I just don't know that I would be a good dad. I totally understand, I have no dad instincts what so ever. I literally pushed a kid out of the way to meet my now partner. Nothing gets between you and true love, huh? She was a babe, sadly some things change with time. Ever look at the same thing over and over again and then start to notice the all the imperfections?