I have multiple Ferraris. I don't care about my ex wife. I like Dairy Queen. I like drag racing. I have a damaged car. I don't have a kayak. I don't like crab. I like oysters and white wine.
I like the band Imagine Dragons. I like running as a way to relieve stress.  I jog a lot. I live by the river in a small town. I like to kayak. I have a few of kayaks. I don't have a car. I like crab. I like all kinds of wine.
The insurance have paid for the damage to my car, so I should have my Ferrari in good condition really soon! That's good news. I'm glad they paid up. Was it really hard to get the insurance company to cut you a check? It's always difficult to get insurance to pay up, but fortunately it's a specialist insurer for high end cars so they are a bit easier to deal with! That's true for sure. Insurance companies do make it difficult. They are not in the business to just give away money. If they can delay or deny a claim, then they will. Was it stressful to deal with them, even though they are a specialist company? It was as stressful as I expected. Thankfully I had one specific point of contact with the insurers so it made it easier as I didn't get pushed from one person to another on the phone. I can't imagine doing without my cars. How do you get on with it? Well, I think of my kayaks as you think about your Ferrari. Since I live in a small town, I don't really need a car to get around. Everything is within walking distance. If I need a car to go further away, then I get a ride or get an Uber. My kayaks or going jogging are my stress relievers. There's nothing better in my mind, to get out on the river in my kayak and "get back to nature"! Must keep you pretty fit as well! I have to keep reasonably fit for my drag racing, it's amazing how strong and balanced you have to be to control the cars properly.  Opps! Sorry. I hit "send" accidentially. Yes, I'm pretty fit for my age. But it's more about my mental health than physical. I just feel better mentally when I exercise. I don't actually think of it as exercise. It's now just a part of my life. Yes, I've heard that car racing is very physically demanding and that those athletes are in incredible shape. Mental health is so important, and often overlooked. I probably should do more about my own mental health. My ex-wife has a lot to answer for in that respect!  Oh, I'm sorry about that. Yes, mental health is more important, in my mind, (no pun intended!), than physical health. You can be in peak physical health, but if you're mind is not right, then you could spiral downwards very quickly. Just think about all those professional athletes who are in the news who get caught doing really stupid things. It's amazing. Are you seeing someone professionally about your feelings towards your ex-wife? I'm not, I thought about it a while back. But I've got such a lot going on at the moment, there's always something else that takes precedent - like getting my car fixed! I'll have to add it to my to-do list and maybe it'll get sorted.  I don't want to tell you what to do, but if you do see someone professionally, it may take only a few sessions, so not much time. It could help put everything in perspective and take a load off your shoulders. I know that some therapists work via phone, so that might be an option? 