Last year, my husband died from old age. My husband loved roses. My husband was a mechanic and he was a sweet man who didn't travel. I don't have cats. I'm addicted to coffee. I'm 77 years old. My family and I meet up every saturday. My favourite colour is pink.
I have several cats. I'm 32 years old. My husband's name is Elliott. My husband is busy with work. My husband is the CEO of a major fast food company. I like the color baby blue. My husband travels for work. I worry my husband might be cheating on me. I do not have kids. I am miserable.
Have you gotten any more evidence that your husband might be cheating? No solid evidence but I have a hunch that he is. He is very secretive with his phone. I need to buy some kind of GPS tracking device and put it on his car. Oh, that is a good idea. Is he home now, or on a business trip? Have you ever just talked to him about your concerns? He is on a business trip right now. I have not talked to him about that, it scares me to be honest, what if my suspicion is wrong, or what if he lies to me? I don't know what to do. Do you have any advice to share since you were married for a very long time? It is important to have trust, which he has clearly broken. You need to work to restore that trust, and while spying on him might convince you he is cheating and you need to leave him, it isn't helping you work on the distrust you have. Have you considered counseling? I've thought about it, but I'm to the point to were I don't think that will help. I don't know if this makes me seem like a bad person but I feel the only thing that will make me feel better is catching him cheating.  It sounds like maybe you just need to leave him, then. If you don't catch him, you'll always be suspicious and will still be unhappy in your relationship. If you catch him, you might feel vindicated, but you'll still be unhappy and will end up leaving him. If I've learned anything in my 77 years, it is that life is too short to spend being unhappy! You're right. I'm glad I talked to you, experience is a great teacher. As much as it will hurt me to do it, it's the best thing for both of us. It is like ripping off a band-aid. It isn't pleasant, but you need to do it. Just make sure you are smart about it and have an exit planned. You want to make sure you have some money squirreled away and a place to land with your cats if he kicks you to the curb! Our marriage did not have a prenup so I think he will do right by me. So for how long were you married? Oh good, I'll be thinking of you and hoping for the best. You'll move past him quickly and can start enjoying life! Bruce and I were married for 55 wonderful years. Next week would have been our 56th anniversary. It will be sad looking through our wedding photos, but nice to remember all of the good times we had together. Wow, 56 years is a long time. I bet you and him had some wonderful times. According to statistics, the national length of marriage in the United States is about 8.2 years. I am very happy you and him had a long and loving marriage!