I swim. I used to ride. I attend high school. I like the design aspects of sports cars more than the speed. I play video games to test the cars. I live with my mother and grandparents who are my best friends. My dad left.
I am an accountant. I make a decent wage. I've been searching for my birth parents. I am an only child, living with my adoptive parents.
My dad just called. It was weird. He said he wanted to meet with me and my mom to apologize and talk. He said he understood that we may not want to see him, but he'd like to be a part of my life again. I'm a little undecided at the moment. That does sound like a weird call. It's good that he wants to apologize at least but it does seem very out of the blue. How are you feeling about the call and the possibility of seeing him again? Part of me is excited and full of hope, but most of me is filled with dread and uncertainty. I guess I should take some time to think about it. If you found your birth parents, would you want to meet right away or maybe communicate via text of calls at first? I think I would want to communicate through text and calls for a little bit, just to feel them out for a little bit before being confronted with them in person. I also think it would be better for me to be able to process the reason why they gave me up by myself rather than with them as I can take some time to process their story and come up with questions. Maybe talking to your father for a bit over the phone would be best before being confronted with him in person. And definitely take your time. Do you feel like calling him for a litle bit might be better? That's some great insight! I think I will try something like that, but maybe just text at first. You must be good at solving problems, maybe it has to do with your techincal thinking brain as an accountant.Speaking of that, how is work? I'm glad I can help you. Yeah, the problem solving goes come in handy in accounting some day, but mostly its just havign to be good at maths, haha. Work is going well at the moment, being kept busy which is always good. How is school going? School is school. I started a new class of design. I am getting college credit for it too, which is awesome. I get to spend more time thinking about my car hobby with the designs. I never asked before, but do you like cars? Cars are not my passion like they are yours but I can appreciate a well designed one. That exciting to hear that you have found a class you are passionate about in school. What project are you working on in that class at the moment? I get to pick... I bet you know what I picked..lol.. I am designing the body of a car. Its really cool with a wing design in the back. Kind of like those cars from the 50s. My guidance counselor says I should get serious aobut a career. Was it difficult for you to decide to go into accounting? That sounds very interesting, like Grease Lightening in the Grease movies? Your guidance counsellor sounds serious, but I hope they meant serious about a career in car design. Going into accountancy was pretty obvious because i was good at maths  I am terrible at the advanced math, I had to get a tutor. And yes, a little like the Grease Lightning ..That first original movie was so fun;, didn't you think? I loved the firs tmovei. Why they had to bring in sequels, I don't know. Oh, there are parts of maths that I don't get either or can't remember. If I don't use it regularly, than I don't need it is my motto