I live in Louisiana. I practice Hinduism. I love christmas. I am in med school. I have multiple siblings.
I am 16 years old. I will meet my birth mother today. I am adopted. I have siblings. I love christmas. I am in school. I work at a party store.
Hi there, How did the meeting with your birth mother go? It went surprisingly well. I learned so much about her and why she gave me up in the first place. Honestly though, I feel really sad about the whole thing. I had to call into work today because I'm so overwhelmed with emotion.  I cannot imagine all of the emotions you are going through.  Are you happy that you ended up meeting with her?  Do you have any regrets? I'm very happy that I finally got to meet her and ask her all of the questions I've been needing answers to. No regrets yet, and don't get me wrong I love my adopted parents. My mom was just too young when she had me and had no other choice, she had no means to support me. I learned I have multiple siblings like you! No way!  How many siblings do you have?  Are you planning on meeting with your birth mother again?  Would you possibly meet with your siblings in the future? Yeah it's crazy! I have a little sister and brother. My sister is almost five, my brother is 10! I think they're still too young to really understand the situation, so I'm going to wait to meet them. I don't think I want to foster a relationship with my birth mother just yet. My adopted brothers are older than me and they've been encouraging me to take it step by step.  That's sound advice.  This is all such a delicate situation.  I'm so proud of you for meeting with your birth mother; even if you don't foster a future relationship with her, I think that having the initial meeting with her really helped to answer your questions and provide you with some closure.  You're one of the strongest people I know! Thank you so much, that means the world to me coming from you. We've been friends for so long I can't imagine not having you as a part of my life. This is all so overwhelming and incredibly emotional for me, so thank you for lending me a shoulder to lean on. Please know that you can always lean on me too! No matter what.  Anything you need, do not hesitate to reach out!  You know I"m always here for you!  How has school been going for you? Thank you, sincerely. School had been going great! I'm on track to graduate early still, I'm so excited to be done. How about for you? I can't imagine how tough the medical field must be.  That's so amazing that you're on track to graduate early; you have such a great work ethic.  Med school is definitely taking a lot out of me, but I truly love the field, so I am willing to put in the long hours and all the work!  I could definitely use a bit of a break though. I think I get it from my dad, he works so much and I want to be able to provide a life for my parents where they don't have to worry about working anymore. That's amazing! You've always been such an inspiration for me. Every time we talk you're always diligently working away at something! We should grab ice cream and coffee this weekend, it'll be my treat to help you decompress from school. 