question: I am 51 yrs old -- male. I have had problems with prostatitis before. Now I am very worried... I just found a lump (gumball size) on my left side in pubic hair area. It is causing a lot of pain in that area. Also the pain seems to be radiating outwards. This seems a sudden thing. Produces a pulling or tugging type of pain. Seems to be an infection type of fighting off feeling in my whole body. Also seem to be urinating more often. I am just surprised by the size of lump + the suddeness of it!! Also the pain aspect has me worried. I have no $$, no job, + no insurance -- so going to the doctor is not possible right now.