question: uhh .. I am not sureI was searching for images ... I have a burning around my penis .. it resulted from doing stuff to myself .. I thought it was like a rope burn kind of thing but then searching on the internet I wasnt sure if I had a real problem ... examining my penis head there was a white bump. That after I played with it popped off. I have diabetes and I am married but I have not had sex with anyone except my wife in 10 years and we dont have sex very often. I know that she has herpes in her mouth but it hadnt been apparent .. I have been working from home and I havent been showering every day .. I found information on herpes but also on this thing called balantis. Trying to figure out what to do