question: my husband is 42 years old and has excess water detention going 20 lbs just lately. he is a heavy heavy drinker and also takes loratabs daily. cant eat,but drinks or eats fruit all day because he is so thirsty. has trouble holding his bowel movements at least 4 times a day. please let me know what to do he wont listen but has nightmares nightly mostly about the bed shaking so gets up in the middle of the night and starts all over