question: Hi doctor im very much depressed due to my husbands behavior.i had 3 years of happy married life but suddenly everything got changed.thing is last week i checked my husbands mail i got to know that a girl mailed him mentioning that "got ur chocolates....thankyou".she has also sent her photos.seems some funtion must have taken place.her family members were also incuded in the photos.actually he used to tell me everything about his friends including girlfriends but he has not mentioned bout this girl anytime earlier.my husband is staying abroad.he used to cal me daily.but the day he received that girls mail  he did not cal me.when asked about y he did not cal me he said he was busy with his work.then he asked me to apply for the government job abroad(the place where he is staying)and asked me to check the website.being consious that i may check his mail he deleted that particular mail.i doubt whether he is having an affair.i love him very much.i dont want to miss him.please tell me how should i react to this.he vil be coming to india by october.what should i do