question: My 22 year old has frequent anger outbursts, he hurts himself by hitting himself and is very mean to other people during these outburst.  he is seeing a psycharitirst and was diagnosed with depression, but i think its more than that. He is on effexor and kolodopine.  Any little small out of routine issue will send him into an anger outburst.  He is down on himself and doesnt like himself or anybody else.  He lost his dad in March but these were beginning before that, just more frequent now.  I am lost at what to do for him...I dont have anyone to help me.