question: I am a 30 year old female and have had kidney stones for almost 10 years. I have calcium oxalate monohydrate stones. I currently have a 7 mm stone which has passed through the ureter and bladder and is now stuck in my urethra. I know it is uncommon for them to get stuck there, however this is not the first time this has happened to me.  I have been drinking more than 64 fluid ounces of water every day for the past month (ever since I felt this stone and was diagnosed with it) and have been taking flomax along with the magnesium supplements my urologist gave me. Would clitoral stimulation help to move the stone along the urethra? I am just exhausted and in so much pain, but refuse to take the pain medicine. Thanks for your help.