question: My frenulum gets over sensitive, sometimes painful and red after sex with my wife. My frenulum was always sensitive but this sensitivity increased after multiple sex with my wife on one day on a number of occasion. I tried giving weeks of no-sex break throughout the last couple of months. The breaks did not seem to help. The latest break I had was 3 weeks. It looked like my frenulum is normal again but after first sex it was again red and painful. I also tried retracting my shaft and toughening the frenulum - it worked for some time but then it became sensitive again. I tried to apply cold chamomile tea onto the area - no help. I can t see any tear, it just feels like my frenulum is over used/exhausted. But now we I don t even have more sex more than once a day. Any tips?