question: Hi, My Dad diagnosed with Prostate cancer 3 yrs ago, took no treatment he is 81 yrs old now his legs are swollew almost to hips trouble going to the bathroom rectally I am trying to look ahead as to what to expect hard to know because he refused all treatments . Enter hospice yesterday but he will be living with me. I have had a spouse die of cancer 4yrs 9 month from esphogeal cancer spread to brain so I read up to stay in front of things trying to do the same for my DAD.