question: Hello doctor, I am male, 26 years old, sex insecure and low experienced, first trauma got 99 during bombing of Yugoslavia, had to get new urinal channel, and product of that is I am circumised. Later in school, I have been bullied for 4 years constantly, physical and mentally by my "school friends". Could not get into relationship till 25th year old, had 7 times sex, with 10 seconds each. Troubling to stay erect, fast ejaculation, and even lower self-confindence than before.  Now I am troubling and overthinking what will happen next time, will there be next time, although it is hard to get into relationships because of that, cannot stop pressuring myself with being bad in bed and unexpirienced, as time pass, it only gets worse.