question: Hello doctor, I am married with two kids and a loving husband. I quit my job a year ago and started selling clothing online. I love watching movies. And recently I have a crush on an actor in a movie that is about cross country sport. Since I was young I used to get easily attracted to people who are good at sports. Hence, suddenly I am totally starstrucked by the lead character. And I follow the Instagram of the actor and I am trying to get to know about this actor. He is totally a good, charismatic person and have that odd looking feature. That is the thing I love about him. Now, every single second I cannot stop thinking about this actor. I cannot do my job well because I would go viewing his instagram and watch his videos most of the times. When I was young it was normal to have a crush, but now? I really feel my life is so complicated. I cannot stop thinking about the actor. I cry every time I had to watch him on television or view his Instagram and not doing my work properly. At this time I just hate myself. Please help me.