question: My sister recently had 2 operations within 8 weeks on her spine.  She is making a slow recovery at home but unfortunately  the operation has left her with bowel incontinancy.  When I spoke to her to ask if she had seen a specialist for her problem she told me that she hadnt and that when she was discharged from the spinal trauma unit in the hospital she wa told that her bowel problem was something that she would just have to live with.    Unfortunately my sister lives 350 from me so it is not possible for me to talk to her doctor.   My question is...is this anormal side effect of that operation and is it something "She will just have to live with!!"  Look forward to hearing from you.  regards  Margaret Hillier