question: I am 47yrs.I have founded stage4 breast cancer 6 months ago.. The oncologist offered a Fermira first, then 11/2 mon later changed to timoxifen about two months.. I got second opinion at mdanderson. The doc said needed to xeloda&avastin treatment. I know that there is no cure, but is this helpful for my condition now. . Honestly, I don t want to treatment like that pain to make me to live longer.. What is best ? the pain with long life with chemo, or try to live every moment best..