question: I have a growth in my perineum, the dr did a rectal exam and couldn t feel anything, gave me suppositories to dissolve any potential hemorrhoid, nothing changes and the obgyn doesn t see anything either in the Vagina, and suggested I go see a sex therapist as it could be muscle related. I know it is not, because I can feel the lump going to the bathroom and wiping. Bowel is irregular, please help