question: Hello doctor, What to do now? I was in love with a girl for five years when I was doing my college and then I told my parents and they did not agree. She also loved me back. In her home also they will not accept. Now both of us are not talking for the past one and half years. I am working now and she is studying now. I used to meet and send her texts when I got leave and miss her. Now she does not want to talk to me. This time I asked her if she is free to meet me. She told she is busy. Now, is she really over me or just protecting me? What should I do to get over her? Sometimes, I feel like everything is over between me and her but then suddenly I miss her a lot. Is this how it is going to be always?