question: Four days ago, I was bothered with a strange tingling lump on my face just above my upper lip. I went to my primary care physician and after she examined me stated that I had the herpes simplex virus. She prescribed acyclovir and an antibiotic. My questions are: 1. I do not understand how I got this virus. I have been married and faithful to the same woman for nearly ten years. How did I get this? 2. I have two small children at home. I understand that this virus never leaves the body. Does this mean I cannot show physical affection to my children any more (kisses and hugs)? Any insight would be greatly appreciated.