question: i am a 17 year old male who has been having wet dreams about twice a week i first started to masturbate when i was 13 years old two years after i have decided to stop now i have been having wet dreams and can't stop the reason i want them to stop is because i also have OCD so every time i have a wet dream i have to cancel all my planes for that day and go in the shower shave all my leg hair and my private area and then take a four hour shower mostly focusing on my private area. so can you please help because this is really bothering me