question: my ex-wife is trying to take my boys from me..... she has told lies that others can confirm, and i dont know what to do.... we were married 20 years and she sufferd depression all of them. many eppisodes lasted all nite... she ws very controlling to the point that she did not allow my mom to have a 40th birthday party for me....i would bet my life she has some sort of mental illness but not sure how to force her to take a test