question: my boyfriend and I spent the weekened together recently. last Monday I had received a cold sore looking spot on the middle of my lips and the corner of my mouth, which at a point had my bottom lip swollen. I didn t have any signs of it before hand and got the blister like markings after getting out of a tanning bed . I basically had it healed up n starting to scab by the time I went to see him on Friday. I was nearly sure it was just blisters n ended up kissing him and engaging in oral and vaginal sex. then yesterday he tells me he had gotten bumps around the shaft of his penis which he popped and white pus came out of it. I ve been researching a lot and am really scared and unsure if I possibly could have given him genital herpes from what could have been my oral herpes. please help n tell me options of what this could be. :/