question: I m concerned about my 15 year old grandson. He has agression, antisocial, verbally abusive, acting out and manipulation and lying. His parents got divorced when he was 9. His dad gave him gun shooting games so he didn t have to deal with him. Dad would not let his mom have custody until he was 11 and 2 1/2 years behind in school. The divorce was because his parents agrued a lot and his dad was never home and was verbally abusive to his mom. My grandson now treats his mom like his dad did. My grandsone has been seeing a psychologist for years and manipulates her or doesn t think she knows anything. My grandson can be as sweet as pie when he wants something and mean as shit if he doesn t get it.