question: Hi..I am 34 yr old male..have been married for the last 5 yrs..but dont have any kids.....I have been masturbating since the age of 14..am not able to stop this habbit...still do it for 3-4 times a week...I am in a very stressful job and have a high BP problem as well...m taking a medicine daily as well for my BP....me and my wife do sex once/twice a month...but m not able to ejaculate while doing sex...but when I masturbate I am able to...I dont drink/smoke...do exercise twice or thrice a week but not regularly....Because of this problem we are not having regular sex life as other couples..I am a non-vegetarian and eat non-veg 2-3 times a week....I feel that I face a problem of retarded ejaculation....pls advice how to overcome this and how to lead a healthy sexual life