question: i hav been told my daughter has bpd but mental health doc says she is not go n to label her she is 19 and doesnt take care of herself or cant is ceoliac and doesnt follow diet has lost a lot of her 2nd teeth and for years we wer told mild learning disabilty now this was put on dbt course which has now been removed from because of her learing issues were do i stand also thers the voices som tell her not to talk to and others tell her to talk to them