question: I have had high risk encounters (gay) and have a rash with puss all over my chest does not itch but have had itfor about two weeks now.  Also  have this pain in my lower abdomin  on the right side and left side, it moves from side to side. The pain seems to be worse in the early morning and at bed time.  Im married and worried as hell. I do not have sex with the wife but worried that I could pass something on to her or some one else.  Help!