question: I have a son whom Im living with right now, and I cant beleive what im seeing and hereing from him.  His temper is unreal and you would think he was a 17 yr old boy ... this man is 43... he only hangs out with much younger guys.. I am so ashamed of him I dont know what to do.... He likes to live in his own trash with dishes in his room as you  would see in a teen .. wears clothes that i would throw away... what can i do