question: I'm taking paxil 20 mg, have been taking it for 13 yrs. I suffer with deep depression, confusion, headaches,memory lose,no sex drive, agitation, weight change, feeling nervous, wanting to stay at home & not wanting to socialize with anyone, & sometimes suicidal thoughts. Is there anything I can do for a change or for help. I've been afraid to admit this to my Dr so I just keep using the same thing. My x-husband wanted me on something because I had to much energy for him. So he took me to Dr. & they decided this would work. It has because I have no energy at all. But I feel I need help.