question: Hi my dad has stage four cancer in his kidney which has spread to his spine. He s not doing as well he s unable to eat he has been vomiting. He is in a lot of pain barley can take his meds. Is there anything we can do to help him get better I dnt want to loose my dad please help. His doctor is saying we should stop his meds because he s not looking so well I dnt want to give up on him he wants to live he says he wants to live