question: Hello doctor, I have never achieved orgasm without a vibrator. For years, I have experimented with different pressures, methods, stuffs and followed the advice of hundreds of articles, but nothing worked. I always make sure that I have enough time and relaxation. I have tried so many methods involving fingers, my partner and more, but still, nothing worked unless I use a vibrator. I even went months without using it to see if I would desensitize, but nothing changed. Just wondering if anyone else has the same problem. What I can do about it?