question: Pitting edema in right leg, lump on right side of neck that s been there for about 10 years and is now sensitive to touch, tire easily, frequent urination, irregular menstruation cycle, frequent headaches, eye twitching, unexplained chest pain that leads to difficulty breathing, can you please help me find out what is going on in my body? I m a 35 year old mother of 5 children and I worry because my doctor made a comment that he doesn t want to be the one to tell my children I died because he didn t listen but he doesn t seem to be understanding that something is not right. Please help!