question: I stay with my fiancee from 2 years. Our marriage has been decided by the end of 2018. Suddenly he decided not to marry because of financial issues. He takes alcohol and weed frequently. Also takes Zardari pan .Some time he behaves like a very good person and suddenly he starts behave like a bad person.He breaks his all promises. He is having too much mood swing problem, anxiety, irritation etc.He is always get confused. He is suffering from depression, guilt, low self esteem, fear of taking responsibility etc.He is having financial problem and also office problem. He says that he is not addicted but he takes zarda pan 6-7 in a day, takes alcohol and weed 4 times in a week.He started this things from 2 months. He is having too much asthma problem and cold problem. He wants to break our relationship and stay alone. Now, what to do? Is he having any personality disorders or bi polar disorder? He can t control his mood.