question: Hello, 3 months ago my friend had a showdown at work and as a result of a lot of stress. I took him to a psychologist who recommended him Ativan and Oleanz Plus. He is 35, male and works in a industry requiring long hours.since that episode it has been 3 months and he has these flare ups. He stopped the meds within a week, and is trying to engage himself socially more. but negative thoughts seems to be hounding him again and he refuses to see a counsellor. His thoughts are random, like he is being spied on, or people are out there to get him, or he doesnt \"know what is gioing on\" and thinks others know more about him and not telling him that. How can i get him to confront this.