question: I am married for 13 years and have 2 lovely kids. last 2 years I have started to develop mistrust my wife and everything she tells me specilally if the conversation involes a male I start thinking may be she is having an affair or something similar. off late this has become a constant thought in my mind and I keep thinking in a negative way about her, this is seriously damaging our married life, please give me your expert advise and help me to save our marriage. thank you.