question: I have a butt problem, No leakage, no any things like that, it s just that often, especially before bedtime and in the morning, I get this uncomfortable feeling that it s loose and I almost have an urge to intentionally tighten/move the muscle. it does not hurt but it s extremely annoying to be constantly thinking about your anus and I have to admit I even sometimes get these stupid thoughts caused by all this which I rather do not mention, so it s obviously interfering with my life way more than it can look at first ... And I am not gay, so... you know what I mean. I m inly 16, someone plez tell me it s all in my head.