question: Our 11 year old has always had these uncontrollably yelling screaming appasodes that last one hour, she must always be right, controlling, she kicks and punches, she only like certain things, she doesn t like new people or things unless its her normal likeings same as clothes only like certain ones, she talks loud over everyone and right in your face remind you she s always been like this we just got custody and mom says this is just who Carissa is to me we have major concerns can you help me figure out what wrong so we can correct this for her and everyone else