question: Hi, im a 21yr old female w/a slightly swollen, yet, tender node in my right groin area (the left side has gone down but is still tender). Ive had this for about 2 1/2 wks. Approximately 3 days before this started, the condom ripped during intercourse. The swelling has gone down but its still noticable (a little hard, tender, could be easily noticed at a glance) . My doctor simply dismissed this as nothing to worry about during my pap 2wks ago; should this be considered a medical emergency?