question: i want to be pregnant so bad,i took folic acid for 3 months and tired for a baby after my husband came back, ha had been gone for more than a year,now we want to have a baby and nothing is happening yet. the last three weeks we have been trying but now i have spotting, i donot know if it is my period coming or am i pregnant. my last period was on the 15th of september,am i really anxious about it? please advice