question: Hi. I am 30 yr old male and my question is about BDSM. I consider myself a submissive. I believe I think too much i about BDSM and spend lots of time looking over bdsm photos over net. I also try to chat a lot about Femdom (try some online roleplays) and I feel anxious if I dont get anyone to chat with. I want to know if this is normal or not and if its not, are there methods to come our of this obsession?