question: Hi, I am a 28 year old male and I have been sexually active for many years. Recently I started to having an issue keeping an erection hard for long periods of time. I can get it up during four play but then loose it in the transition to sex. I can get hard when I pleasure myself but loose the erection quick if I stop. This has never been an issue before and I normally can stay hard pre, during and even post without any issues? Can this be ED? I just went through a tough break up after 9 years and also went from not using condoms ( partner was on BC) to now using them again? what is the issue here? How can I solve it?