question: Sir, I stopped masturbating recently. but i have little problem in that area. During sleep, my penis starts leaking without my concern (it gets bigger on its own and starts leaking while i m having a dream ). However i woke up suddenly and stop it midway, but little amount of sperm already came outside. And also i have a girlfriend, whenever i talk to her over phone , my penis gets bigger and starts leaking cum (actually pre cum). I don t know what to do? How to stop this please help me.!