question: Sir I'm 32 yr old .I started masterbating wen I was only 15, twice thrice a day which made very weak.in my thoughts I  could get erection but wen near my partner no errection ,only fluids come out of my penis.then I stopped masterbating .but wen I materbate nowadays at night I can't fell sleep n also their mild headache involving my eyes also.now in 32 n I'm engaged wen I'm near my fiance I could not get hard erection .