question: I have been to the doctor for pains in my lower right side I have had for about 4 weeks, I have an appointment for next Monday for ultrasound , I don t know If I can make it that long , my symptoms are cramping and having pains now in back not sure if pain is back or front some times, but it is uncomfortable all the time , im feeling like its in the area of my cramping in my menstrual cycle but I haven t had a cycle for 4 months or so im pre menopausal im 50, do u think I should go to emerg as im scared its an appendicitis I almost lost my dad with ruptured one few years back,