question: Since I ve been little I have humped the floor instead of masturbating with my hand. I have been able to orgasm and ejaculate this way. This has gone on many years. I have never been able to achieve those things by masturbating by hand. I am married now and every time I have sex I am unable to orgasm or ejaculate during sex. I get hard and sex feels good at first but then the feeling goes away. It ends in the same way every time of me with blue balls.