question: Hi, I am trying to cope with the loss of my husband from cancer. I had to put my dog of 13 years down and I wonder if I did the wrong thing. Maybe I could have cared for her longer. Once she went I am on my own. No one to greet you when you come home. I have chronic pain in my upper back that comes around to my chest and makes my legs number when the pain intensifies. Mt feet are numb and always cold. I have trouble now doing everyday things and I just can t seem to teg up and movitated in the mornings. I tell myself I am lazy. Get going. Life is not the same anymore.i was never like this I was happy and always busy active person