question: Hello I am a 48 year old female with an extensive medical history ie NF 1. I have defuse nerve root thickening all down my spine from it. I also have many other medical problems stemming from NF. I suffer from +depression and anxiety. The problem is that I wet my pants all through the day instead of going to the toilet. It is like something takes over me and I forget to go or what the signal means until I am either wetting myself or have just completed I also wet my bed. This has been going on a long time. Then I have great difficulty getting out of my bed when I have wet it as it makes me feel safe. And that no one will hurt or get to me. I was sexually abused and was physically and emotionally abuse by my mother. What is going wrong. Despite all this I do work.