question: Hi. This is so embarrassing.  That's probably why I haven't gone to the Doctor.  I have a pretty large external hemorrhoid. It's painful. For the last couple of days I have tried over the counter medications. It doesn't seem to be shrinking. It's I guess about a inch in diameter and very hard. Should I just wait it out. I am soaking in warm water now. I read online where it could help. I had one similar to this about 6 months or so ago and it went away after over the counter treatment.  This one seems more painful and larger. Is this something you could help me with?