question: I have been trying to concieve for over a year. I am 36years and I once had a child in 1998 and I lost her at birth and I was told it has been a foetal distress. I have seen two Gynecologist and they told me I do not have a problem. They asked me to ask my husband to check his sperm in a laboratory and he is not willing at all. He has a child from previous relationship. I am feeling very bad and confused. He is 37 years old.