question: i has oral sex usind a comdon about 11 days ago now i have all the symptons of herps other then the bumps im freaking out and thinking of killing myself because i dont want to give it to my 3 year old son i went to the hostipal and had a blood test on day 9 was negative please help im a 43 year old man the whole thing lasted about 30 seconds now today on day 11 i have chapped lips i do suffer from anxity and am streeing out big time cant sleep  and havnt eat for 6 days please help