question: Over the weekend I had sex for the first time but I didnt come is this normal? OK so in a bit more detail i put my penis inside a girl for the first time in my life, im 24 and never done it before. My girlfriend came within a few minutes but i didnt and didnt feel like i was. I didnt have a condom on as I thought that might have been why. With the condom on it was hard to get an erection but i think it was due to nerves and first time. Also i seem to have a tight foreskin and im not sure if thats why. I ve been reading about retarded ejaculation and fear i might have this condition. Any thoughts or suggestions would be much appreciated?