question: My question is a 2 parter. 1) For about 2 and a half years now, I have been masterbating and I want to cut down. It has been everyday to every other day. I have been in a committed relationship for 2 years now and when my girlfriend and I engage in sex, I have only been able to cum twice. Is there anyway I can make myself ejaculate more during sex? I've tried different condoms and that doesn't work at all. I'm considering trying something new which brings me to my second question. 2) I want to try anal sex to see if I can cum. I always use condoms and me and my partner are STD free. My concern is will it be safe? My main concern is cleaning my penis afterwards. Do I have to do that immediately or can I do it within the hour? Can I use a wash rag with soap and water and then shower down there within the hour?