Hair loss has caused me psychological distress, since I'm female.
I am a bald man.
In females hair loss is supposed to be thinning of the hair, but mine is a bald spot in back of head.  I think bald men are actually "in style."
I can empathize in the physical fact of the bald spot and I sympathize with what I assume is your Alopecia, that stinks big time.
Alopecia areata
Alopecia areata, also known as spot baldness, is a condition in which hair is lost from some or all areas of the body. Often it results in a few bald spots on the scalp, each about the size of a coin. Psychological stress may result. People are generally otherwise healthy. In a few cases, all the hair on the scalp or all body hair is lost and loss can be permanent.
Alopecia areata is believed to be an autoimmune disease resulting from a breach in the immune
surgery. If your baldness is very severe scalp reduction can reduce your bald spot and make you look less bald. The surgery usually takes about 2-3 hours with around 250 hair grafts and for a severely bald man it would be about 1,000 hair grafts. 
Candidates for surgery.
- hair loss due to genetics
- healthy scalp
- scalp elasticity
- donor hairs ( healthy hairs on the side and back of scalp)
- must have permanent hair loss
After care.
- do not