I have a baby due in December and the thought of rearing a child scares me. Do you have kids?
No I don't. I can imagine though that it would be a little stressful. Do you know if it will be a boy or a girl?
We are not finding out until it's born. We both plan to be very involved in the caretaker process and not use other family.
That sounds like a good idea. Is it your first baby?
Yes, We have been together 11 years so it's time. I'm worried about my lack of Parenting skills and what it will take to be a good parent.
There are some good books available about the subject I am sure. But I think it's a natural instinct that will take over. 
Hopefully, We do not want to rely on any government support to rear the child. 
Sometimes it's needed. Babies can be expensive, but if you can afford not to then that is great also.
Breastfeeding
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