I am the oldest of three sibling, and I believe that can influence your character. What do you think?
I think its true because research shows the earliest born kids score the highest on intelligence tests.
Interesting, in my case  I don't know about intelligence but I believe I have stronger character and I am more independent, does that shows in the  research too?
Yes, it also has an affect on the way you handle love, friendship, and work.
One thing I know is you always feel very responsible for your sibling. And what about you? Do you have siblings, if so are you the oldest?
I have a brother, but I felt "dethroned" when he was born and it made me feel like a middle child.
And what do you think are the outstanding characteristics of a middle child?
I think it makes them feel left out because younger children are the ones who are mostly spoiled.
And why do you think you did not feel like the oldest when your brother was born?
, and this loss of perceived privilege and primacy may have a lasting influence on them. Middle children may feel ignored or overlooked, causing them to develop the so-called middle child syndrome. Younger and only children may be pampered and spoiled, which was suggested to affect their later personalities. All of this assumes what Adler believed to be a typical family situation, e.g., a nuclear family living apart from the extended family, without the children being orphaned, with average spacing between births, without twins and other multiples,
, would find something to identify with in my books, pick up one and experience a personal sense of discovery. That's great. I think that if you're a creative person, you should just go about your business, do your work and not care about how it's received. I never read reviews because if you believe the good ones you have to believe the bad ones too. Not that I don't care about success. I do, but only because it lets me do what I want. I