Have you ever been in a courtship? It's the period in a relationship which precedes a couple's engagement and marriage
Yeah I have a few times.
Did you ever decide if there should an engagement? 
No it hasn't ever gotten to that point.
Many people don't go through the courtship phase, such as in cases of arranged marriages.
Arranged Marriage seems so weird.
subcategories of arranged marriage. Forced marriages, practised in some cultures, are condemned by the United Nations. The specific sub-category of forced child marriage is especially condemned. In other cultures people mostly choose their own partner.
History.
Arranged marriages were very common throughout the world until the 18th century. Typically, marriages were arranged by parents, grandparents or other relatives. Some historical exceptions are known, such as courtship and betrothal rituals during the Renaissance period of Italy and Gandharvaha marriages in the Vedic period of India
Courtship
Courtship is the period of development towards an intimate relationship wherein a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be an engagement, followed by a marriage. A courtship may be an informal and private matter between two people or may be a public affair, or a formal arrangement with family approval. Traditionally, in the case of a formal engagement, it has been perceived that it is the role of a male to actively "court" or "woo" a female, thus encouraging her to understand