Divorce laws vary by state and in most countries. Most require a court and a legal process with issues of alimony and child support and visitation. I was divorced in 2001.
Woa that is hard, how different is the law now, compare to 2001 when you divorce? im in a relationship never been married!
I am not sure how the laws have changed but the reasons for divorce can be due to incompatibility, lack of independence or just a basic personality clash. Are you engaged?
No, not yet, im too afraid of divorce, i have expierenced all of the reasons you just mentioned, was it to hard getting divorced?
We were together 15 years so yeah it was rough. We had major personality clashes where we found ourselves in conflict over fundamental incompatibility in our personalities and lifestyles. Don't be afraid though! It can be wonderful! 
Wao 15 years, thats so much, i cannot imagine getting back on track after 15 years, how about kids? did you have any?
(spousal support), child visitation / access, parenting time, child support, and division of debt. In most countries, monogamy is required by law, so divorce allows each former partner to marry another person.
Divorce is different from annulment, which declares the marriage null and void, with legal separation or "de jure" separation (a legal process by which a married couple may formalize a "de facto" separation while remaining legally married) or with "de facto separation" (a process where the
Divorce
Divorce, also known as dissolution of marriage, is the process of terminating a marriage or marital union. Divorce usually entails the canceling or reorganizing of the legal duties and responsibilities of marriage, thus dissolving the bonds of matrimony between a married couple under the rule of law of the particular country or state. Divorce laws vary considerably around the world, but in most countries divorce requires the sanction of a court or other authority in a legal process, which may involve issues of distribution of property, child custody, alimony