I have very pale blonde hair and it's beautiful. Even as a man my long ponytail, beautiful!
:) i have only black hair
You should dye it. So many blonde colors to choose from, reddish strawberry blonde to golden-brownish sandy blonde color. 
how common is the color blonde
Old French "blund, blont", meaning "a colour midway between golden and light chestnut". It gradually eclipsed the native term "fair", of same meaning, from Old English "fæġer", causing "fair" later to become a general term for "light complexioned". This earlier use of "fair" survives in the proper name Fairfax, from Old English "fæġer-feahs" meaning "blond hair".
The word "blond" has two possible origins. Some linguists say it
reddish shade of chestnut is darker. Chestnut hair is common among the native peoples of Northern, Central, Western, and Eastern Europe.
Natural hair colors Blond hair.
Blonde (or "blond" for men ) hair ranges from nearly white (platinum blonde, tow-haired) to a dark golden blonde. Strawberry blonde, a mixture of blonde and red hair, is a much rarer type containing the most pheomelanin.
Blonde hair can have almost any proportion of pheomelanin and eumelanin, but has only small amounts