I have a toddler who is 3 years old.  Let me tell you - Parenting is a difficult and confusing process to help develop the child from infancy to being an adult.
I am childless, is it really that difficult?  By three they should be self sufficient shouldn't they?
That's what I thought too - until my kid started being very attached to me.  Then I learnt about many different type of parenting skills and coping mechanisms, such as attachment theory.  
Attachment theory, what's that?
system directs the child to seek proximity with a familiar caregiver when they are alarmed, with expectation they will receive protection and emotional support.
John Bowlby believed that the tendency for primate infants to develop attachments to familiar caregivers was the result of evolutionary pressures, since attachment behavior would facilitate the infant's survival in the face of dangers such as predation or exposure to the elements.
The most important tenet of attachment theory is an infant needs to develop a relationship with at least one primary caregiver for the child's successful social
do believe that when it comes to relationships that you have to set the bar high and know your worth so that you never settle, and that's what 'One Shot' is about." She explained that the song is also about being upfront with your love interest: "I think there is a misconception that being open and honest, and saying what it is you want is something we should be embarrassed about. But that's just not me. I am a very honest person, I always tell somebody what