Hi, I have never had much luck with romance have you?
Generally, I have had what I would consider average luck.
For me I do well with having an emotional attraction to other people, but quirks and small problems always arise.
Are you OCD or suffer from social anxiety?  That can sometimes cause problems in relationships.
I don't think I have either of those conditions. They say romance is associated with sexual attraction but does not make it mandatory.
I suppose those two do not have to be be always related
Romance (love)
Romance is an emotional feeling of love for, or a strong attraction towards another person, and the courtship behaviors undertaken by an individual to express those overall feelings and resultant emotions.
Although the emotions and sensations of "romantic love" are widely associated with sexual attraction, romantic feelings can exist without expectation of physical consummation and be subsequently expressed. Historically, the term "romance" originates with the medieval ideal of chivalry as set out in the literature of chivalric romance.
General definitions.
about the video in an interview, Mills stated:
That video definitely was a big turning point for me as I discovered something in myself. You know when you do something and the piece is far bigger than you are. Just by luck or unconscious something pops out and you're like 'whoa, what was that?'. And with that piece it was a willingness to be totally sincere and borderline maudlin but hopefully not. Emotional without being maudlin. I had always been sort of afraid of that and hidden