My in laws are divorced. I don't think I could divorce my husband
My parents are divorced and that is very hard on kids. There's too much at stake during a divorce such as child support, kids, the house, cars, etc.
I am most worried about my kids if we were
It's very hard especially when it comes to custody issues. The kids could get confused about a lot of things.
I see that a lot with my husbands little brother
When my parents divorced, my mom held me being able to see my dad against him if he didn't pay child support on time. Even if we had family plans with my grandparents. 
I dont think that is fair at all.
Deadbeat parent
Deadbeat parent is a pejorative term referring to parents of any gender who do not fulfill their parental responsibilities, especially when they evade court-ordered child support obligations or custody arrangements. The gender-specific deadbeat dad and deadbeat mom are commonly used to refer to men and women who have fathered or mothered a child and intentionally fail to pay child support ordered by a family law court or statutory agency such as the Child Support Agency.
Terminology.
The term "deadbeat parent" is a pejorative term used
married in 1987. They have a daughter, Malu Abeni Valentine Byrne, born in 1989. Malu spoke about one of her middle names, Abeni, in a 2016 interview with Elle: "It is Nigerian, and it means 'We asked for her and she came to us.' My parents had a hard time having kids, and when I finally came along, their good friend offered up this name." Byrne and Lutz divorced in 2004. After his divorce, he became romantically involved with art curator and