I am very self conscious about myself and how I look when I go out in public
That's good! Having heightened sense of self-awereness if very important
I fear that it makes me less able to enjoy things because I worry about it too much. Where do you think that comes from?
Well, sometimes unpleasant feelings of self consciousness are associated with shyness and paranoia
It might be more shyness is where my self consciousness comes from. I'm not very outgoing
Shyness
Shyness (also called diffidence) is the feeling of apprehension, lack of comfort, or awkwardness especially when a person is around other people. This commonly occurs in new situations or with unfamiliar people. Shyness can be a characteristic of people who have low self-esteem. Stronger forms of shyness are usually referred to as social anxiety or social phobia.
The primary defining characteristic of shyness is a largely ego-driven fear of what other people will think of a person's behavior. This results in a person
everything is a numbers and calculation game." In 2016, he added: "I am very systematic in how [I] need to go about things to bring out the best tennis for myself, and maybe that comes off as mechanical and robotic and those kind of things, but I don't know if I'd ever change that because I feel that's the way I get the best out of myself when it comes to my tennis."
Aspects of Raonic's game which have been criticized include his return