Hair loss has caused me psychological distress, since I'm female.
I am a bald man.
In females hair loss is supposed to be thinning of the hair, but mine is a bald spot in back of head.  I think bald men are actually "in style."
I can empathize in the physical fact of the bald spot and I sympathize with what I assume is your Alopecia, that stinks big time. 
Yes that's what it is!  Alopecia.  A spot of baldness.  How long have you been bald and does it bother you or no?
My mom's pop was bald as can be and my pop's pop was full head of jet black hair. I started thinning in my early 20's so I take it in stride. Is it treatable?
Management of hair loss
The management of hair loss, also known as alopecia or baldness, may include medications and surgery.
Medication.
Treatments for the various forms of hair loss have only moderate success. Three medications have evidence to support their use in male pattern hair loss: finasteride, dutasteride and minoxidil. They typically work better to prevent further hair loss than to regrow lost hair.
They may be used together when hair loss is progressive or further regrowth is desired after 12 months. Other medications include ketoconazole
surgery. If your baldness is very severe scalp reduction can reduce your bald spot and make you look less bald. The surgery usually takes about 2-3 hours with around 250 hair grafts and for a severely bald man it would be about 1,000 hair grafts. 
Candidates for surgery.
- hair loss due to genetics
- healthy scalp
- scalp elasticity
- donor hairs ( healthy hairs on the side and back of scalp)
- must have permanent hair loss
After care.
- do not