i have a harsh inner critic. i want perfectionism where I strive for flawlessness.
Wow, it must be rough being crazy, huh?
Just a little. When I do not reach my goals, I fall into a depression.
Yikes, have you went to seek help from a doctor? 
Luckily no. But I need to stop pressuring myself to achieve unrealistic goals.
Nah, just set your mind to it and you can do anything. 
Thank you. I am a harsh critic when I fail to meet my standards.
Don't be just make it excuse to try harder.
their goals, and to derive pleasure from doing so. 
Definition.
Perfectionists strain compulsively and unceasingly toward unattainable goals, and measure their self-worth by productivity and accomplishment. Pressuring oneself to achieve unrealistic goals inevitably sets the person up for disappointment. Perfectionists tend to be harsh critics of themselves when they fail to meet their standards.
Definition Normal vs. neurotic.
D. E. Hamachek in 1978 argued for two contrasting types of perfectionism, classifying people as tending towards normal perfectionism or neurotic perfectionism. Normal perfectionists are more inclined
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