I love being a parent my kids is my life.
Some people think it's just physically parenting your child but it involves emotional, social, and intellectual child rearing you know?
I totally agree your kids is a reflection of you and just like you said you have to make sure you are always involved in all aspects. 
Yes people think from a biological perspective, but there are intricacies besides that.
The intricacies  is important because your kids go through alot and most parents don't know or realize it sometimes.
Gender
Gender is the range of characteristics pertaining to, and differentiating between, masculinity and femininity. Depending on the context, these characteristics may include biological sex (i.e., the state of being male, female, or an intersex variation), sex-based social structures (i.e., gender roles), or gender identity. Most cultures use a gender binary, having two genders (boys/men and girls/women); those who exist outside these groups fall under the umbrella term "non-binary" or
liked to work from my imagination. I like to work from a fact, and I will try to make something out of the fact. I enjoy that most. And I do my best work when I do that. I don't know whether it's just because I put it out of my mind that I don't like to make things up. Some artists are marvelous at just fantastic inventions. But I love the smell and the feel of life. You have to follow your appetites. You don't choose