text: Ask him why he thinks he is ruining your life. If you believe he is not, then tell him so. Tell him to lighten up and that you love him also, and you want him to be happy with you and not worry about ruining your life.\n\nThe two of you should be more open with each other. Talk openly about your relationship, your feelings, your struggles.. it will help.\n\nAnd keep on praying :)\n\nGod Bless,\nDevan