text: Well I don't mean to be mean, but all too often people get what they ask for.  Did you take time to get to know this person?  Did you make clear the level of commitment you expected?  Did you wait until you had a committed relationship before you jumped into a sexual reltionship.  \n\nYou deserve better but, until you relize it and insist on that from the man you choose to have relationships with, you will be treated just as you are.\n\nBeing a strong woman doesn't mean being agressive, it means insisting on only the best for ourselves.  This trash talk is beneith you and so is this man.  But luckily each day is a new one. You don't have to choose to be a victim tommorrow.  \n\nStand strong sister!