text: i think its a good way to really get to know someone before you meet them in person. meeting potential dates in 'conventional' ways (bars/clubs etc)can sometimes be awkward - not being able to chat properly etc. internet dating gives you an easy way out aswell if you find you dont get on with that particular person! it also gives you a chance to meet people that you wouldnt normally meet. i have used dating sites myself for the first time this year & have made some great new friends, been on a couple of dates and have recently started seeing a guy i get on really well with. obviously you have to be careful of the many (!) strange people on the net, but there are loads of genuine, lovely people out there too. i even convinced a couple of my friends to give internet dating a go aswell, one is also now very happy with a new man! i say go for it, you have nothing to lose & at the very least only new friends to gain!! :D