text: I only get it once a month...twice if I'm lucky.  It drives me mad not to be able to get it whenever I want.  Kinda makes me feel like my man isn't attracted to me.  But, there has got to be a good reason behind it.  My man had medical issues.  I can respect that even though it drives me mad.  Besides...there are other ways to please each other without sex!!!  I know this!!!