text: climb on top of him and move up and down (which is what most guys perfer) make him grab you hips some time and take control. Don't let him take control the whole time though. Lean down towards him and whisper "nasty sexual things in his ear or just breathe low and slow or moan or all three.  Rock w/ it lean w/ it (literally)Take your body and imagine your are a stripper rolling your body up and and down on him. You could also turn around so your back is to him and do it that way. Have fun!