text: why not try talking to her, tell her how u feel, honestly people do change after they get married, we don't stay the same, try talking to her and telling her u would like to see her do her hair, send her to the beauty shop, get her a membership at the gym. be honest with her, i am sure she is still the same woman u married, and fell in love with. hair dye and makeup are only on the outside of someone. it's what's inside that matters.