text: It is very hard to be 14. Your whole body is changing, some parts slowly and other parts at a high rate of speed. The only solution to your difficulties is time, unfortunately. Eventually your penis (which is quite large) will settle down and not bother you so much, and then you will be able to enjoy erections. But for now, there's nothing to do but try to keep your mind busy elsewhere. If you are working hard at schoolwork or a volunteer position, you will have less empty time to worry about the odd things your body is doing. Good luck - you'll be fine as soon as this crazy time of your life settles down.