text: Only you can say it for sure but is your life in order where you want it to be. Are you ready to be Mrs.  Smith  now. If so and you love this man, I cannot think of a reason not to if you have known him for 4 years and love him. I would suggest birth control for 2 years to make sure that you or he don't change and then you want a divorce with a child. \nGood luck with love and life.