text: This is a repeat answer but its very important to understand\nyour wife's love language.\nRead THE FIVE LOVE LANGUAGES.\nAccording to Dr. Chapman, the five love languages are Quality Time, Words of Affirmation, Gifts, Acts of Service and Physical Touch. \n\nWOW WARRIOR IM VERY  IMPRESSED!\n \n\nQuality Time refers to spending time together as a couple. People who have this as their love language feel loved when they are taken out on special dates, when their spouse clears the calendar for them, or when the television is turned off in order to have a conversation.\n\n \n\nOthers prefer Words of Affirmation as a way to be shown love. Telling your spouse how you appreciate them, encouraging them, and general words of praise and acceptance all show your love.\n\n \n\nIf Gifts is your spouse's love language, then you need to understand that for them, gifts are not simply material objects -- they are expressions of your love. \n\n \n\nIf your spouse's love language is Acts of Service, they will appreciate your help more than anything. Give them a night off from cooking or other household chores. Repair that leaky faucet. Help them with the yard work. Prepare them a nice lunch to take to work. \n\n \n\nSome people prefer Physical Touch as their love language. A simple touch on the arm, hug or backrub will convey your love to them.  \n\n \n\nProblems occur when spouses do not recognize each other's love language and attempt to show love in ways that are less meaningful to the other spouse. For example, consider if your spouse has the love language of Acts of Service, but you assume they would rather have gifts. They might be appreciative of your presents, but your love would be more obvious to them if you helped them around the house. To them, a cleaned house means more than a box of candy.\n\n \n\nSo find out what your spouse's love language is and show them love in the ways that they can best understand.