text: All I have to say is..JERRY JERRY JERRY....LOL..j/k\n\nI really can't say much about the cousin thing I dated a set of TWINS before without eachof them knowing..unfortunaltey I'm quite proud of that. But anyways, if youre husband isn't ready to commit then dont force him to..I say go ahead with the divorce men will usually change when they are threatened to be left, so your husband knows he's fixing to be (NEXTED) and he's going to be perfect for a while. On to the cousin, who sounds more mature than the husband, the way i see it is..they come from the same TREE..maybe it will be like this for now do you really think he's going to be the same better. I would suggest finding somone of a different last name even..just look around play the fields do be traped in a one huge love triangle..Good luck..