text: Sweetie, my finace and I were only together for 3 months when we got engaged.  We are getting married next month, and only 5 months of being together and yet, I know this man's every move, every though.  I love him and he loves me.  So, if you feel you are doing this because you want to spend the rest of your life with her then by all means ask.  If you are only doing this to be with her then tis best not to ask.