text: It depends on how it's used. :-)  If the guy is really good at pleasing a woman, no sometimes it doesn't matter.  In fact, the BEST sex I ever had was with a boyfriend that was only about 5 inches and only about as big around as a half dollar.  But he KNEW how to use it and was VERY good at all the other things too.  Also, I've been with a man that was quite large (in my book anyway): 10 inches, about 3 inches in diameter! I must admit, I never had good sex with him. He just didn't know what he was doing.