text: That's a very touchy subject for me.\n\nI am currently in the armed forces (Army), i have have seen what you've said to be true, you're a hero until your done then the government turns its back on you and sticks you in a sub rate VA hospital with sub-par care.\n\nIf you want to know the best way to support your neighbor i will give you some hints. \n\n1. Always give him the proper respect and courtesy you would expect, believe me he expects it more (it may sound selfish but he deserves it)\n\n2. Ask him about his war stories, most vets who aren't to torn up or have PTSD will bore you for hours with their war stories. Please just listen, nothing makes a vet feel better than telling old war stories. I promise if you take the time to listen he'll be grateful and you'll be amazed.\n\n3. And if you feel the need above all of that..... volunteer, i work at Walter reed, that's where i drill, as a matter of fact i have a drill this coming weekend. There is nothing more pure than the heart of a volunteer.\n\nHope this helps. :)