text: Try this: draw a circle on a piece of paper. That's you.\n\nthen draw little circles that just touch your circle at one point.\n\nDraw some other circles that don't touch at all.\n\nThese are other people. They are in their own circle, and only bump onto your circle briefly.\n\nLet's say you belch loudly in front of the minister in church. Oooops! Embarrassing. But he's in his own circle. He will forget about that belch in minutes. Because it isn't about him.\n\nMost people are so caught up in themselves, they don't really think about you at all.\n\nSo next time you worry what someone will think, picture that big circle with the little circles barely touching.