text: I was a  bridesmaid for my girlfriend a few years ago.  At that time my hubby and I had been married for 7 years and had three kids.  The night b4 the wedding all us girls spent the night at the hotel.  I missed hubby so much that night - I wanted him there to share the time with.  My girlfriend looked at me and started to cry - she said she was so glad I was there with her that night - not only for the moral support and the fun - but because I was her only married friend and she enjoyed seeing how after almost 10 years together I missed him when he wasn't around.  \nPhysical attraction is obvious - and a vital part of all relationships - but it is the thoughtfullness and the caring that indicates how you really feel