text: Simone... there is an old saying. If you straddle a fence, all you get is a sore crotch! Step over to one side or the other! By the sounds of it, if your b/f makes you feel like crap, then you should be looking to move on and find someone that won't. A man worth having lets you know AND FEEL that you are special, and important to them. So, if your current b/f makes you feel like crap, then take your dump and move off the fence. Good luck!