text: I have a lot.  I don't know which came first, though.  I remember going with my mom to an ultrasound to see my sister.  The nurse was a tall black man, and they turned off the lights.  We saw her sucking her thumb.  My mom said the goo was cold on her belly. My mom lost my sister at 7 months due to the cord being wrapped around her neck.  I was less than 2 and a half, Because my brother was born when I was three.