text: i am now. thats really what broke up my marraige. i would never complete any of my tasks around the house, and it got so bad i could never catch up. my ex was a very organized person and grewe to resent it and i dont blame her. now 3 yrs later, i have worked very hard to change that and i feel like i can be relied on if i say i will do something. not always 100%, but most oif the time.