text: Go ahead with the bouquet/garter toss, but you don't have to do the latter part where the bachelor puts the garter on the bachelorette.  \n\nSome other fun things to at your wedding:  Have the d.j. ask all married couples to join you and your bride on the dance floor.  Every couple of minutes he'll ask couples who've been married less than 1 year to leave the dance floor (except you and your wife), it gets whittled down to the longest married couple and you and your bride, then you exchange partners - She dances with the longest married man, you with the longest married woman.  Very sweet.  Hey!  As an alternate to the bouquet/garter toss, you could give that couple the bouquet and garter as special memento's!  \n\nCongratulations & Have fun!