text: A couple of things stood out in your question.....you said , "does he realize that I don't love him anymore?" You do still love him! You're hurt, and angry for the way he treated you, but you still love him anyway....just not his actions toward you. Second, you said" at what point does he realize he has lost her?" Do you think he cares? If he cared , he would not have left you in the first place and broke your heart! It does not matter to him. He is only thinking of himself....not you. I'm not being mean, I actually hurt for you...but stop worrying about what he thinks, and start looking out for yourself. You need to move on, and heal. Good Luck!!