text: Why on earth are you working this many hours? No job is worth your life. Cut back on the hours, or change your job. Work in leisure time into your schedule.\n\nParticipate in activities you enjoy and you're bound to meet someone who shares the same interests who you could possibly be friends with.\n\nIt's good that you're thinking about where to start. Now go out and make those lifestyle changes. Consider this: even if  you can get into a relationship as you are now, where would you find the time to be with this person?