text: It's a personal thing between husband and wife,no-one has any right to tell you what to do here.\n\nIt amazes me that others will harp on this.\n\nThere's really nothing wrong with it.\n\nHaving children is so life-changing-it's not about them(people who tell you this)-it's about you and your hubby.\n\nThey're not the ones who will invest their lifetimes bringing up your child,you will.  \n\nPlease!  They just want you to be miserable with them!