text: Marriage is a beautiful thing. A marriage is what you make of it. It's your choice whether or not you have the fights and screaming children. I have a Wonderful marriage. 3 (very well discipline)children, ages 12, 9, & 4. My husband and I may have a disagreement once a month. that's it. if i had to do it all over again. I Would. So the answer to your question is: It's Just You.