text: OK I'd send them a card........\n\nI understand your situation my mum divorced a guy I really liked he loved my boys and was great to them I never took advantage of them and basically when it ends like all divorces you stay with who was loyal to you....and blood is thicker.\n\nI am sorry for you....\n\nI am sorry for my ex step dad.... but I would not hurt my mum.\n\nThat's how they feel.\n\nSo send them a card tell them you care even though all this has happened and give them your phone number....Other than that know you made a difference being a part in their lives in some little or big way and try to move forward and make a life for yourself...  Hugs