text: I have been married 1 year and i dated my husband 2 years and i know first hand that the newness of a relationship wears off.  The lovey dovey hang all over each other gets old.  You get to comfortable with each other.  I would try new things.  It seems to work for me and my husband.  Like sleep in the living room a few nights, stay in a hotel, try being silly with him like grab his butt when he least expects it.  Well i'll stop blabbing.  Hope this works for you.