text: I am not sure oppa would be used for husband, but what you call a wife depends on whether you are talking about another person's wife or your own wife.  If is another person's wife you would say poo-een.  If it is your wife you are talking about, you'd say wooree ah-neh (which actually translates to "our wife" -- why they use "our" instead of "my" is a fun one to try to figure out).  \n\nIf you are talking TO your wife then you would use her name or maybe yoh-boh, but I am not sure that term is as popular as it used to be.