text: First of all, I'm truly sorry for your loss. \nSecondly, I think it largely depends upon whether or not you are the executor of his will, if he had one. My advice is to contact an "estate attorney" as soon as you can, if you haven't already. Even if you don't have to pay it back, you will most likely have a lot of paperwork to tackle, one way or the other- an attorney can really make it easier on you. Good luck- I will keep you in my prayers.