text: If your trying to pick up a girl at a bar, even as a couple, try buying her drinks then asking her out on a date. \n\nYou might find out after one or two drinks that she isn't worth your time or that this could be the one.\n\nAsk her sexually charged questions to find out if she would ever consider it, some difficult ones to Gage if she is honest. Then ask her on a date. Or if your not looking for friends just a no strings attached one nighter try joining a swing club. There are plenty of men, women, and couples at these clubs who are clean attractive, willing, and open minded enough to accept an interracial couple.