text: So, how long have you had these feelings of wanting to have relations with other people? This is clearly a voice screaming out for some attention. You need to stop before you do some serious damage to your relationship with your husband. When you start making assumptions, this leads to accusations. Or worse, you actually believe he is capable of / and having, an affair. So you go have an affair. STOP. He's married to you. Still. Don't be a fool. Just Love him back and don't worry about his past.