text: sounds like your typical 14 yr old. They get that age and know it all. This is not always a bad thing. She is rebelling. Try some reverse psychology on her. Try acting like you dont care either. Plus, when she acts like this she is getting lots of attention from everyone telling her she should do it. Have everyone stop doing this and act as if they dont care if she goes or not. Have them talk with her about other aspects of her life. This will take the focus off of this and she will be more willing to go.  good luck