text: I will be honest with you . . . and not blow smoke up your a**.\n\nUnfortunately . . . guys are initially attracted to a girls physical appearance . . . and not what is inside.  I've dated tomboys before . . . but never stayed long with them . . . because I wasn't physically attracted to them.  They were great conversationalists . . . but for getting Big Jim up . . . it was difficult . . . unless they were nude.\n\nOdds are . . . he has always known you to be that tomboy . . . who hung out with the guys.  And is a great buddy . . . but as a girl friend . . . I don't think so.  To them it may be like dating one of your male friends.\n\nDid your bestfriend's boyfriend's bestfriend . . . seen your new look . . . probably . . . but he still sees you as a buddy . . . not a gf.  What to do . . . honestly I don't know . . . because I don't think going to extremes will help.\n\nMy advice . . . find someone else . . . who is like you . . . but doesn't know about your tomboy past.