text: you dont "spot" a cheating wife,they either aren't or they are there are no tell tale signs no dead give aways,you either catch her or you dont \ngive me a break all you people who said losing weight buying new things etc was a way to spot a cheating wife!! i get a new hair style once in a while,buy new sexy clothes all the time,wear sexy undies,and shave my pubes and i hardly give any to my husband(thats his fault),that doesn't mean i am cheating,i love my husband very much i do all those things to please him,but still i am ignored,never told i am loved never complemented on anything i do or how i look...ever thought that maybe you were not doing something right,not fulfilling the need at home,marriage is not just about sex guys look into your realationship a bit and see whats missing,happy women dont cheat,underappreciated ones do,maybe your wife is doing all those things just so you will notice she is alive and still there