text: How about this...figure out why you are so unhappy and change it. Divorce doesnt always fix stuff, and sneaking around will only make things harder. If you don't get rid of the "unhappy" you will just carry that into another relationship..and NO WOMEN {even if they are unhappy too} will want to hear your crap. They would want you to be there for them. (I like the craigs list answer...hahahhhaa)