text: Yes it would bother me.  I recently filed for divorce from a verbally abusive husband, he never thought "it was that bad" either.  If you are feeling isolated and confused, you should go, especially for the sake of your child.  Given the fact that he has already shown abusive behavior, I can understand why him even touching you would be a problem. I hope it works out for you.  I too struggle each day with my decision,but I never have regreted it.  I am much happier now, even though each day can be a challenge, I know i'll be Ok now.  Good luck to you.