text: You can't make him do anything.\nIf you push it, he'll be mad at you. He may even break up with you over it.\nIf this is not his baby, it will come out. Then you don't get to gloat, you get to console him.\nJust be there for him and support him. \nThink of it this way...What a wonderful kind of man have you've got that would be willing to love another man's child just so he knows that baby is loved? How lucky are you?\nIt's hard to find a man these days who will take responsibility for there own children, much less someone other guy's or even if there was a chance they could belong to someone else.