text: Sadly, some girls are attracted to 'bad boys' and often get hurt as a result.  When I was younger, I used to be friends with many very attractive girls who were 'in love' with guys that just hurt them over and over again.  I, of course, was just screaming inside that I wanted them to notice me as more than a friend, but they were obsessed with these guys.  They often moved from one bad boy to another.  Sometimes it is because of the way their fathers treated their moms...women tend to be attracted to people like their fathers.  Some girls are rebellious and they look for guys that they know their parents won't approve of.\nAs for being raped, guys can't really be raped...guess you know that.  All I can suggest is that you learn from your mistake and look for someone with more positive qualities...ones that these ex b/f's don't have.  Good luck!