text: My advice would definitely be don't be someone you aren't because she would eventually find out that you are a phony.Maybe just come out ands ask her!If she says no just say "that's a loss for you".Sometimes girls will say no because they are embarrassed and don't want to answer something like that around someone like their Friends.I had the same problem as you do!If you only want to get a girl because she is "hot and popular" dont do it!Its not real!If that doesn't work go out with there Friend and if they realy like you they will become jealous and u get your girl!Don't hurt your own heat hurt, them by going out with their Friend!