text: you have to sit her down and talk to her... agree before you start that neither one will get angry, or yell... and NO FIGHTING......\n\nthen you can each discuss your concerns... i am promising you though... this situation sounds like she doesn't agree with some of the things you do, and obviously it is not working for you either, so you will probly have to come to some sort of mutual agreement... compromise is the key, and no matter what... don't get mad... if you, as the daughter can control your temper, then she should see that and make an effort to do the same... if she gets mad, just give her some time to think about what you have said, and in that time you think about her points too... you can work it out... your dad seem to think so, or he wouldn't make you go back... so, at least try, and try and try again... she is bound to eventually see that you are making an effort to work things out... it won't get better overnight... you have to be patient in these sort of situations... and there sounds like there are anger issues too... try to talk those out as well...