text: ok i understand where ur coming from i had the same problem. i first met my dude in 6th grade and from there we became very good friends we had everything in common and had fun with each other then when we were n 11th grade. we decided to date and it was good at first but then he started acting different just like u explained with ur gf but i think u should just break off the relationship because u need to explore other options in dating... i know u love her and i know she loves u too but i think shes not ready for that commitment like u are so thats y shes pushing u away...but i know 1 thing if u 2 r meant to be then u guys will get back together in the future and it will be when ur older and ready to settle down from all the other relationships that dont work out...but for now just enjoy ur teenage life because ur too young for serious relationships because there might be other girls that u think is the one for u but not so just chill  continue being friends...GOOD LUCK