text: this is more common place than everyone realizes. in custody cases it is almost always brought up at some point. It is one of the most dificult things for a man to defend himself against. the danger here is not that your child be taken away from you but that the child may be taken away from both mother and father. get a lawyer and keep the best interests of your child your first priority. and if you by chance are guilty, admit it and get help, remember your daughter's well being is the most important thing here.