text: You seem to have a handle on the language, so I hardly think that's the problem.  I've seen Americans on here who didn't write as understandably as you have.  I'm pretty sure he didn't mean to hurt your feelings, but he DOES have a valid point, hun!  It is nice having a nanny but she won't always be with you to comfort the crying baby.  What does she do to make the child stop crying?  Babies cry naturally, they teethe, have gas and things like that and can't tell us what's hurting.  You should try to take a little more of a hands-on approach yourself...you may be surprised at the postiive results!