text: Hmm. I used to be like this with my bf (still am a bit, it's just my personality, but I'm learning to deal). Just let her know how you feel and tell her that her 'tude might be hurting your relationship. Let her know you are an individual who has nothing to do with her exes and if you really want to stay with her, let her know this as well. She will appreciate the honesty. Good luck!