text: For me fortunately I was given another chance for it and I am able to do what I have should have done years ago.  But I know that the road I did take was much harder that just trusting my instincts and intuition.  I am glad that I still have the chance but now I can help to think that where would I have been now if I did what I was supposed to do then.  Your question was pretty broad and I am not sure if this is something that you are personally going through now, but if you are I would say follow your heart and open yourself up to what you know what is right and trust what you be live.  I know people who have not had the chance to do the things they should have done when the they had the chance and they regret it for the rest of their lives.  You don't want to fall into that category. Try not to get stick singing a shoulda coulda woulda...