text: I honestly don't believe that one can be in love, with 2 people. I do however believe that she does love one, while she is in lust with the other. For her own benefit and the sake of the others, she needs to figure out which one is which. All your friend is doing right now is being selfish. She's having her cake and eating it too. I don't think she will end this until she's forced to and the only way that is going to happen is if she's caught. You might be her friend and all but this isn't right and someone should tip her husband off, if you know what i mean.