text: Losing your virginity is defined as penile-vaginal intercourse.  So, you're still a virgin until you do that. \n\nNow, I recommend you don't do anything else with your boyfriend since you sound too young and immature (if you have to ask, you're not ready).  \n\nWait a few years, get all the facts, and then if you're ready (and very safe), should you do the deed.