text: It really sounds like your not ready to make this commitment.  You can still love each other and plan a life time commitment without having to burden the parents.\n\nTrust me, you will want your privacy and you would want to keep the relationship of the parents in good standing.\n\nAfter 3 weeks after leaving under another person roof you would start feeling other the pressure.\n\nBe happy and wait.\n\nGood Luck.