text: As you have instinctively guessed, your marriage is in trouble. \n\nYou need to spend undivided time with your spouse without the children in order for your marriage to thrive.  Dr. Willard F. Harley, an expert in Marriage Counseling and one of the Best in the Business recommends 15 hours a WEEK of time together alone for Healthy marriages in no danger.  \n\nYour marriage is in danger already, a situation where he recommends More Alone Time together with each other.\n\nI strongly recommend you go to the following site and read all you can.  Dr. Harley is available by writing an email, calling his radio show, and his son, Steve Harley, an excellent couples counselor in his own right directed by Dr. Harley, heads up the phone counseling division for a fee, but you can benefit without ever paying a cent just by exploring the site, calling the radio show, and/or reading his books.\n\nYour local library has Dr. Harley's books.  You might start by reading His Needs Her Needs, or Fall In Love Stay In Love.\n\nIt may be tough to get to the bottom of her issues, I wish you the best of luck.