text: First of all nothing good ever comes from a lie or a secret, so yes you should tell him. Secondly, people often confuse sex with love. True love goes far beyond sexual gratification and physical attraction. Your opening line addresses the phsyical aspects of your relationship rather then your spiritual connection. My advice to you is to make sure BOTH of you are in Love. For your relationship to truly be successful both of you must feel the same way about each other. If he really loves you, he will choose you over his career. I will keep you in my prayers. Peace and God bless.