text: Your boyfriend is who he is. If you don't like him that way--unromantic--then perhaps you two aren't a good match. It's not likely you are going to change him, and if you feel a need to change him in order for you to be happy, your future promises to be a disaster.\n\nDate and love men who are acceptable to you as they ARE, because it's just unreasonable to expect someone to change their personality for you.