text: I once saw a Saturday Night Live sketch where a lady goes to see a psychologist and runs off for a full five minutes about all the things in her life that went wrong and all the areas that are now out of control. The psychologist told her to pay him $500 up front and he would tell her what she needed to do to solve all her problems. She reluctantly paid him and after a few seconds of staring at her, he simply said two words... 'stop it'.\n\nI offer the same advise to you, for free. \nThis relationship is not healthy because it has no outlet. If you give something, ANYTHING, it must be returned. If not, you must show enough respect for yourself to seek it elsewhere. I don't mean that in a bad way, but you must demand respect for every thing you have to offer, for if you don't. No one else can be expected to. \n\nIf you want things to get better, make better choices.