text: is there any going on at her house, is she made fun at a lot, or does she have a low self estteem cuz maybe that is why she stopped caring about herself maybe she doesnt find that she is worth it any more give her a present to try to cheer her up, i know what u are talking aout cuz it happened to me except i was the girl in hte grandmas clothes my friends stood by my side like you are and i changed, i applaud you for being such a good friend, if she doesnt change maybe you have outgrown each other.