text: Evidently you have been nurturing this on for some time... even prior to breaking up with your three year fling... It sounds like you want it to happen... Is he aware that you are free to date now... unattached...? If he is, I would do nothing and see if he asks you out in a week or so... if he doesn't, he's just a good office friend with no romantic interest... Some people don't like dating fellow office workers... It's a definite no no... especially when disagreements arise in your private life... I would change my focus and look elsewhere... You are pretty enough to attract a variety of eligible men... so don't worry about that... Just work on that sparkling personality...