text: the truth is they are not the same. but sad to say, people treat them as if you can't love without having sex. although, it is somewhat the expression of love.\n\nsex is a gift from God for married people, it is supposed to be sacred in the sanctity of marriage. in my opinion, wait till you are married then have sex all you want. \n\nthat is why i respect the filipino culture that says something about this. sad to say too, we are slowly losing it. though some still believe that sex should be done only when you are married. and i believe that. there is nothing like having it first with your husband... it will be grand!