text: Hello, \n  My name is Rod and I'm 36.  I think that part of the problem is that a lot of guys just dont have respect for women,  or they disrespect thinking that they are cool and they are not even putting the shoe on the other foot because if they were being sincere and some women started bashing them I dont think that they would like to be treated like that.  Kinda like the pot calling the kettle  black.   hope this helps and good luck in your search.