text: i dont understand, do you mean that we could have 4 of them, or is it 4 differnt ways to get married, either way i believe that if we were to all change our ways, if marriage laws changed, i dont really think it would make that huge of a differnt on society, becuase well its just marriage, yes its important, but i dont see it as such a big thing, to be like ooooo which of the 4 ways can i do it, or if its 4 marriages, i believe in 1 person, only, i would never hurt anyone like that, and if you meant with the same person, thats why renewing your vows is, i hope i'v answer your question