text: No.  When your boyfriend, my husband, and the thousands of other soldiers signed the contract to enlist in the military they knew that defending our country was part of the job.  I do not like the fact that in the last 3 years my husband has been home only 15 months, but lets face it, it is his job.  \n\nAll we can do is pray for them when they are not here and love them like there is no tomorrow when they are home.  I knew what I was getting into when I married him and as much as I hate him being gone every other year, I have to live with it, that is the job of a military wife.\n\nGod Bless All Our Troops