text: OMG my x did the same exact thing to me.  My x broke up with me, but she will still hug and kiss me.  Like she keeps reeling me back in.  Confusing i know.  When we were first going out she made it quite clear that she could never come out to her parents.  Then a few days ago she says that she is really only 20% gay.  What a slam in the face to me.  She won't accept anything of who she is.  Maybe she believes that denying the truth will make her life easier. I really don't know if dating someone like this is a great idea, but it depends on how much you care for them.  I still love my x a lot and if she wanted to get back together i would be all for it, but at the same time i don't get the full benefits of a healthy relationship.  The only quetion you need to ask is if the good out weighs the bad.  Do you still enjoy being around her?  If her denial is upsetting you that much then maybe it is better to break it off, but if you still seriously care for her, then it makes it a little more difficult to just let go.