text: First off, I am sorry you are in that situation.  I was too, and I did marry that guy.  I do love my husband but we still don't get along any better. We were forced into marriage because I was pregnant and I had just left an abusive realtionship and wanted a steady thing.  Don't settle with someone just to settle down.  Sure the idea of a husband is nice, but what is the point if you can't get along?  Your happiness is of the utmost importance.  You need to sit down and have a talk with him about your feelings, he at least deserves that. He may feel the same way. Good Luck!