text: Be friendly, don't flirt, focus on making your beauty the internal kind.  Be honest, but kind.  Strive to do the right thing in every situation.  And don't talk about yourself.  Just be interested in whatever anyone is saying and ask questions about them.  Take the focus away from yourself and make it on other people.  Because everyone is  most interested in themselves, showing interest in them gives them the cue that you care about what they (even secretly) love to talk about most.  Even if you have to pretend at first, you will be pleasantly surprised to discover that you really WILL become interested in other people.  An exercise in humility.