text: I think that you should back away from him. Right now, you're letting him have all the benefits of being with you, while you have to share his affections with another girl.If he really loved you than he would give up the relationship with the other girl and soley be yours. You should give him an ultimatum...either she goes or you do. You definitely deserve better than second rate...which is where he has you now. Also, you should be aware that if you do get with him he could have a secretive relationship with someone else while you two are dating just like he has done with you now.