text: Brother Mustafaa, where have you been all my life?!  Just kidding!  It is so nice to see that there are still some Black men who are attracted to Black women and don't see anything wrong with dating Black women.  You are not strange or racist for wanting to date Black women!  A lot of people on this website throw the word "racist" around too much and they aren't using it correctly.  Racism is an institutionalized system by which certain groups of people are oppressed; their civil rights are consistently denied.  How does choosing to date and marry someone from your particular ethnic group qualify as a racist act?!  Whose civil rights are you violating?!  I personally think your attitude is a lot healthier than some of these people (usually people of color) who REFUSE to date someone of their own ethnic group. I think deep down people view Black as wrong and ugly;that's why you're viewed as strange for liking Black women.  They don't understand why on earth  you would want to date a Black woman when you can get a "prettier" white, Hispanic or Asian woman.  I say if it's okay for Caucasian people to fall in love with each other, it should be okay for Blacks to do the same.