text: Well, if I get a crush, it's normally on someone I know very well and I've developed a close friendship with and really trust and respect.  So, in my case, YES YES YES!\n\nBut if it was a crush on a new guy that I didn't know as well, I would take my time.  I'd agree to maybe go on a date with him and I would definately make time to spend with him...but the girlfriend part would have to come after we'd developed a good friendship.