text: I got married at 21....and lost my virginity at 16.  In that time I slept with over 50 men.  I'm not proud of what I did....but I'm not ashamed either.  I always took the proper precautions, and have never had a disease; and only one unwanted pregnancy(which I miscarried at 7 weeks).  I have never hid my past from any of my partners, nor have I felt a need to.  As soon as my husband and I started dating I told him straight out how many partners I'd had, he doesn't have any issues with it, so why should I?