text: eh... for me all I have to do is picture sleeping with a man or picture sleeping with a woman (when you are not horny or in the act of sex) in a regular situation and the choice is obvious.  It just depends on whether you are only sexually/physically attracted to women and whether you would rather have a relationship with women than men.  For myself I could never be with a man sexually or relationship wise (and never have) and that is how I know.  I guess growing up I should have had a clue when all my friends had boyfriends and I never did.  I thought I was asexual at the time because I didn't know any different.  I didn't even know what a lesbian was until high school and now it feels as natural as ever.\n\nWhy do you think you are a lesbian?  Could you explain more?