text: i think you are over him.  it's YOU that you need to fix up and change.  get new hobbies, learn new things, meet new people.  fix yourself up and make yourself new.  they say it takes 23 days to make a new habit become part of who you are.  so, starting on Thanksgiving, wake up each day and write down a new thing to learn or do each day and go out and do it.  by Christmas day you the feelings you have will be gone, and you'll have a great New Year with the New You!!!