text: if your not attractive on the outside, be attractive on the inside.  he might notice you then.  if your serious about this and he's not noticing you try getting in shape.  also you might want to get to know him as a friend.   If you as a fat ugly woman just walk up to him and tell him how you feel he's gonna be wierded out.  you need to make an effort in your own life before trying to include yourself in someone elses life.