text: Eventually you'll find a woman where you'll find yourself thinking "Hey wait just a cotton-pickin minute....she doesn't have all of the traits I want in a woman, and by golly I love her anyway".  You'll find that with enough time and with the right person your 'laundry list' will lessen and the things that TRULY matter will surface.  (Just be careful to not let them get lost again when you get comfortable in the relationship)\nAnd by the way.....if you don't want more children that isn't selfish, and the right woman won't care and will support your decisions and accept your 6 year old and love him as her own.