text: Wow you sound a little conceited in your ideals for yourself. Whose judgments are using to gauge your results. I find it hard to believe that you never hurt anyone. How do you know you are a good wife, whose standards are you following. How do you know you are a good parent? \n I think I am a decent wife, though not perfect by any means. My children have grown into decent hardworking adults for the most part. I am disabled and totally housebound except for maybe once a month getting out to see my grandkids. I believe I am an open minded person who can see more than alot of people because of the hardships and life I have had to live. I don't mean to ever hurt anyone, but I know that I have when I have said things in anger, or said something without thinking. I am as good as I can be I guess. Far from perfect, perfectly human.