text: I can understand a lesbian not liking men and therefore not liking gay men since we are a subset of men -- -- but not liking JUST gay men or thinking its wrong.\n\nThat's frankly very hypocritical -- although I imagine it comes out of the idea that men are there 'for women'  -- are you sure she's really a lesbian and not some sort of a pseudo-lesbian who "decided" to be a lesbian no matter what her body felt or wanted?   People who don't follow what is natural for them, for any reason -- are usually pretty f**ked up, and I've known some WAP women who weren't really lesbians, but lived as them.  Makes no sense to me.\n\nReynolds Jones\nSchenectady, NY\nhttp://www.rebuff.org