text: You're exhibiting the lack of the #1 quality that us men devour; confidence.  It's hard being a woman I would imagine when you're constantly bombarded with what society thinks is attractive and desirable; and even that changes year-to-year so even Eva Longoria will be plain in a couple of years.\n\nConfidence does not come with make-up, clothing, or other earthy trappings.  It's something you build up over time when you get to understand who you are.\n\nThe quickest path to getting confidence is to stop wasting energy on what the world thinks of you and spend time on caring about what you think of you.  Once you love yourself, it will exude in a way that convinces other people they should be confident about you as well.