text: I am a female from the USA, and I can tell you , that is so not right, what she is doing to you is so wrong, and that is what we call "keeping you hanging"  she doesn't want you right now, but she doesn't want to chance that you might find someone else, so, if I were you, I would NOT take her on that holiday with you, tell her you are not waiting on someone who doesn't love you, and tell her to come after her things, if she sees that you mean business, it just might change her mind about her feelings for you,  Why would you want to be with someone that says they don't love you? It sounds to me, that she just wants the holiday, and not you.  And you don't deserve how she is treating you, you are too good for her.