text: u answered ur question...u love him...and when u love someone...u dont see the flaws...u see perfection...and although u are influenced by society as to which man is perfect...deep in ur heart u know that  ,u care for him that much...and if u have all reason to stay...stay and enjoy his love....but when it get to the point that u just feel pain and  hurt all the time...then u have to move on....