text: WRONG! The simple surgical procedure does not effect the man, except made his pride in any way. After my husband had a vasectomy we had more sex than before, because he was much less worried it would result in another pregnancy.  Tell him to suck it up and be a man, and get the operation, or you could have your tubes tied, which cost 3 times as much, he could take time off his job to care for the children and household chores while you recuperate for about 6 weeks! And absolutely no sex for at least 6 weeks, if you have to have the operation.......Seriously, they are only uncomfortable for maybe a couple of days!