text: why dont they have joint custody? No this will not end untill he gets joint custody. I feel bad for you cause i know you must love this guy and now you cant see him cause then he will not be able to see his kids. That is an awfull spot to be put in . I would hate it . But anyway see if you can get him to go and file for joint custody and then you should be able to see him any time you want. good luck and god bless an dhappy holidays.