text: It took for him to actually change his passwords and not tell you them for you to get that "gut" feeling that something isn't right!!\nCome on girl. You are smarter than that. It's more than a gut feeling. You KNOW something isn't right and he's pretty much tellling you that things aren't the same. The messed up thing is you don't really know how long he's been hiding stuff from you because you are just now finding stuff.\nWho is to say he hasn't been hiding stuff from you for quite some time and you just now are noticing the obvious stuff.\nWhat you need to do is open you a bank account for just you and start putting money away so that when he does leave you, you will have a little something to live off of. \nYou aren't being paranoid. You are being naive to think that he has been completely honest with you all this time...but that is what a marriage is supposed to be about so it was only right for you to think that until you had proof otherwise. Now that you do...it's time for you to do something about it.\nI don't know if he's planning on leaving you. I don't know what he's doing, but he is up to no good. That's a given. So get your mind prepared for the worst.