text: So what did you talk about when you two were together?  You must have some common interests - more than "tell me about your day, honey."  Go for that.  If you can't talk on the phone, maybe you two weren't meant for each other.\n\nI'm sure there is lots more for each of you to find out about the other...dreams & hopes for the future, politics, religion, other interests...if it is too difficult, there is a bigger problem.