text: Yes he is using you and playing you.He also is used to everyone else paying his way.He needs to be taught how to manage his fi\nnances and fend for himself and become responsible like you sound\nyou are.Try talking to him and offering to help him.if that fails then do yourself a favor and dump him and move-things will only get worse  and not better\nGood Luck to you-you sound like a very decent person.