text: Depends on what you are trying to accomplish.  If quik meaningless relationships is what you want.  then trampy clothing usually is good.  but love is different, love happens on the whim.  Love is more like something you cant pinpoint.  My wife drives me crazy, and sometimes I havnt a clue why im in love with her.  then other times I dont even question it because its just there.  the presence of love Im refering too.  If a date is what your after, I would have to say confidance.  i love smart woman...so if they are smart...thats a plus.