text: I do not share your faith, but will speak only as a person, as you ask. \n\nA life is the span of years alotted to a person to spend on this earth. It can be spent well or badly, but it WILL end. This is what gives it value. When it does end, many of us believe we go on to something else. I believe that. I have also seen some evidence that one who has died can influence those still among the living. When a life ends, I think it appropriate to celebrate that life.  It's good to remember all that the person brought to those around them and did in that life. \n\nIt is too bad that your uncle had to leave his family behind. Death is hardest on the living. I am sure he feels the love the family still has for him. It may help to think of him as not all that far away. Death brings a certain peace. Your uncle has been freed of his pain.