text: well first of all  tell your dad  i  undestand  u are wiyth  blah blah blah now  but dad  i  would  like it  if u can spend at least this  saturday  with me  just u n me   , and  let her know as well  tell her  hey  im glade   my  dad  makes  u happy  and   u make him happy  but  i would  like some  time  with  my dad  without  u   , another thing  if   your dad   is  like on a visitation type schedule   or what ever   joint custody  , then  tell your  mom  and  let her talk  to  him alone   or even  with u  , your  mom dont have to let the new  gf  in the  house  but  it will look beter  if she does  , another thing  u can also  have your  mom  contact the courts   adn if  u r  old  enough  u can  make a reasonabl  request that  your dad spends  at least  one day out  of the month   with u and  only u  but  dont make  it more than  that one day