text: Yes, she could possibly still have part of her hymen, particularly if she didn't bleed--either she didn't have one to begin with, or it didn't get stretched or torn enough.  \n\nHave you tried using lubricants?  That might help--there's a lot of friction down there, it could hurt without a good lube.    \n\nIs it possible that she's nervous...maybe worried that someone else will hear, worried about getting pregnant, anything.  If she's not relaxed, the muscles down there will tighten up and make things painful.\n\nThis is something she should ask her gynocologist about, if nothing seems to help.  Don't worry, gynocologists hear this sort of thing all the time.  They will be able to tell if there's a physiological problem.  \n\nSex is both a mental and a physical thing.  If she's worried, nervous, thinking about something else, has a hormonal problem, still has her hymen, doesn't have enough lubricant...all of those things and more can contribute to it.