text: You know what, Flowergirl?\n\nWho cares?  The way I see it, if you have a brotha that acts like this, you don't want him anyway!  Tell him to keep it moving so you can see your way clearly to the well-adjusted brothas that will honor and treat you like a queen.\n\nDon't rule out other races either.  Yes, I married a wonderful Black man, but good men are hard to find in any race, so do not limit yourself!