text: You have two holes down below- one very large, which I hope you have explored by age 23! This is the vaginal opening. In front of this, there is a smaller hole, the urethral opening. It is easier to see on a man! \n\ntry this (it will sound weird but oh well): place a large bowl on the floor in the bathroom, and angle a mirror so you can watch. pee in the bowl. Feel with your fingers where it is coming from, and trace it back to the top. (urine is sterile and water-soluble so there really is nothing gross about this!- just wash your hands afterwards). You will find exactly where it is, and the mirror lets you watch it in action. You can then match it to a picture online that shows both openings, and get a pretty good idea what is going on down there...\n\nAnd learn your anatomy- it will help you be a better lover...