text: I don't know why, but I could list about 50 things I don't like about you.  I would strugle to get out 5 things I like about you.\nIt seems easier to judge people in a negative way.  It might be something in our nature or instinct, like a defense mechanism.  \nThink like a wolf.  If another wolf comes in your territory, will you go over and play?  Hell no, you'll snap at him before he snaps at you.  You will try to show him your the biggest wolf around.\nWe try to immediately tear people down before we even meet them.  We will snap before being snapped at.  It's human nature.  It takes lots of training and practice to overcome that.\nGood luck.