text: If you have doubts then you probably shouldn't be with him. Just the fact that he has worked only 2 months out of the 1 1/2 years since graduation tells me he isn't very serious about his own life and expects mom or you to take care of him and his every need.\nTo me he sounds like what is known as a "mama's boy". A "mama's boy" never grows up and will always expect the woman to do everything for him, hence the way he treats his mom. Most likely he will treat you the same way.\nYour guy living at home with mom isn't a bad thing but his not helping her is. I'm grown and still live at home with dad and sister. In my case I work full time, do my own cleaning & laundry, pay my own bills, and help with household expenses. I also help dad with car repairs, house repairs, and yardwork (although he usually doesn't want my help).