text: Hon, I have been there several times and I know it hurts. Time is the best healer. First try to get your mind on something else, anything so that your mind isn't on the person. Go to the movie place and browse for a good movie (a comedy is always good), go to the library, or out shopping and browsing.  Just get out and do something...anything to avoid sitting at home and thinking about the person.  Have a good cry, listen to sad love songs and then get out of the house and do some things.  Try spending extra time with friends or your kids(if you have them), or even at work.  You will find as each day goes by the pain fades.  You may still love the person, but when you think of them again it won't hurt anymore as time goes by.