text: Its a cliche. Its like why people have to wear like Polo or Nautica or have Coach purses. Its a cliche and its a style they "want' and they think they "need" \n\nWomen think that they feel secure with a man in the military, when in reality, we're just another guy. Yeah we work in bigger "corporations" where we have weapons, and special traning blah bah blah, but in reality, hello? we're just men. Men are men no matter what. \n\nAgain, NOt all military guys are a ss holes. And not all of them are jerks. you have to be the judge of that. No way you can just judge them on their uniform. And think, "wow that guy has a lot of medals, he must be really good." Sorry it doesn't work that way. \n\nWomen, no offense I think in my own opinion, they just want to be flattered. Have bragging rights, yeah my bf was in the military or is in the military and he's some big guy. Kind of in those ways.