text: The point is why does it feel the need to tell you this womans coming round to his?\n\nIs he testing the water to see how you react?\n\nYou could always ask him how he feels about your relationship.  You could tell him.  Do you know how he will react?  Will it change your relationship if you tell him?\n\nOr you could be a little sly and invite him round to yours.  Have loads of alcohol and make a move on him, that way if he doesn't respond the ways you want, you can blame it on the alcohol!