text: Don't go around her anymore. I realize that she is family, though I don't quite understand how she is related unless she is your brother's wife or your husbands' brother's wife. \n\nAs far as her flirting, there isn't much you can do. If she knows it bothers you, she will do it more often. When there are family things going on, stay close to your husband or just let him deal with her if she comes onto him. If it's his brother's wife, maybe your husband can talk to his brother. I doubt she is really after your husband, she is just out to make you mad. Sounds like she is doing a good job too.\n\nLike you would tell a kid when someone is bugging them, ignore her. After she sees you aren't going to take the bait, she should stop. \n\nGood Luck