text: I had an experience like this some years ago.\n\n It's very disturbing. It is as if you have been found guilty of something, but haven't been told what.\n\nIt took mee some time to get my head round it and in the end I became quite angry about it. I realised that the person in question was  immature and probably had a lot of problems with relationships.\n\nYou can IM me about this if you like.