text: you can't trust him. I know because the same thing happened to me. We've been married for 20 years and he cheated with one of our employees about a year age. I fired her and he said he'd never do it again.  About 1 month age, i caught him again.  firing her didn't stop anything. We have 2 teenagers and my life is ruined. We are trying to co-exist for the kids, but it's not working out. leave him now and move on.