text: I would say no.  There is nothing wrong with asking for help when you need it, as far as I'm concerned.  However, if God is putting a different conviction on YOUR heart, that is a different story.  Darling, I will pray for you to receive wisdom in your decision.  My best suggestion is for you and hubby to pray together and seperately about it.  Search the Word, ask God to give you an answer to your problem.  Don't forget, as a Christian, anything that is on your heart is also on His.  Only He can tell you what He wants you to do.