text: TELL HIM.... I was in the same boat with a girl I knew many years ago.... I fell in love with her as a friend..... then, as we got closer and closer... I fell in love with her completely... and I knew she cared about me but, neither of us every told each other how we truly felt....  though we stayed friends.. I ended up moving away and we didn't keep in touch often enough.. next thing I knew.. she met a guy and they got married... I told her several years later after she'd had two children...  she told me she was in love with me but didn't think I liked her that way.\nShe would have married me... I would have married her... but we didn't tell each other how we felt until it was too late.  We're still friends.. but we don't see each other now because I think we both know what would happen.\n\nDon't wait until it's completely too late... tell him now....  if your friendship is powerful.... it'll remain that way regardless... if he feels the same way... maybe his 'current' relationship will end and he'll be with you....  but if you don't tell him, you'll regret it for the rest of your life and will always want to know.....\n\nI hope it works out for you!