text: Yes, you are going way too fast.\n\nHaving a kid takes 100% of your time.. Since getting my two year old sone, my wife and I have been out, alone, 4 times.. in 2 1/2 years.. Wait untill your an adult to have a child.\n\nEnjoy life, travel see the world.. You will NOT be the same person in 10 years as you are now, and neither will he.\n\n\nSlow down before you screw up 3 lives.\n\n-HtJ