text: He will deny it and you will be branded the Big Bad B***h who was trying to split up a happily married couple coz you fancy him yourself.  ....Well thats what he will say anyway!!\n\nYou will have enemy's coming out of your ears love!\n\nIt's a prediciment all right, I personally would like to know if it was my husband cheating, and I'd hope that someone would tell me.\n\nbut don't do it face to face, write an anon letter to her telling her days they are together etc  (He may say he is working late) and company do dates that she should be coming to as his wife that way she can investigate more and she can catch him in the act.\n\nGood luck\nx