text: Well this is one of the things two people first learn to do when they want to have a relationship together. Falling in love is easy but managing the responsibilities that come after takes work and compromise. Based on your statements that the guy who is having some financial struggles right now is still the one you would like most to be involved with then here's my suggestion. Tell him you really want to work things out between you but that you need to be able to see each other and spend more time together. Tell him that you understand that having the money needed to do this is hard for him to manage on his own right now and that you would like for the two of you to work together to save money and then be able to make plans to spend those times together. This accomplishes two things, assuming he feels as much for you as you do for him and is willing to make whatever sacrifices are necessary to be together. First, you show him that you are willing to work as hard as him to make things possible between you and secondly, in doing this, you provide the motivation he appears to need to be more self reliant financially.\n\nGood Luck & Best Wishes!!