text: Leave him.  You are no good for him.  By this I mean you must be a happy, complete person before you get in a relationship.  It is not a partners responsibilty to make you happy.  \n\nYou don't need to make him understand.  Ending it is enough.  It's his responsibility to make his peace with it, not yours.\n\n\nReflecting on your life and figuring out what you want is great.  And things change so it's a good idea to stay in touch with yourself 'cuz your wants can change.\n\nNo one belongs to anybody, again his problem to deal with.