text: love is the ability to know the worst about someone and still be able to take bull from them...many boyfriends think that they have reached a stage in life where they can confidently say that they are in love, so they want to to have fruits of that love with the girls that they are "in love" with. these girls are incidentally young. it's not something bad, just a normal unselfish desire but most often, these boys have no idea what having a kid entails; they just want a little version of themselves that they can love and be a family with, allong with the mothers of their babies. it's "cool" to be a father!(that's what they think). it might be cool, yeah, but it also is a lot of work!