text: oh yeah.  been married 20 yrs w/ 2 kids.  I really trusted the ****.  And like a fool, i forgave him and thought everything was fine, then come to find out almost a year later, he's still doin it and her. in the process of getting divorced. man am i goin to screw him royally, just like he did me. as for how did i know, i felt it in the pit of my stomache and used some detective skills i've learned over the years.  If you think he's cheatin and you get a knot in your gut, then he's cheating.  and as much as i hate to say it " once a cheater, always a cheater."