text: I'm a girl and a gamer and my husband is too, and obviously I cannot complain.\n\nMaybe....... unlike all the other men that are spending their time in bars and sleeping around, they ARE waiting for when they are ready to meet someone that actually meets their interests?\n\nObviously there's more than enough men for you, you are such a winner, with how you want men to spend their money on girls instead of interests.\n\nBesides, 17-23 is an age where most boys are still maturing, women mature faster and men kind of take a while to catch up, I have a 7 year age difference, my husband is much older than me and I think that it's the only way I would ever be on the same wavelength, and he's still immature about a lot of things. \n\nI think most guys are not playing games, actually, but instead smoking pot, out having 'fun', getting into deadly car wrecks, dealing, dancing in clubs and popping E, knocking girls up and then stiffing them, and wasting time in other ways.\n\nI think you have some gamer you might be going for and they're just not interested. Maybe these guys are just not interested enough in petty things and hanging out and would rather play games.\n\nTo note: my husband also plays Dungeons and Dragons and he got me involved in it; and no we are not nerds in any typical way, he's ex-military and I'm an ex-model (after baby your body kind of fades...)