text: I've been where you're at and after 27 yrs of boring straight sex that did nothing for me, I found my current partner who I really love and we've been together for almost a year. Try going to a Gay/Lesbian bar or club. Or go on line to find out whats hot in your area. Even if you dont meet anyone "special" that night, its always good to network, and they can introduce you to other people and invite you to other happenings and events. But Beware...being bi-sexual in the lesbian community is seen as "confused" and "not knowing what you really want"...I hope it all works out for you :)