text: At your young age, it would be best if you did not pursue marriage or children at this time; you will appreciate this advice later.  You may be bi,  know what you are and what you want in life before you start involving children.\nFollow your heart, ignore fundamental Christians.  I'm a Christian, and think they are bigots and way off base.  If you really feel f****d, then see psychological counsel who is educated, but not working through some church.  Listen to his professional advice.  Often one session would do.  Also explore non-judgmental churches if you are Christian or interested.  The Episcopal Church is a good place to start.  They are welcoming and non-judgmental.  Some things are definitely between you and God, not the large haired ladies, and wild fanatics that visit this room so often to spew hate.  When in doubt, read John 3:16, feel secure and safe.  Watch out for the bigots, they can be murderers while preaching love.