text: Best Answer!\n\nDaniel, my friend.\n\nI am a guy and when a lady say she wants a man with confidence she is referring to his ability to express himself and decision. She wants to know that you believe the thoughts/conversation/ actions you take when with her or are you just running game to impress her. \nBasically she is saying are you full of SH!%t or sincere to your method of communicatiing.