text: I would like to say yes get back together, but its really not the answer, first you got to forgive yourself these things happen, and to be honest you can't have been in love with in the first place cos you would't have done it so no going back is not the answer, stop worrying about him he's a big boy now.. You need to look to the future with your kids thats the most important thing, bringing him  back for the kids sake won't work he'll just throw it at you all the time and it will course fights and thats not good for either you or the kids.. You need to move on, let him insult you as much as he likes, it does't matter what he think's  , he's your EX!  Go meet someone who you really LOVE... LEAVE THE PAST WERE IT BELONGS IN THE PAST!!! Being lonely is better than being unhappy and lonely