text: Every-ones boiling point is different. And neither counseling nor cutting yourself may or may not work for you or the next guy. Life is one big mystery, for a lot of people. Trying to find the balance in your life of what makes you Happy. Maybe just the right person is needed in your life to make you happy or a person in your life is making you miserable. To find happiness I believe that you are the only one who can decide what truly will bring happiness and a healthy life. One thing I do notice is people who are inactive may or may not be overweight, tend to be depressed. Try finding activities that either relax your state of mind or just bring you happinesss for whatever reason. Each person is so unique, therefor there is not one recipe to happines!