text: Don't force him, ask him during pillow talk when he is relaxed and maybe had a drink and you guys have just made love, what are some of his fanticies and what is the freakiest thing sexually he has done and what you can do to turn him on, then tell him some things you like and some freaky things you would like him to do, My husband is a freak he has licked every part of me ,and i was straight up missionary, i used to gag when doing oral sex, but he was patient with me and once a week we did what he wanted to do and he even played games like dr and nurse, and he even pretened like he was a virgin and i was to teach him about sex and show him how to get freaky, have fun and be patient with him cause when you love someone you want to please them.