text: Love him as the little brother that he is now.  That would be the best gift.  Can you find anything out about him before seeing him?\n\nMy 8 year old is into baseball right now, perhaps your new little brother is into something similiar.  Try to learn about him before seeing him.\n\nMost of all, accept him as your little brother now.  It's not his fault your Dad did what he did.  It will be your choice however, on whether you accept this boy into your life.  People come in and out of our lives for a reason.