text: I cant really tell what you are asking...\n\nAre you saying that you dont want to work or....\n\nOk as far as negative thinking; A wise woman once told me "Never let a negative thought stay in your mind for more than 3 minutes."  So the next time you find yourself thinking negatively, you need to become aware (aka selfaware) and put a STOP to it.  \n\nYou are the only one that can controll you and your thoughts.  So if you HONESTLY want to put a stop to it, you need to use will power and just Stop what it is that you are doing.  \n\nAs for work...You're NEVER going to become successful if you have a negative attitude.  People don't like hanging around negative people.  No one is going to want to be around you if you bring them down.  \n\nSo if you want to be successful, win friends, and influence people, you must become the person that you youself would like to be around. Only you have the power to change.  \n\nNext time you find yourself thinking negatively, look at you watch, give yourself 3 minutes, and get over it!\n\nGood Luck!