text: does it really matter if they snub you. i get the same treatment when i go to school functions for my son. i am not there to impress anyone, or to make friends, or to jump on the mommmy bandwagon. i am at school to fight for something my son wants, needs, or feels he has a right to. i am not concerned with what other mothers (parents in general)think. i have my own code to live by, and in 10, 15, or 20 years i will only want to know that i did right by my kid... not the PTA moms. in fact, i doubt i'll even know their names.