text: I sorta get what you are trying to ask here?well,that friend,isn,t a true and real friend do to their actions,that sister,saying blood thicker then water,cool(family but there are limits in self when it comes down to choices in our life,i,d break it down to them how you feel about,and if don,t correct,well then you will know clearer the next step!in dealing with the two at a distance or when  you can.The changes has to come from them?