text: If you are a man, start with the KISS TEST.  Touch her hair (like a couple of strands hanging in the front or something not creepy) and say something nice about it like: I like your hair, or your hair is so soft.  If she is open to this and seems to like it then she is open to a kiss.  Go for it.  If you don't kiss her on the first date, you are likely to get the "We are just friends" disease.