text: I would rather do a fun activity than eat in a restaurant. For example, play miniature golf, go parasailing, ride a roller coaster, something like that. When you share experiences -- especially ones with an element of fear, like parasailing and roller coasters -- you make a deeper connection and are less stiff and nervous. You can get to know each other better more quickly.\n\nIf you want to eat afterward, probably somewhere a little nicer than usual. But it's probably better to cut the date short and leave her wanting more!