text: Don't have sex with him and stop this involvement with him before it goes any further.  If you are unhappy in your marriage, you should seek a divorce.  Your reputation is intact right now so keep it that way.  If you commit adultry with this man or another, then your name could be dragged through the mud and your kids will be affected.\n\nOnce you have that divorce, then you can see any available man that you desire just as long as he is not married.\n\nGod bless you and good luck!