text: If u are willing to give it another try there is this lube called @nal ease and you can get it @ lovers lane or any store such as that. it numbs the area so it isn't as un comfy when he slips it in. (start w/him using one finger then move to 2 working your way up to his c*ck) it also helps if he goes down on you first. you need to be relaxed for this.\n\nIf you don't wanna try that and are not comfortable at all have a talk w/him about it. it is totally a subject that can be worked out. he shouldn't be looking to go some were else.