text: Yes! It basically means dont always put things on others, take responsibility for things yourself and deal with them rather than using excuses.\n\nI.e dont ask to be given a lighter load to carry (dont whinge about problems) rather, ask for a strong back (Ask for the strength to deal with the problems yourself).\n\nThe power of positivity. It really is the way forward, dont we all hate to listen to people moaning about their problems all the time? Those people should be taught this when they are at school! lol\n\nThere you go!