text: WOW! sloooow down there cowboy!.. \n- first off... treat your little lady with some respect.  she's young. if she doesnt want to give you her number it could be a number of things.. \n1. her parents keep track of who she talks to.. and she tries to hide that.. \n2.  she's not that interested.. \n3. Maybe she's just not sure about you. and how far she wants to let you go.\n\n- i mean.. you did say middle school, so its not like the world is over.\n\n\n- but... being one who went through this kind of thing, you have to learn to accept what comes at you.  you will find that it will be dissapointing. and one day.. she may jjust say, look pal- your cool and all but back off.  just accept that.\n\n= a good way to talk to her, is leave a little note with one of her friends.  dont let any juicy details out.. and say something like this.. \n\n - hey, i've really enjoyed talking to you... your a sweet girl.  id like to have your number so we could talk some more.  You know? get to chit chat about random things.  so.. when you can, just throw me a note back and attatch your number! - be good!!\n_--- your name... \n\n\n- or maybe an e-mail.\n\neither way... be cool about it... dont ..whatever you do.. obssess.... it will FREAK a girl out!