text: I would look at the fact that he might be under some stress my boyfriend and i just went through that and i finally sat him down and told him that i was tired of fighting and if this was how we were going to live that i would leave. Needless to say our relationship is back on track, but you need to establish communication that is the back bone of a good relationship. I can talk to my man about anything we are friends and lovers.  You also have to be true to your heart at the same time. I know the answer sometimes doesnt match your heart but sometimes a little pain reminds us that we arent perfect. dont stop loving though you can miss the best things if you dont let people in.