text: You can't force forgiveness.  In time, she'll realize what she's lost and that she is the one that should be asking for forgiveness.   \n\nYou have already put up with a lot, and as long as you have done the right thing by seeking forgiveness for your wrong doings, then you shouldn't be too concerned if she has or hasn't forgiven you.   \n\nShe may have already forgiven you, but is too embarassed to admit it to you.... OR  she could be a VERY bitter person and talk herslef into not forgiving you..ever...  But it's not up to you.