text: Just give the girl some time. That could mean a month or a year. But if she was engaged to this guy than she had to have some real serious feelings for him. If you really like this girl than stay by her and be the friend that she needs you to be right now. Even if you want more just give her the space that she is asking for.  You 2 may slip up every now and then and do something here and there but until she is ready to come out and say that she is ready to take that next step again than it will never work.  Just remember that you can only wait as long as your hart will let you. She is not the only one making the decision. You both have to make that choice and not have had anything to drink. Don't push it unless you want it to fail.