text: well you have to question your self what am i  doing? Are you pouring your feelings out to them? are you just that cool girl they like to kick it with? How do i look when i am around them? Am i attracted to them? Dress a little different but don't change your self just to please others maybe it is not time for a relationship and the best relationships start as friends and last longer. So just be patient and if you believe in God ask him to send you someone and be specific in what you want when asking him