text: First you must like and respect yourself. Be current on the news. Work on some hobbies. Read books---even travel books. Smile a lot---sincerely. Take up at least one sport. Be kind and help those who need it---old people, pregnant women, the disabled. Shower everyday and keep yourself well groomed. Always stand straight and don't slouch ever! Wear feminine clothes, decent and not revealing. Don't always have a band of girlfriends around you. All these will help you gain more confidence. Then you can be spotted a mile away.