text: Ok first of all...he hurt you. Why would you be willing to get with that again? Second of all...if you think a pregnant ex-girlfriend will not affect your relationship you are so wrong. She and their child will always be a part of this guy's life. How can he guarantee that they will not affect your relationship. And do you want to be a step-mama? To someone who isn't even with his pregnant ex....ask yourself why he is having a child with someone he doesn't want to be with and then ask yourself if you want that to be you....Don't fall for this one girl. There are plenty of non-loser guys out there just waiting to meet you.