text: Some hymens are easy to tear, only a thin band of tissue. Some are very hard to get rid of and can even require surgery to cut it. Most hymens are moderate. A lot of girls break them with actual penatrative sex (as in, penis or some other object inside the vagina). I'm sorry people are harassing you for your grammar. I assume english is not your first language? It's ok. You're understandable enough, and your typing probably isn't helped by you being upset. Don't worry ok? The rest of this is just a copy and paste of my previous answer.\n\nNo, orgasm cannot tear the hymen of a virgin girl, if she does actually have a hymen. Some women are born without one. Many tear it using tampons, horseback riding, even bicycling. Again, your hymen should still be intact after an orgasm provided it was in the first place and you have inserted nothing into you.