text: iThere is an old saying.  'No man (or woman)  is a prophet in his own land'.  It means that sometmes the people closest to you are your worst enemies.  They are the one's who can pull you down.  So don't make a big issue of it.  Decide what you need to do in order to achieve your goal.  Then do it. Don'talk about it.  If it's any  consolation, I'm with you.