text: Great question.  I would say that there are people for you out there.  Picky isn't the word, nor is second best, but wow, the expectation to live up to being the best is a bit scary.  There is no Mr. Perfect, but there is Mr. Right.  Truth is you, me, all of us are just imperfect people, none better than the other, and all muddling through our lives the best way we can.  Accept youself as one of us.  Be plesant company and be happy with yourself.  You may find a guy that you can feel good about.  He won't be perfect, just a good guy, but with faults that you enjoy, rather than hate.  What I'm trying to say is that it is as much about you as it is all the 2nd rate guys.  Enjoy!