text: There are a few things you can do... Be upfront... Ask him straight up... The worst he will say is no.. and definitely read his whole body from facial expressions right down, even the tone of voice used and believe me, dont ask like you are begging men can pick that up and often times we like to tell what u like to hear vs what you want to hear. But remember you have to be ready for truth or dont ask at all. remember you do live too and sometimes the best thing is to move on and explore what life has to give and belive it or not, there is plent of fish in the sea, we just like to keep our blinker on... keep your eyes and heart open but never let your concience go unnoticed.