text: well, don't be desperste. Now listen always be yourself.  know everyone says that but it truly does work. im a guy but i haven't been in a relation ship for but a year in a half now. But being yourself is really appealing to guys. and know who you r. becaus a lot of us guys like girls who be themselves and be comfortable with that, and know who you are. if you need to find youyr self thats what bf are for so all in all find yourself if u havent and be yourself