text: First and foremost, be yourself. You wanna first talk about what is in the surrounding enviroment, clothing etc.  Be a customer, ask questions, not too many, and don't go to far into personal detail about yourself.  You don't wanna tell a girl everything right off the bat, cause then there wouldn't be that getting to know you stage.  Keep her curious, and make her laugh. Be confident, smile and get her curious.  Compliment her but don't go overboard.  Don't use words like hot, sexy, your fine.  Use words lik beautiful, nice, proper words not slangs.  Keep eye contact.  Don't look at her breast or behind, no matter how tempting it may be, don't do it.  Don't bug her, don't harras her, just go with the flow.  If its not there, learn from it and move on.  If it is there, than you'll see it in her smile and her eyes, if you pay attention to those two things than you can learn alot from a womans heart.  Remember the expression, Your words say one thing but your eyes say another. The eyes are always right