text: she is ok with being ur girlfriend(a friend who is a girl ), so whats the big issue. u want her as ur lover, thts wht she doesnt want.\nso be her friend, and even by mistake if she asks u to have sex with her, dont go and have it,tell her, i just intent to be ur friend ,nothing more.........play the game the opposite way...and see the result. and mind u ,dont go gaga-gogo over her, infact dont show much attention to her , or praise her, just act in a normal way u wud to other female friends.meanwhile try to be in company with her and some other females too...........and show tht extra attention to one among them, and make her feeel tht sting of jealousy