text: Not so complicated. You like your BF, but you are atrracted to this other guy.\n\nSharing humor is SO IMPORTANT I can't even describe to you.\n\nIf you have that, things will tend to go farther.\n\nYour BF seems to be an understanding guy, just figure out what you want and go for it. The way I see it, you and your BF don't really have a chance, the genie's out of the bottle. If you go with him, you will alwasy wonder what it would be like to go for Mr. SmartSexyDangerous. Also, will he ever really trust you again, since he knows that you might be attracted to other men?\n\nDo your best to break it gently but cleanly with you BF. Don't hop into a relationship right away. Give you guys both some time... then let yourself free.