text: I doubt if your friend truly dislikes "thinking about religion and spirituality" since she's willing to "take everything in". Perhaps at this stage in her life she's still NOT READY to TALK ABOUT her feelings on the subject.\n\nGive her some space to do so. Wait until you are asked about your own spirituality, otherwise talk about other things instead.\n\nMeantime, to answer your question, she'd be considered as an Atheist by your definition.\n\nPeace be with you!