text: ive been in the military for years and there is a code you never break are you sure he doesnt have friends by now ,are you saved ,do you have interest in new hobbies,is there something you allways wanted to do,some of the islanders pretend to be nice for tips ,and really hate tourist,but there are many more that are genuine,why would you have trouble finding friends ,are you shy or mean ,i think you are probably a real nice person scince you gave up your life for someone thats not around much ,i bet there are many voluteer orgs. that would apreciate your talents.when i was a lot younger i would take day trips that would ussually be set up by the rec center ,many were free or very low cost