text: yeah, he's not over it either.  if you want to get over him, you have to cut off all contact, at least until you feel like you don't want to see him anymore. it's probably going to be longer since he still has feelings for you too.  and if you were talking about what to do next but you know its not going to work, i wouldn't even put in the effort.  if you think it won't work it won't.  i think you're just sad cuz you hurt his feelings, because you know it wouldn't work out anyway.  just move on.