text: My heart goes out to you as I am currently in Brazil and my husband is back in the U.S. for work.\nWell... it certainly is hard to be away for such a long time and seems that 3 months aren't enough to catch up with all the time spent apart.\nI don't know what your question was... seems that you want some suggestions on how to make your husband feel welcome back into your home and things you can do to make him happy while he's with you and your family for these 3 months. Well, maybe organize some outdoor activities, or since now up there is getting cold, maybe a cookout or something. Maybe one day invite his friends as well. It's hard to be away, I know. Well, let me ask you: why is he working so far away from home and for such a long time? is he in the military? Is there a way you and your kids could go join him for a few months while he's up there? How does he handle this time being away from you and kids? No doubt you miss him dearly. Could he maybe get transferred back to where you live? I personally find it very stressful to be so far away for such a long time. My personal experience is that is painful and the truth is that when you marry you're supposed to be with your mate and kids (if any). My husband seems to be having a good time by himself, he drives truck over the road. But that's my case. I don't enjoy that at all. Well, I hope you reunite soon. I know your kids are the ones who suffer more. I hope your husband is staying in touch with you and them although he's far. This is very important for the kids, to feel loved by both parents.\n:-)