text: You know what? I've been trying to figure that out for over a year now. Just when I think I've picked myself up & got over him, something comes & bites me on the bum & I'm all emotional about it again. I've dated other really nice men, gone out & tried to have fun, everything I could think of but every now & then I still feel that heart ache. All you can do is try & move on, time is the greatest healer we have.