text: Why not have the marriage first?  Why not wait a year to have the baby?  What is the rush?  Or is it that you are already pregnant (you must be if you plan to have a baby yet this year!).\n\nAfter all, a honeymoon is going to be hard to arrange if you have a baby.  You won't want to leave the baby behind and your hubby isn't going to want to take a baby on the honeymoon...nor should you since that is a very special time.\n\nI suspect we aren't being given all the details/facts here.  Do you care to elaborate more?