text: Can't answer for others but myself\n I don't think that having sex outside of marriage is bad because you know what you like when you get married\n if you have never had sex before marriage then you may hate it or at least hate it with that person and think this is not worth it stop having sex with them which will end up in divorce more than likely \nwhere if you had had sex prior then you know what it is all about\nthat's just my point of view on it