text: I agree with Jen U. And I am sorry, but open marriages is a contradiction in terms, If you want to bang wahtever comes along, stay single. Marriage is aboiut a committed relationship to one person. If you can't hack it get out.... but really, this isn't what you want anyway. It's what he wants and you just gave up and let him do it. \n\nYour children may need thier daddy, but they also need thier mom to be a strong role model, not a door mat. Find your backbone, get a good lawyer and get a divorce. When you are ready, you'll find someone who apreciates you. Be strong. Good luck.