text: okay, check out my profile on the questions asked section.  i know the feeling.  however, in my situation, we have crossed that line over 2 years ago.  As for being my Best friend, He has been my best friend for 6 years.  It doesn't start off as "oh, yea, i am want to steal this man from his wife", or visa versa.  It is a connection.  You will receive judgment, like I did, But not from me.  If you ever need to talk, feel free to e-mail me @ ammutdevour@comcast.net. - i read your other asked question.  please e-mail, i might be able to give you advice. consequences, benefits, etc.