text: I believe you have answered the question yourself. When you say that you don't like the second guy and you don't want to know him then he is basically not a choice anymore.\nHowever, since the first guy is not ready for marriage, a good way to test him would be to tell him that you have been proposed by someone else and since he is not ready for marriage so you are confused about this relationship and ask him for a definite answer.\nIn the meanwhile, I would suggest to at least meet the other guy once. As far as I know seeing is believing. You never know what good may be waiting for you there. No need to give him your contact number or anything else in the first meeting just keep it to the introduction and to general topics. If he tries to advance too fast then obviously he just trying to get into your pants.\nThink I have written enough. Will be good to know your decision and progress.\nTake care