text: thats a good question. \n\nA better question would be: why should you compare yourself to her?\n\nI bet your attract your fair share of guys, but you simply dont know it. The girl jessica is probably very adept at dealing with people, and that isnt something we are all good at. She might be outgoing and friendly, or simply agree with everybody all the time, which would make them like her. \n\nI wouldnt worry about her, go after the boy you like, she shouldnt be a factor and besides you dont know for sure that this boy doesnt like you more than he likes her.