text: I know exactly how you feel! I found out all kind of stuff AFTER i married my husband. I think  when guys find a girl they like, they dont want to scare her off or intimidate her. They wait until they are for sure the girl likes them to be themselves. Although , us girls dont really like it when they do that, guys jsut dont get it. But if you truly love that guy, you will work through it together, and communicate your feels as well.