text: Give him some time to calm down this sounds like a power struggle to see who wins .Your homework was important and he should recognize that after he cools down You can be persistent and just keep sending him messages of love even If he doesn't answer he Will want to read what you say men are like that normally a simple sorry is enough but after 5 years he thinks he owns you so you need to talk to him about this later after he is back with you .We both men and women need some Independence a little not a lot best if you can agree on this time .