text: Have a question more than an answer - where do you look for guys?  What are your true interests in life and do you try to meet men while doing those interest?  One final question - are your standards so high that no one can possibly meet them?  Yeah, I guess if you could just place an order and zap, there that person is might be nice.  I don't think there are ever any "perfect" matches, but that is what makes life truly wonderful - experiencing what either has to offer.  He is out there for you - you just have to be patient.  In the meantime enjoy life's ride and pleasures along the way.  Best of luck to you!\nJoe