text: The vibrator is encouraging....\nExpand on that.  I suspect that she has some kind of mental block - if she's had an orgasm in front of you, she should be able to have another.  And another, and another...\n\nSpeaking as a woman who had trouble with that for a long time, just be patient.  If you like her as much as you say, it'll be worth the wait.  Encourage her to try other things, both together and separately.  Try taking her into the shower, and show her by your touch how much you want for her to feel good.  And how good she feels to you.  She'll come around.\n\nAt least she's being honest... I'm amazed at how many women fake it and then lie about it!