text: I'll give anyone a chance. Usually, the guys who at first I'm like "eh.." with are the ones who I am eventually extremely attracted to. A lot of it is in the personality and the way that they talk, carry themselves, act, etc. For example, when I first saw my boyfriend, I didn't think he was that attractive. 3 months later after I got to know him, I became very attracted to him and now I think he's the handsomest man in the world.