text: This is a question for doctors and counsellors and not "SOME" of the idots that use Yahoo Answers.\n\nYou are sure to have someone say some nasty things, prepare yourself.\n\nI've provided a very useful link to the Canadian, "Rick Hanson", the paraplegic that circled the globe in his wheelchair (and has kids) in his Man in Motion tour.\n\nMy best wishes for you in your future.\n\nI've read all of the questions you have asked.  These questions are "MUCH TO PERSONAL" to be asking through this kind of medium. I admire your straight forwardness, but your questions are better left to your medical people.\n\nContact your Doctor, your Counsellor, first!... and then Rick Hanson.