text: I'm sorry that some of the people who have answered you haven't been very thoughtful or helpful.\n\nTake some time to think about what you enjoy doing?  What hobbies do you enjoy?  What do you do in your leisure time?\n\nYou may want to consider furthering your education.  If that is the case, a counselor on campus can help you determine which course of study to pursue.\n\nIn spite of what some of the immature teens on this site think, 41 isn't old at all.  Find out what makes you happy and follow it with zest.