text: i understand the confusion perfectly... (went through it myself)\nbut remember - once your paths separated and you have a new life, stick to what you have, and forget what you MIGHT have had IF you and this girl were together.\nif you are married, it is not worthy to destroy your marriage for some 20 years old fantasy (because holding up or trying to revive the past IS a fantasy).\nyou might have feelings towards her - actually towards that girl you knew 20 years ago - not the woman that she is today. YOU HAVE CHANGED, SHE HAVE CHANGED...\nbe careful! keep you heart safe!\ntake care