text: Wow. 185 is extremely overweight for an average 12 year old. \n\nShow her a picture of her in 20 years. THAT will scare her into losing weight.\n\nalso, what do you think about this:\nhttp://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AmrgiDGyw9mNwFXlnOnksxnsy6IX?qid=1006052000004