text: When a boy is in love with a girl, he will do anything it takes to be with her. He wants to be with her as much as he can, and he wants to call her every day. Your 'bf' is not doing those things. It is time for you to read the book "He's just not that into you" by Greg Behrendt.\n\nOnce you get over the notion that he loves you, you can open yourself up to find someone who really does.