text: OK- assuming this is a real spirit case and you are not crazy, the best thing you can do is not be afraid. He never hurt you before because you were never afraid before. It is like the movie Skeleton Key. Second: DO NOT TRY TO CONTACT HIM. You have no idea what you are doing, and you could get in way over your head in which case you could get hurt. I don't have an old family recipe for protection against spirits, so I could help you know more than a book or a google search on specifics, but there are plenty of books on protection. If you feel you need to call someone like a physic, but be aware that most are just frauds, and don't pay anything up front. I don't really have any better advice for you than that. Just don't fear him and he cannot harm you.