text: youve been with your boyfriend for a long time so it sounds like youre trying to get attention from other guys just to kind of prove to yourself that you still have it ad that you CAN get other guys, even though u dont want to. its normal as long as youre not doing anything that would hurt him. even if your boyfried is flirting with other girls like you are, if u think what youre doing is harmless then he probably does too and it most likely is.