text: every long term relationship goes through ups and downs in the sex department, just like in everything else.\n\nYou need to tell him how your feeling. But be carefull not to make him feel bad about not giving you orgasms.. just ask him if there is something wrong.. or if he has any ideas for spicing up your love life. Who konws.. he may be thinking the same thing you are.. \n\nGood luck.. ive been there and back and there and back.. lol