text: Darn - i had my answer written last time and you deleted the question!!  LOL!!\n\nI think it would freak him out to ask after only a couple of weeks.  I doubt if he has a clue yet where it is going.  \n\nHold off a little longer.  Next time he brings up some event in the future, then I would ask where he sees your relationship going.  But, you know, people change their minds at anytime in a relationship - no guarantees.\n\nI definitely understand your wanting to know if it's long term.  And the more time you spend together the faster you'll know.  In the meantime, there are lots of things you can do to get closer.....it will just enhance the anticipation when you finally do feel ready for sex!!