Maybe we can re-start this conversation with the source of who are we? Lets begin with being human, not Haoles or Hawaiians. We go nowhere with this because its full of contradictions and belief systems. A conceptual approach is  a win/lose game and we can't find balance. Its becomes just another offering on the menu. lets be real and find a way to talk about being human beings, even though it looks impossible but lets give it a try.