See, I think that's where you miss the point: if you value the tone of an argument over it's content there's not much point in reasoning with you.  You value your sensitive FEEEEELINGS over objective facts, which is PRECISELY why dialogue of pretty much ANY KIND is steadily breaking down to the point where our society will eventually fly apart from its internal contradictions.  I simply don't CARE about your feeling 'offended' when confronted with truths you'd prefer to ignore.  Readjusting those big-boy depens should help with that, if you're capable of embracing logic over emotion.  But when a so-called 'political leader' falsely accuses a neighbor, and engages in hate-mongering which could incite some idiot to act against people who have DONE NO HARM to anyone here and have been charged with NO CRIME, I DO care about that.