"I homeschool 3 of my 4 and two of my kids are a year ahead and they are all smarter then I ever was at their age"
Did you get assistance from the state education system such as a curriculum, teaching materials, schedules, goals, etc?  Did you accept and listen to the advice and assistance?
Do you honestly expect her to do the same when it comes to public education or ignore any contrary study, facts, expertise, etc. to assert her own ideology?