Do you believe that your faith leads you to meet all of these very human expectations?  Are you so sure that all your behaviors and works support God, that you have never done anything detestable, disobedient?  

Is it easy for you to 'rank' your sins as less than the sins of others?

Yours is a circular argument that has to believe YOU personally know the mind of God, which you do not.    You quote human/church scripture out of context and remove the many other ways in which God reveals his love for his/her imperfect children outside of the walls of a church.

Your faith is your own and if it makes you a more loving and compassionate person, they I would say you are fed by the Fruits of the Spirit.  I can't know your heart, I'll leave that judgement to another source.

If you use your religion to lift your status above God's other children, then yours is not a faith that I can share.

Peace