So, let us begin by annoiting you the King of all who feel victimized and "abused".  In your kingdom there is no right or wrong, laws are bypassed and any penalty translates to the abuser claiming poor me. This kingdom is surely magical in a twisted way. Choose a risky behavior, cry about being a victim of your own foolish choice. Really?

In the real world, every family and individual who did  NOT follow the rules are not privy to the same  life as those that DID follow the rules. This is the core principle of fairness and acceptable social behavior - based on choices have consequences-taught to children to learn how the World works.   If you personally don't understand nor grasp this universally shared value of not breeding pathology, read, "Lord Of The Flies" which illustrates how pathological thought and behavior escalates when these principles not yet ingrained in children. 

Illegal aliens came as adults or with adults and must accept the consequence of their free choice.