My son was rejected by scholarship providers because he wasn't 'dark enough' or poor enough. Even though we have Cherokee roots, he knows not to rely on the world to give him anything. He will still be successful because we have taught him not to have a 'you owe me attitude.' He excelled in academics, club leadership, and athletics. He is in a private college today and continues to excel.Yes it will take all of us to change the 'culture of blame'. Start with your own families. Teach respect and love one another. Teach personal responsibility, a strong work ethic, caring for your family and make sure you give back to your community. 
Enjoy each others' company during Thanksgiving and thank God for all of your many blessings.