My wife and I, were married at a sweat lodge ceremony by our Spiritual leader and teacher. Of course we weren't married in the eyes of American government because our vows were only made to God and to each other. We finally paid our $25 and got married, so it's okay now! God only means something if you can attach him to some religion. We've been taught for many years that the only thing that will be waiting for you when you cross over, is that which you have given away in your life. I wonder just how much the Vatican is worth, or how much a priest gets annually for his vow of poverty?