No problem at all. I agree. Your "I find" is based on your experience in the arena and it must be honored, respected, valued, and appreciated. I also place a high regard on the "awesome" value of learned liberation based on your experience.  Thank you. 

I hope you allow others to say "I find" based on their discernment and experience....and their pain, abuse, imposed unworthiness, absence of intimacy, and self-doubt that brought them to valid conclusions far different than your valid conclusions.  

You emphasize the question, "What is best for my family?" That is the right question. Please trust others to also ask and answer that question.