Kathleen while that person is working to that level of success do they use many of the things taxes pay for they they did not pay for.  The answer is undoubtedly yes.   Is there a relationship to the amount of taxes a person pays any the benefits they receive. Yes again. 
You cry about the excessive government spending while not tell us what you currently use that you will do without.  Are you any less a user of the military protection to the nation than every other citizen?  Do you receive any less representation in Congress than any other citizen?  So what will you do without?