text: Can we talk about the mentality of a murderer, more than their modus operandi? 
  
  Can we please talk about the utter failure of the family structure and of society to allow people like this to develop in our community? This is a failure on so many levels. People lived with this man, possibly worked with him. He fathered one or more kids. Where was any of this in changing his putrid view on life? 
  
  I feel connected to so many people on so many levels. I even feel a connection to people with drastically different religious, political, and social worldviews. When I see people who take lives in cold blood, I feel no connection to them. I see no trace of humanity. I feel utter antipathy. 
  
  Who are the people, right this instant, living with a murderer? Who are the spouses, the children, the parents of killers? Who is going about their lives with blood on their conscience and no feelings of remorse, and no guts to come forward. Who are these monsters and who are their enablers?