text: Fine. Good for you that you followed your conscience and joined a church that believing Catholics -- millions of men and women -- don't believe is the right church for them, in a deeply moral and ecclesial way. 
  
  Catholics women (I know) also don't feel shriveled to reflect positively on their own church's self-evaluation as the Body of Christ. Nor do they feel the need to go to Protestant Episcopal posts with frightening almost narcissistic projections of their own "despair" that Episcopalians are doing harm to marriage and family (owing to their position on gay marriage, among many, many other moral issues). 
  
  I also know some former Episcopalians who would never think of going on an Episcopal post as you do (on a Catholic post), however much they are shocked at the moral direction their former church is taking. The door swings both ways. To the credit of former Episcopalians (in over a dozen US Ordinariate parishes), you rarely see them with their visors down attacking the EC.