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We got it all WRONG I was having a conversation on my favorite networking site..THE ALMIGHTY Twitter! In this conversation some one was telling me about their ex and the bad experience that happened from it. At some point he said to me I am afraid of LOVE. That hit me like a ton of bricks.

We lost the meaning and essence of the feeling! While we are experiencing what we consider to be love then is when we are NOT sad. We smile , dance, talk , and even share. It is when we in between, out of it, trying to get LOVE that we experience these various emotions . SO let's start to think and say better. Love is not the problem it the process before and after we fall in and out of it that makes a difference.

What's my point? Love does not hate us! So don't make it the enemy!
Posted by Nvncyble at 4:24 PM Willie G said...

I feel you on what your saying but Love isn't for everyone..... especially Slurpy Hoes lol

July 21, 2009 at 4:45 PM 
Love...Loves Us So why Not Love It.....M.Moguls

July 21, 2009 at 4:47 PM 
truthfully spoken.. LOVE isnt the problem.. it is very much so a whirlwind process that must be taken
 ZETAZEN said...

lol I'm so done with love. Maybe one day the right one will come along and it will be all that I've wanted.

July 21, 2009 at 4:49 PM darius said...

yea that is so true and i am afraid to luv again cause wha i went thru with my first he did me so wrong and i am afraid that if i get back in a relationship with sum1 and put my luv into them again i think that they will hurt me again and i don't ever want to feel that pain again i wouldn't want any one to feel they i wus feeling at that time but i'm happy now tho...lol

July 21, 2009 at 4:55 PM Ramont said...

I believe we all have had bad experiences with Love before or what we thought was love. I will admit I have been hurt before to the point when I thought I couldnt love again. But you cant always hide behind that and use the "I been hurt so many time", 'Niggas aint shit" as crutch to why you cant and wont find happiness cause the grudge that your holding onto been let you go a long time ago and has moved on. But your still stuck in the same place and can in return mes up a good thing. Cause you feel as if its to good to be true. I say keep an open mind but never lower you standards to comprise your happiness for someone else.

July 21, 2009 at 5:24 PM JoJo on the GO! said...

I've always loved love. I sit and wait for the opportunity to be swept off my feet by the one who calls me his better half.

July 21, 2009 at 5:37 PM Bahama said...

Yea you right, love doesn't suck. We suck at it.

July 21, 2009 at 6:19 PM 
I don't think people purposly make love the 'enemy' but make it so because they don't truly know what it means.

July 21, 2009 at 6:21 PM zeeartfuldodger said...

i think a lot of people forget that LOVE doesn't have to be reciprocated for you to experience it... meaning u can love someone even though they might not love u back... painful? yes but that doesn't mean that the love should go away simply because you didn't get what u wanted or thought u deserved.

August 21, 2009 at 4:58 PM