Non-self-referential interpretation of confidence intervals? Interpreting what a (say) 95% confidence interval actually means is obviously tricky, especially when you are trying to teach it to students just beginning to learn stats.
One of the biggest challenges for me is that most definitions of confidence intervals actually use the concept of "confidence interval" as part of the interpretation itself. For example:
"Strictly speaking a 95% confidence interval means that if we were to take 100 different samples and compute a 95% confidence interval for each sample, then approximately 95 of the 100 confidence intervals will contain the true mean value."
I understand that this definition isn't viciously circular, but it's a nightmare to try to explain to students, who naturally wonder how we can define a confidence interval as telling us what will happen if we calculate a bunch of different confidence intervals.
Frequentism is what it is, and I know that we can't technically say that (e.g.) "there is a 95% probability that the true mean lies within the bounds of the 95% CIs," but I'm wondering if there is any way to accurately define what a frequentist confidence interval means that doesn't itself refer to confidence intervals.
Based on my understanding of frequentism, I think I have an idea for such an interpretation, but I'm not at all sure it is correct.
Let's say that we are trying to estimate the population mean $\mu$ of some variable Y. We draw a random sample of N observations, and from that sample we estimate a mean $\hat \mu$ and a standard deviation $\hat \sigma$. Using the $\hat \sigma$ and N we calculate a standard error and then use that to calculate a 95% confidence bounds of A and B.
My proposed interpretation of these values is: if it were true that the true mean of Y were the $\hat \mu$ we actually estimated, and we replicated our study a 100 times, estimating the mean of Y each time, then 95% of those estimates of $\mu$ would fall between A and B.
This is clearly different from how CI's are usually defined, but based on my understanding of frequentism, sampling error, and the central limit theorem, I feel like this is a valid (and potentially more intuitive) interpretation. It is based on a conditional, but since that's something we do when interpreting p values ("if the null hypothesis were true...") it's a concept that students encounter elsewhere in statistics, and I feel it might be less confusing than the apparently circular definition used in most textbooks....assuming it's statistically accurate.
So two questions:

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*Is this a statistically valid interpretation of what a confidence interval means?

*Does anyone know any other interpretation of confidence intervals that don't themselves refer to confidence intervals?

Edit: It seems the answer to #1 is "no" (although it would be great if someone could explain why that interpretation is incorrect). I also realize I should clarify that for #2, what I'm really interested is in an intuitive interpretation of what a particular, estimated CI range means (i.e. to fill in the blank in the following sentence: "I have calculated a 95% CI around an estimate that ranges from A to B, this means that __________ between A and B")  that doesn't itself refer to the concepts of "confidence"  or "the process of calculating confidence intervals."

One exponential observation. Suppose you buy an electronic device that is advertised
to have an exponential lifetime averaging 60 months (5 years).
It turns out that yours dies at two months. You would feel
cheated.
In statistical terminology you might test $H_0: \mu = 60$ against $H_a: \mu < 60.$ You could reject $H_9$ at the 5%
level. If $X\sim\mathsf{Exp}(\mathrm{rate}=1/60),$ then
$P(X \le 2) = 0.033.$ [Using R:]
pexp(2, 1/60)
[1] 0.0327839

Without the jargon of hypothesis testing, you might say that if the true average lifetime were 60 months, then the 'probability' of such a short lifetime for your device is $0.033,$ which is unreasonably small.
Alternatively, you might
say that you had 'confidence' that the device would last
longer than two months. In ordinary English, there isn't
much difference between the words probability and confidence.
If you knew about the frequentist definition of probability,
you might say, "If $\mu=60,$ then only three or four people out of 100 would have such bad fortune." But you might choose to dwell mainly on your own situation, without reference to an
imaginary group of 100 other people.
Of course, there is no way for you to know
the true mean lifetime for sure, but you could reasonably feel that
it's not actually 60 months.
Random sample from an exponential population. Now suppose that ten people buy this device and that
their average failure times were $\bar X_{10}.$ Then one
has the relationship
$$\frac{\bar X_{10}}{\mu} \sim \mathsf{Gamma}(\mathsf{shape}=10, \mathsf{rate}=10),$$
which can be 'pivoted' to give the probability statement
$$P\left(\frac{\bar X}{U} \le \mu 
 \le \frac{\bar X}{L}\right) = 0.95,$$
where $L$ and $U$ cut probability $0.025$ from the lower and upper tails, respectively, of $\mathsf{Gamma}(10,10).$
For example. if a random sample of size ten from an exponential population has $\bar X_{10} = 22.3,$ then a 95% 'confidence' interval for $\mu$ is $(13.1, 40.5).$
22.3/qgamma(c(.975,.025), 10, 10)
[1] 13.05254 46.50301

As long as we have no data at hand or we do not know the true
value of $\mu,$ the displayed equation is a straightforward probability statement. But as soon as you have data, some people begin to fret that depending on $\bar X$ and $\mu$ the statement
between parentheses (in the display above) is either true or false. To make
peace with such people, there seems to be an agreement
that it is OK to use the word 'confidence' for that expression,
but to avoid the word 'probability'.
Somehow, these people feel that the 'probability' has collapsed to become meaningless.  Never mind that the
true value of $\mu$ will never be precisely revealed in
any practical situation.
I feel that exactly the same quibble might be made concerning the probability statement earlier $P(X \le 2) = P(X\le 2\,|\,\mu)$ about your purchase of one electronic device. But somehow, that probability statement gets a free pass, possibly because we have previously speculated about a value of $\mu.$ So we don't need to call that a 'confidence' statement.
What to tell students and clients? It's OK to say, "There's 95% probability/ chance/ confidence that this random interval
includes the unknown true value of $\mu."$ But in writing, your life
will be simpler if you use the customary (diplomatic) word confidence. [Sometimes, even that is not enough to avoid controversy. There are contradictor and deeply-held views about the meaning(s) of frequentist confidence intervals. (See comments.)]

Notes:(1) In a Bayesian context, a prior distribution along with the likelihood function of data lead to a posterior probability distribution from which a Bayesian 'probability' or 'credible' interval is determined. Then quibbles about the applicability of the interval estimate to the current investigation
disappear.
(2) The German philosopher Schopenhauer once said, "Philosophy is the systematic abuse of a terminology established just for that purpose." [my translation]. The quibble about the use of words
'probability' and 'confidence' may put frequentist statistical inference in a similar position.
