Variance of a product vs a product of variances Is the variance of a product $Var(XY)$ of possibly dependent variables necessarily larger or smaller than the product of variances $Var(X)Var(Y)$? Looking at examples I only see it being larger but I don't know if it is in general.

There is no general relationship.
To see this, consider the extreme situations below: in one case the product of variances is, on a relative scale, arbitrarily larger than the variance of the product; while in the other case the product of variances is arbitrarily smaller than the variance of the product.  You can tweak these examples to create any ratio you like, from $0$ through $\infty,$ of $\operatorname{Var}(XY):\operatorname{Var}(X)\operatorname{Var}(Y).$

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*Consider the uniform distribution on the four points in the set $\{(\pm 1,0), (0,\pm 1)\}.$  The marginal variances are $1$ but since the products of the components are always zero, the variance of the product is zero.  That is, $$0 = \operatorname{Var}(XY) \lt \operatorname{Var}(X)\operatorname{Var}(Y) = (1)(1)=1.$$


*Let $X$ have a cumulative distribution function $F(x) = 1-1/x^3$ for $x\ge 1.$ Consequently it has a density function $f(x) = F^\prime(x) = 3/x^4$ for $x\ge 1,$ whence for any $k\lt 3$ $$E[X^k]=E[Y^k] = \int_1^\infty x^k\left(\frac{3}{x^4}\right)\,\mathrm{d}x = \frac{3}{3-k}.$$  For any larger $k,$ the integral diverges: it is infinite.    From the cases $k=1,2$ we obtain $$\operatorname{Var}(X) = E[X^2]-E[X]^2 = \frac{3}{3-2} - \left(\frac{3}{3-1}\right)^2=\frac{3}{4}.$$ Suppose $Y=X.$  Compute $$\operatorname{Var}(XY) = \operatorname{Var}(X^2) = E(X^4) - E(X^2)^2.$$ This is infinite.  Thus, $$\infty = \operatorname{Var}(XY) \gt \operatorname{Var}(X)\operatorname{Var}(Y) =\left(\frac{3}{4}\right)^2 = \frac{9}{16}.$$
Roughly, the first case is one in which although the individual components $X$ and $Y$ vary appreciably, they do so without changing $XY$ much.  The second is one in which large values of $X$ and $Y$ tend to co-occur, thereby greatly magnifying the variance of either one in the product.
