Estimate population mean from "best of N" samples If I have a data set for which I know all measurements represent the largest of N observations, is there a good method for estimating the mean of all observations? So for example if N=10 and I have 3 data points
234
351
299

Then I know that there were 30 original data points in the source population and 9 of them were smaller than 234, 9 were smaller than 351, and 9 were smaller 299.
The goal is to estimate the original population mean/variance from this biased sample. It seems like it should be possible since the bias is known, but I'm having trouble convincing myself of what the relationship between the sample variance and the population variance is. I think the sample mean should be approximating the 90th percentile boundary for the population. Assuming that I have that right, if I knew the population variance I'd then be able to estimate the mean, but I'm not quite sure how to think about the relationship of the (biased) sample variance to the (unbiased) population variance.
I'm willing to assume that the source population is normally distributed etc, though a method for testing for normality of the source based on the sample would be good to have as well.

Three samples isn't much, but if the population has a known minimum possible value (e.g., 0), the data are not inconsistent with the Fréchet distribution (AIC $\approx$ 36.13). (Out of a library of known distributions that I've collected, the Weibull distribution actually best fits the three maximum values with AIC $\approx$ 35.63.)
The Fréchet distribution is max stable, meaning that if $X_i\sim\text{Frechet}(\alpha,s,m)$ then $Y=\text{max}\{X_1,...X_n\}\sim\text{Frechet}(\alpha,n^{1/\alpha}s,m)$.
Assuming 0 is the minimum possible measurement ($m=0$), the MLE for the three points provided is at $\hat\alpha\approx6.471$ and $\hat{s}_{max}\approx267.0$. With $n=10$, we might model the underlying population of measurements as being iid samples from a Fréchet distribution with $\alpha\approx6.471$ and $s=n^{-1/\alpha}s_{max}\approx187.1$, which has a mean of $s\Gamma(1-1/\alpha)\approx208.9$.
