Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Ex Input:
During this winter, a friend of mine and I talked about how we both love playing volleyball and we should go play when it gets warmer on several occasions.

Last week, I saw her playing with other people from school on her Ig story, she actually had called me that day to see me at school but I was already at home, so she knew I was free.
She casually mentioned this event afterwards, saying this is the 2nd time she played with them and intending to do so again. I somehow got the sense that she only mentions this bc I already saw it on Ig and there is no way of hiding. These are the people I know of so she could have invited me with no problem. 

I got upset but figured no one ows me anything and this person showed me she is a good friend on different occasions before so I will let it go. 
But natually, I can't act the same way I used to with her. Last week I didn't see her at all, it's not diffucult to avoid since our schedules are different and when I see her I can't help but feel cold to her and she realizes something is off. AITA for feeling and behaving this way? 

Ex Output:
being upset with my friend for not inviting me


Ex Input:
*Tl;dr A guy I had a dubious friendship with is in a less than ideal situation and I don't want to reach out to him.*

So I went to a small high school where I didn't have a lot of friends. I met this guy through the school band, as we were both in the same section, and he and I talked once or twice. However, when I would try to hang out (e.g. sit with him at lunch or something) he would constantly be sitting with his other friends and wouldn't even address me when I spoke to him. He was also on his phone basically 24/7 but when I texted him it always took him 5+ days or so to respond. He never was directly impolite to me, but it felt like I was definitely putting more into our friendship than I was getting out of it, so I stopped hanging out with him and he earned my enmity for the rest of high school.

Now we're both in college, and I'm very much over my social life in high school. However, recently I heard from another friend that my old fake friend (who is going to college on a sports scholarship or something) hates the community he's in; he doesn't drink or party, and he's found that nobody else around him shares that trait.

One side of me is like, finally, karma's come around and he's getting what he deserves. But at the same time, I faced similar problems early on in college as well, until I found a community I could fit into, and I feel a little bad for his situation. The other friend who told me this suggested I text him, but I promised myself I would cut toxic people out of my life once I graduated high school.

If I refused to reach out to him, would it be assholish?

Ex Output:
refusing to text a fake friend who's not in a good place


Ex Input:
So, I've been seeing this person for over a month and I've noticed several red flags in terms of her laughing AT me when I say something dumb and brushing me off in favor of friends. Last night, we had plans to see each other at 7:30 PM. When I showed up at her place, she was talking on the phone with her friend. After giving her a kiss, I sat on the couch and read a book as she washed dishes in the kitchen with her friend on speaker phone. I sat on the sidelines for a little over 30 minutes, getting gradually more and more annoyed that I was being ignored, but also telling myself that it's okay because my girlfriend was just being a good friend, etc.

Finally, after 30 minutes, my girlfriend tells her friend, "I've got to let you go because I've got some company over." I'm happy because at last she acknowledged me, but then I hear her side of the conversation go like this, "Don't worry about it. It's okay. Ha, bros before...what's the female equivalent...AHAHAHAHAHAHA (loud laughter that seems to go on forever).

Then she finally hangs up and comes over to sit by me on the couch and I tell her that I thought her comment (basically saying, 'bros before hos' and laughing about it) to her friend was rude and she tells me that it's just an expression and proceeds to say that SHE is the one who should be offended because I would take her words so personally and think that she was trying to belittle me and that she was just trying to have some fun with her friend who was going through relationship problems.

Am I the asshole?

Ex Output:

calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made



Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Ex Input:
During this winter, a friend of mine and I talked about how we both love playing volleyball and we should go play when it gets warmer on several occasions.

Last week, I saw her playing with other people from school on her Ig story, she actually had called me that day to see me at school but I was already at home, so she knew I was free.
She casually mentioned this event afterwards, saying this is the 2nd time she played with them and intending to do so again. I somehow got the sense that she only mentions this bc I already saw it on Ig and there is no way of hiding. These are the people I know of so she could have invited me with no problem. 

I got upset but figured no one ows me anything and this person showed me she is a good friend on different occasions before so I will let it go. 
But natually, I can't act the same way I used to with her. Last week I didn't see her at all, it's not diffucult to avoid since our schedules are different and when I see her I can't help but feel cold to her and she realizes something is off. AITA for feeling and behaving this way? 

Ex Output:
being upset with my friend for not inviting me


Ex Input:
*Tl;dr A guy I had a dubious friendship with is in a less than ideal situation and I don't want to reach out to him.*

So I went to a small high school where I didn't have a lot of friends. I met this guy through the school band, as we were both in the same section, and he and I talked once or twice. However, when I would try to hang out (e.g. sit with him at lunch or something) he would constantly be sitting with his other friends and wouldn't even address me when I spoke to him. He was also on his phone basically 24/7 but when I texted him it always took him 5+ days or so to respond. He never was directly impolite to me, but it felt like I was definitely putting more into our friendship than I was getting out of it, so I stopped hanging out with him and he earned my enmity for the rest of high school.

Now we're both in college, and I'm very much over my social life in high school. However, recently I heard from another friend that my old fake friend (who is going to college on a sports scholarship or something) hates the community he's in; he doesn't drink or party, and he's found that nobody else around him shares that trait.

One side of me is like, finally, karma's come around and he's getting what he deserves. But at the same time, I faced similar problems early on in college as well, until I found a community I could fit into, and I feel a little bad for his situation. The other friend who told me this suggested I text him, but I promised myself I would cut toxic people out of my life once I graduated high school.

If I refused to reach out to him, would it be assholish?

Ex Output:
refusing to text a fake friend who's not in a good place


Ex Input:
So, I've been seeing this person for over a month and I've noticed several red flags in terms of her laughing AT me when I say something dumb and brushing me off in favor of friends. Last night, we had plans to see each other at 7:30 PM. When I showed up at her place, she was talking on the phone with her friend. After giving her a kiss, I sat on the couch and read a book as she washed dishes in the kitchen with her friend on speaker phone. I sat on the sidelines for a little over 30 minutes, getting gradually more and more annoyed that I was being ignored, but also telling myself that it's okay because my girlfriend was just being a good friend, etc.

Finally, after 30 minutes, my girlfriend tells her friend, "I've got to let you go because I've got some company over." I'm happy because at last she acknowledged me, but then I hear her side of the conversation go like this, "Don't worry about it. It's okay. Ha, bros before...what's the female equivalent...AHAHAHAHAHAHA (loud laughter that seems to go on forever).

Then she finally hangs up and comes over to sit by me on the couch and I tell her that I thought her comment (basically saying, 'bros before hos' and laughing about it) to her friend was rude and she tells me that it's just an expression and proceeds to say that SHE is the one who should be offended because I would take her words so personally and think that she was trying to belittle me and that she was just trying to have some fun with her friend who was going through relationship problems.

Am I the asshole?

Ex Output:

user
calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made



assistant
Given a real-life anecdote of a complex ethical situation, generate a suitable title that describes the main event/root cause of the situation. Imagine that the given text is a social media post, and you have to write the title of the post, so the users can decide to read the main text or not.

Ex Input:
During this winter, a friend of mine and I talked about how we both love playing volleyball and we should go play when it gets warmer on several occasions.

Last week, I saw her playing with other people from school on her Ig story, she actually had called me that day to see me at school but I was already at home, so she knew I was free.
She casually mentioned this event afterwards, saying this is the 2nd time she played with them and intending to do so again. I somehow got the sense that she only mentions this bc I already saw it on Ig and there is no way of hiding. These are the people I know of so she could have invited me with no problem. 

I got upset but figured no one ows me anything and this person showed me she is a good friend on different occasions before so I will let it go. 
But natually, I can't act the same way I used to with her. Last week I didn't see her at all, it's not diffucult to avoid since our schedules are different and when I see her I can't help but feel cold to her and she realizes something is off. AITA for feeling and behaving this way? 

Ex Output:
being upset with my friend for not inviting me


Ex Input:
*Tl;dr A guy I had a dubious friendship with is in a less than ideal situation and I don't want to reach out to him.*

So I went to a small high school where I didn't have a lot of friends. I met this guy through the school band, as we were both in the same section, and he and I talked once or twice. However, when I would try to hang out (e.g. sit with him at lunch or something) he would constantly be sitting with his other friends and wouldn't even address me when I spoke to him. He was also on his phone basically 24/7 but when I texted him it always took him 5+ days or so to respond. He never was directly impolite to me, but it felt like I was definitely putting more into our friendship than I was getting out of it, so I stopped hanging out with him and he earned my enmity for the rest of high school.

Now we're both in college, and I'm very much over my social life in high school. However, recently I heard from another friend that my old fake friend (who is going to college on a sports scholarship or something) hates the community he's in; he doesn't drink or party, and he's found that nobody else around him shares that trait.

One side of me is like, finally, karma's come around and he's getting what he deserves. But at the same time, I faced similar problems early on in college as well, until I found a community I could fit into, and I feel a little bad for his situation. The other friend who told me this suggested I text him, but I promised myself I would cut toxic people out of my life once I graduated high school.

If I refused to reach out to him, would it be assholish?

Ex Output:
refusing to text a fake friend who's not in a good place


Ex Input:
So, I've been seeing this person for over a month and I've noticed several red flags in terms of her laughing AT me when I say something dumb and brushing me off in favor of friends. Last night, we had plans to see each other at 7:30 PM. When I showed up at her place, she was talking on the phone with her friend. After giving her a kiss, I sat on the couch and read a book as she washed dishes in the kitchen with her friend on speaker phone. I sat on the sidelines for a little over 30 minutes, getting gradually more and more annoyed that I was being ignored, but also telling myself that it's okay because my girlfriend was just being a good friend, etc.

Finally, after 30 minutes, my girlfriend tells her friend, "I've got to let you go because I've got some company over." I'm happy because at last she acknowledged me, but then I hear her side of the conversation go like this, "Don't worry about it. It's okay. Ha, bros before...what's the female equivalent...AHAHAHAHAHAHA (loud laughter that seems to go on forever).

Then she finally hangs up and comes over to sit by me on the couch and I tell her that I thought her comment (basically saying, 'bros before hos' and laughing about it) to her friend was rude and she tells me that it's just an expression and proceeds to say that SHE is the one who should be offended because I would take her words so personally and think that she was trying to belittle me and that she was just trying to have some fun with her friend who was going through relationship problems.

Am I the asshole?

Ex Output:

calling my girlfriend on a seemingly rude comment that she made


