Reduction of nitrobenzene in alkaline medium

My teacher listed out the following set of reactions under the aforementioned topic:[![Reduction of nitrobenzene in alkaline medium](https://i.stack.imgur.com/l0qBg.jpg)](https://i.stack.imgur.com/l0qBg.jpg)


He explained the formation of azoxybenzene as follows.


Reduction of nitrobenzene produces 2 intermediates:


1. nitrosobenzene
2. phenylhydroxylamine


He then went on to say that condensation between nitrosobenzene and phenylhydroxylamine yields azoxybenzene. This takes place by the nucleophilic attack of the lone pair on the nitrogen atom of phenylhydroxylamine (as opposed to that of the lone pair on the oxygen atom of the same) on the nitrosyl nitrogen. He reasoned that nitrogen, being less electronegative, is more nucleophilic than oxygen (see figure).[![enter image description here](https://i.stack.imgur.com/xE4oc.jpg)](https://i.stack.imgur.com/xE4oc.jpg) While I do understand that the explanation is generally true, I am not sure that it is the case here as the lone pair on the nitrogen atom is in conjugation with the benzene ring here and is thus less available on nitrogen. Thus, shouldn't it be the lone pair of the oxygen atom that takes part in the reaction instead?


He followed this discussion up with a question where we had to figure out the product of a similar condensation reaction in an alkaline medium between p-Nitrosotoluene and 4-Nitrophenylhydroxylamine which basically reduces to deciding which benzene ring will be directly attached to the nitro part of the azoxy moeity. He said that it is the ring with the nitro substituent that finally gets attached directly to the 
nitro part of the azoxy moeity as the nitro substituent stabilises the negative charge on the oxygen of the nitro part of the azoxy moeity better (see figure). [![enter image description here](https://i.stack.imgur.com/K65DV.jpg)](https://i.stack.imgur.com/K65DV.jpg) But I can't see how that should come to be because the internal attack of the lone pair on the other nitrogen atom which establishes the N-N double bond of the azoxy moeity and removes the -OH group in the intermediate should be better available in case of the benzene ring with the methyl substituent in the first place. So, shouldn't it be the other way round?


