Why do I feel like I'm always wrong in everything in my relationship?
My wife is always accusing me of cheating and telling me that I'm doing things she finds disrespectful even when I don't mean it like that. For example, she gets offended when I call someone at work "sweetheart."  I wish I had a penny for every time she accused me of cheating on her.  She doesn't, and never will say she was wrong. How do I get her to understand?
Relationships,Marriage,Workplace Relationships
<p>You may not get her to understand your point of view with any more success than your wife is having with you to do the same.</p><p>It is possible you are a balanced couple in the sense of neither one of you understanding the other.</p><p>The deeper question to ponder is whether each of you can accept the other person even though you each have very different terms for defining "cheating".</p><p>You will find either there are enough strong similarities to keep the two of you happy as a couple, or there aren't these similarities.</p><p>Then, the new question would be whether either of you want to address your findings or not.</p>