My husband doesn't trust me.
My husband doesn’t trust me for some past we had. I know all marriages have their ups and downs, but sometimes, I feel I am getting tired of the same thing over and over: that I am messing around, which I am not.
Marriage
<p>The good news in the way you're feeling is recognizing that your husband's trust of your actions, makes a difference to you.</p><p>The typical therapy formula for restoring trust between two people after some sort of betrayal, is for the one who has broken the trust, to earn it back.</p><p>Restoring trust requires both persons to actively involve themselves in this process.</p><p>The person who tires earning back trust, must know what standards for this, of the one who was betrayed.</p><p>The person who feels betrayed must willingly be open minded to accepting the efforts of the one who tries earning back their trust.</p><p>As simple as this formula sounds, the actual process of restoring trust raises a lot of emotion on both sides, therefore causing difficulty in keeping discussions in this area, on track.</p><p>The best way of success in restoring trust between partners, is utilizing a couples therapist who would be able to guide your conversations back on track, and also open emotions for discussion when relevant to restoring trust.</p><p>Good luck in establishing new terms with your partner!</p>