What makes my husband so selfish when it comes to my feelings?
If I tell him I don't like certain things, he does when it pertains to me. He tells me it's not like that. He never has anything to say about me until I tell him something about himself.
Marriage
<p>It sounds like there are issues with communication between you and your husband. &nbsp;Your perceptions of interactions that you are having don't sound like they match up. &nbsp;It would probably be helpful for you both to work on communicating using "I" statements (I feel----when you---). &nbsp;This is a more effective way of communicating your needs than directly criticizing the other person. &nbsp;If you work on communicating in new, less critical ways you both may learn more about your spouse's feelings and perspective. &nbsp;</p>