How can I get past the hurt of being told by various significant others that I wasn't good enough to have a baby with?
Self-esteem
<p>I'm not really sure what "not good enough" means. If multiple people have told you that, one thing to consider is that they each had their own reasons for not wanting a child at that moment. It is possible that it had nothing to do with you.</p><p>Did any of these significant others say anything about what made them feel that way? I hope that you were able to talk about these ideas rather than them telling you what they thought and then not further discussing it.</p><p>What qualities do you want to see in the partner that you want to have a baby with? What attributes do you have to give back to that relationship?</p>