My husband and I are separated. I'm so scared of getting divorced
I keep on begging him to come back. I am so unhappy with him but am so scared of being a single parent to our son. I was abused as a little girl and that has made to be very abusive to men. What should I do...
Relationship Dissolution ,Relationships,Domestic Violence
<p>Major change frightens almost everybody.</p><p>Don't be so afraid of your fear that you let yourself beg and are willing to accept unhappiness as a standard in your marriage.</p><p>If you start considering that life can be better than what is current for you now, new possibilities and ideas will start developing in your mind.</p><p>Consider finding a therapist so that you have private space to talk in detail about your fears and the new ways of seeing your Self.</p><p>A therapy relationship, since it is safe and supportive, will be a good balance to having been abused, suffered, and unhappy.</p>