My boyfriend says he needs time to think about us
I found out my boyfriend takes anti-depression medicine. Lately he's been saying he has a lot on his mind, and he needs time to think about us. We've only been dating 3 weeks but I like him a lot.
Relationships
<p>Your boyfriend may like you a lot as well.</p><p>People have different styles of reflecting on their lives, one of which is to retreat the way you describe your boyfriend doing.</p><p>One point you can consider is asking for a time frame of when he'd be ready to discuss his thoughts on your relationship.</p><p>He's entitled to retreat, as much as you're entitled to talk.</p><p>Cooperating with the other person's way of handling themselves is one aspect of relating.</p><p>Since the anti-depressants are a concern for you, consider bringing up this topic when the two of you do talk.</p>