I'm not sure if I want to trust my husband again.
My husband used a lot of negative words to hurt me, and I moved out. He is seeing a counselor and wants another chance to make things right. I'm not sure if I trust that he will not go back to his old ways.
Marriage,Relationship Dissolution ,Intimacy
<p>I am glad he is seeing a counselor.&nbsp; That is something that most men struggle with doing at times.&nbsp; Time will tell if his actions are of good intentions.&nbsp; However remember that a person can only do&nbsp;to you&nbsp;what you&nbsp;allow&nbsp;them to do in relationships.&nbsp;&nbsp; What part did you play?&nbsp; Did you&nbsp;down play his&nbsp;disrespect at one time?&nbsp;&nbsp;Did you give up the power of your own voice?&nbsp; Did you lose yourself in the relationship and it became just one sided?&nbsp; Did you allow him to make you doubt yourself?&nbsp;&nbsp; In others words, if you do decide to give him another chance,&nbsp;what would you do different?&nbsp; Not saying that you are the blame or cause of the negative words&nbsp;AT ALL, but don't allow such disrespect from him or&nbsp;anyone else in the future.&nbsp; </p><p><br></p><p>If you do decide to give it another try, go in with&nbsp;a voice, with the demand of respect, with your needs and wants expressed and expected.&nbsp;&nbsp;With an increase in your self worth and confidence, you&nbsp;will know&nbsp;what to do&nbsp;if&nbsp;his actions are true&nbsp;or&nbsp;if&nbsp;with dishonest intentions.&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;</p><p>Seek counseling as well, if you need that additional support to find self.&nbsp;<br></p>