How do I tell one parent I want to live with the other one?
I want to live with my mom. My dad gets angry and makes me feel like everything is my fault. I still talk to my mom although My dad tells me that I'm no allowed to. I'm scared I will make the wrong decision and that my dad will hate me. 

How do I tell him that I want to live with my mom?
Family Conflict,Parenting
<p>Yes, from what you wrote, your dad doesn't accept responsibility for the way he feels and blames you for his feelings.</p><p>I'm glad you recognize he's handling himself less as a grown person and more like a young child.</p><p>I also understand your hurt and frustration that your father handles himself in a way which shows for now that he is unwilling to respect your wishes.</p><p>Your decision is not surprising since most people wouldn't want to live with a parent who shows little interest to respect their kids' decisions.</p><p>In terms of how to tell him your choice, do this in simple and most basic information terms. &nbsp; "I've decided for now to live w mom".</p><p>I suggest to not offer reasons to him bc he doesn't seem interested in hearing them. &nbsp; Giving him reasons would likely trigger him to rebut them.</p><p>If he asks questions, answer them as simply as possible.</p><p>If and when you feel he is more willing to understand and know you, then you'd feel more free to have genuine dialogue with him.</p><p>Right now he doesn't seem very ready to handle this.</p>