I feel completely alone in my marriage.
I have been married for 11 years. Within the past 2 years we have drifted far apart. We coexist together but there is very little personal interest in each other. I often feel that my husband has "friends" at work that he is more emotional invested in than me. I feel very alone and just uncared for.  Is there anything I can do to feel reconnected?
Marriage,Relationships,Intimacy
<p>Absolutely. Your question shows that you are going through a lot of pain and I'm sorry for that. Many couples go through this disconnect and hope to come to reconnect before things get to a breaking point. What I think can help is the following:&nbsp;</p><p>1.) Understand what his primary concern is</p><p>2.) Understand what your primary concern is</p><p>3.) What would you like to see different?</p><p>4.) What would he like to see different?&nbsp;</p><p>5.) Be honest about your concern with him having friends (Be ready for honesty)</p><p>6.) Help him understand you feel alone without him feeling guilty.</p><p>7.) Let him know how committed you are to making this relationship despite the two of you drifting apart.</p><p>8.) Sometimes if you just acknowledge the elephant in the room.</p><p>9.) Couples/Marriage Therapy</p>