The girls at my coming-of-age party don't like their dresses.
I'm having a quinceañera, and the girls don't like their dresses. They never told me, and now it's a week away. I don't know what to do.
Social Relationships,Children & Adolescents
<p>How did you find out that the girls aren't happy with their dresses?</p><p>Did you hear this directly from one of them or is this third hand information that someone else told you about one of the girls in your party?</p><p>The answer matters because gossiping instead of directly telling you about a problem, is a problem in itself.</p><p>I suggest a conversation with the entire group of girls in which you tell them how you actually are feeling about their opinions about the dresses.</p><p>One topic you may consider bringing up is what everyone expects to get out of the party. &nbsp;Are they coming because they like one another and wearing a dress in which the girl is happy, is only one way of having fun together?</p><p>You may learn a great deal as to the difference in values about a quinceaña among you and your friends.</p><p><br></p><p>I hope you'll have a fun party!</p>