I want to have a threesome with my husband and another girl, but  I feel really nervous.
My husband and I had our first threesome recently. Everyone was drinking and he was on her more then me. 

He and I talked about it afterwards and it made me feel better, and now I'm craving more of it. But before it gets close to happening I get this empty feeling. Why am I feeling this way?
Human Sexuality,Intimacy,Relationships
<p>Hello there.&nbsp; As you have courageously explained your soulful dilemma. I can appreciate the complexity of this situation.&nbsp; You have identified some key factors that may be contributing to your sense of feeling "empty".&nbsp; One, is the ultimate goal here able to be acquired from this arrangement?&nbsp; Are you trying to have your fulfillment with another woman while in the presence of your husband but not with him 'on her' as much or at all?&nbsp; Are you trying to ask him to be more passive participant?&nbsp; Perhaps be careful of not drinking too heavily... In the whole event, how do you want to feel intimate or connected ?&nbsp; Were you craving all along, him to really be all over you along with her?&nbsp; These are questions that arise; maybe not solutions.&nbsp; Its always good to be very clear with oneself of what is the ultimate target here... And always measure the potential danger..&nbsp; </p><p>Peace - keith<br></p>