Why won’t my boyfriend for almost two years talk about our future together when he says he’s in love with me?
Relationships
<p>The good news is you're aware of what you'd like from your relationship.</p><p>The possible less good news, is that your boyfriend's ideas for the relationship are not similar to yours.</p><p>Really, you will only find this out for sure by deciding to start the conversation about your expectations and ask about his.</p><p>People have as infinitely different ideas of what, if anything generates from feeling in love, as there are people on this earth.</p><p>Speculating and theorizing about how he combines love and a future with you, at some point are better answered directly by him.</p><p>You sound ready to find out his reality in order to compare it with yours.</p><p>Sometimes people are afraid that the answer they'll hear will disappoint. &nbsp;</p><p>While this is possible, it is also possible you will be greatly surprised in a very happy way. &nbsp;What if he was being shy and hesitant to tell you his wish of being together with you for many years?</p><p>Either way the answer turns out, you will gain as a person by appreciating your own need for peace of mind by knowing clearly what your future with this man will be like.</p>