Why do I feel like I need a man in my life?
Why am I attracted to older men?
Relationships
<p>What a wonderful question!</p><p>Good for you on clearly knowing your priorities.</p><p>If I was sitting with you now, I'd ask you to list your reasons.</p><p>Start with whatever answers you do come up with and examine each of these a little further.</p><p><br></p><p>If, for example, you feel you need a man because many of your friends are in relationships, then possibly you feel insecure about being your unique self, even when this sets you apart from your friends.</p><p>If, you feel you need a man to protect you financially, then possibly you've lost faith in your ability to financially support yourself.</p><p>If you'd like a man in your life to offer your love and are willing to contribute the work of relating intimately, then you've found the best reason for wanting a man in your life.</p><p>This is far different than "need".</p><p><br></p>