After finding out, Chen didn't bring it up. "Men are really worried about their egos. And so I couldn't shatter him. Otherwise it would be like letting the air out of a balloon, and he wouldn't even have had the courage to keep on going," says this woman in full understanding of her husband's personality.
有一陣子陳芳如的先生做得很慘，每晚借悶酒澆愁，陳芳如得知後也不去問：「男人都愛面子，不能戳破他，否則就會像皮球洩了氣，連走下去的勇氣都沒了」，對老公個性十分瞭解的陳芳如說。