But the arrival of a third party on the scene changes the equation. It is all well and good when someone can say, "I never asked for a divorce," but as time wears on, the existence of an affair introduces tensions and conflicts that can destroy a relationship.
第三者的出現，不管表面上「我又沒要求你離婚」的說詞講得多動聽，然而時日一長，外遇存在所引發的擾動與衝突，還是足以摧毀婚姻。