Of course, the reason why some young people scoff at "settling down" is because they have seen too many adults trapped in patterns, slowing losing their identity, and so they resist this in their hearts.
當然，有些青少年排斥「定」下來，正是看到太多成年人被梆死在一個框框裡，逐漸喪失了自我，因此他們心生抗拒。