One problem is how to make second marriages last. Sixty-nine-year-old P'an San-yuan, widowed for over twenty years, suggests avoiding comparing the first spouse with the second.
如何使第二春沒風沒雨、真正是個「春天」？守寡廿多年、六十九歲時改嫁的潘三元認為，不要拿容貌、才氣、財富等來比較前後任配偶，是很重要的一點。