One of her epiphanies is that the old Chinese saw, “ If you have children, you will be taken care of in old age ” should really be “ If you have children, you will never be obsolete. ” Growing along with one ’ s children keeps one from falling out of touch with society.
像她說「養子非防老而可以防『陋』」──同子女一起成長，可防孤陋寡聞，不會與社會脫節。