Sima's wife waited for the friend to leave before speaking: "People think you are a virtuous man, and so they trust you and open their hearts to you. Yet when someone tells you that his son has died, you say it's good. What kind of response is that?"
5. 司馬徽的妻子等那位朋友走後，就責備他說：「人家以為你是賢德之人，所以相信你，把心理話說給你聽；可是你聽人家說兒子死了，反而稱好，這算什麼？」