The reason the first few meetings didn't lead to anything was that he believes that marriage is something very important--the couple will spend the rest of their lives together--and so when he did not have the right feeling at the first meeting, he let it go at that.
前幾次之所以沒有再發展下去，因為他覺得結婚是一件大事，要生活一輩子，第一次見面感覺不對就放棄了。不想單身一輩子