"If you want your kids to grow up to meet your expectations, the children will feel frustrated. If you let them develop on their own, and help them along, even if they turn out differently from you, isn't that good too?" asks Shen Hsiu-mei.
「如果你要孩子按照父母的期許長大，那麼挫折會很大，若由他自己發展出來，然後協助他，即使他是跟你不一樣的人，不是也很好」，沈秀美說。