A computer engineer told me that he had never been involved in a romantic relationship, and so when he enrolled in the empathy development course and tried to understand other people's emotions, he often had a "feeling of not being able to feel." Only then did he realize how empty his relationships had been for 20 or 30 years. After several years of volunteer training, he became a very sensitive person.
有一位電腦工程師告訴我，他以前從來不知道人的情緒這麼重要，所以當他上同理心課程，要去體會別人的情緒感覺時，常常「感覺不到感覺」，才領悟為什麼二、三十年來，他的情感領域一片空白，經過幾年義工工作的訓練，他成了一個非常細膩、善感的人。