"She knows that I have a strong influence on the children, and the only thing to do is to keep the kids from being with me." Nonetheless, Mr. Chen has a deep realization that when the children are with their mother, they have no pressure. When they are with their father, they have the pressure to return to Taiwan.
「她知道我對孩子是有影響力的，唯一辦法就是不讓孩子跟我在一起」，不過陳先生也深深瞭解，小孩和媽媽在一起沒有壓力，和爸爸在一起就有回台灣的壓力。