Whether marriage adds to or detracts from a woman ’ s life, she believes, is open to debate — we marry people, not angels, after all. She jokes that while her own husband never refuses outright to do things for her, neither does he jump at the opportunity to help out.
張曉風說婚姻對女人的「加減分」很難詮釋，因為婚姻的現實「畢竟是嫁給一個人，而不是天使」，她笑說先生凡事雖不拒絕，卻也不是當下行動，總是 never say no, never say now。