Chang An-man says that when he was a young child the mothers of the family did not raise what had happened but just told the children that their father was overseas. It was only when they had grown a little older that she told the children the truth, while stressing yet again that they must not harbor an attitude of hatred.
張安滿說，家裡的媽媽們在他們小時候從沒提過家中遭遇，只告訴孩子說爸爸在國外，長大一些才告訴他們真相，並一再強調不應有仇恨的心態存在。