She says waveringly that these few years since she has been married, living with her child in her parents 'house, she has found the gossip around the neighborhood almost unbearable. "I still have to wait my turn to come to Taiwan, but the child is not a bastard and she's not going to take my family name, so she'll be better off here with her father."
她幽幽地說，結婚這麼些年了，還拖著孩子跟父母住，鄰里間的閒言閒語煩心的很：「我不能來是台灣這邊還沒有排到；可小孩又不是私生、又不是入贅，總是跟著爸爸比較好。」