Although she was his favorite, her father was so opposed to the marriage that he refused to attend the wedding service. One year later Wu gave birth to a child but was so saddened by the state of relations with her father that she often wept, though only after her husband was asleep.
父親本是最疼她的，結果結婚那天，父親傷心痛哭，沒有參加婚禮，甚至不當主婚人；一年後，她生了小孩，因為年紀小什麼都不懂，經常趁先生睡著了偷偷哭泣。