"The basic purpose of these get-togethers is to let a potential spouse know your faults in a very short time." Since he wants to find a match, he doesn't hide anything. For instance he makes it clear that he pays attention to life's little details. The knickknacks and ornaments in his house must be laid out according to his specifications.
許啟清屈指一算，前前後後也累積了二十多次相親經驗，「相親基本的用意就是在很短時間內，有什麼缺點讓對方知道」，既然要在一起，他也就毫不隱瞞，譬如說他很注意生活細節，家中擺飾什麼東西要放在什麼地方，一定要照他的意思，「有些挑剔」就是了。