Chung Chun-lan, former editor-in-chief of Hakka Fengyun Magazine, takes an instance from close to home: Her older brother and his wife both work, but when the wife gets home she must take care of the children and is exhausted every night. Meanwhile if the husband comes home at three in the morning he'll wake his wife up to help him prepare his bath.
曾任＜客家風雲＞雜誌總編輯的鍾春蘭舉出身邊的例子：哥哥嫂嫂同樣在外上班，嫂嫂回家後還要放牛帶孩子，每天晚上都疲憊就寢，偏偏哥哥若三更半夜回家，還要把嫂嫂叫醒，只為幫他放洗澡水。