Divided by a common language: "In fact, when I first wanted to marry into the Ju family, my parents had their doubts," states Chiu Manju. It seems that mainlanders are more likely to overprotect their children; her parents worried that, being unused to doing household chores, she would find it hard to adjust after marrying into a traditional family.
吵架要用共同語言「其實當初要嫁到朱家時，我的父母也曾有些遲疑」，裘曼如說，外省人似乎比較寵小孩，所以父母怕不慣做家事的她嫁到一個傳統台灣家庭中會不習慣。