But after marriage when they come across practical problems, they are transformed and feel 'give me my self, or give me death,' "sighs writer Annie Chen, who has written a set of marriage counseling books. Half-way feminism can actually hasten the disintegration of a marriage. You can get a glimpse of this from the increasing number of divorces initiated by the wife.
可是婚後碰到了實際的生活事件，她卻搖身一變，變成『無自我，毋寧死』，」寫過一整套婚姻輔導書籍的作家陳艾妮感嘆，不徹底的女性主義會導致婚姻加速解體，從越來越多離婚案件是由妻子主動提出的現象看來，也可以窺知一二。