Someone who wants face is constantly taking measures to cause others to lose it while they keep it. But someone who has dignity must show respect for other people's dignity before he can establish his own.
一個要面子的人，往往用傷害別人面子的手段，維持自己的面子；一個有尊嚴的人，他必須尊敬別人的尊嚴，才能建立自己的尊嚴。