It's up to the girls themselves to make an effort to lose weight. "Keeping in good shape and dressing nicely is all part of showing consideration for what others think." Tsou urges women not to be unfairly judgmental of men, because men do not necessarily look at women as objects. "I've met several overweight girls at these activities who were very outgoing and sensitive to other people's feelings.
鄒先生指出，女性不宜對男性有過多的偏見，男人不見得真的喜歡將女人「物化」，「我曾在這類活動中邂逅幾位身材胖胖的女性，由於她們生性開朗、善體人意，還是深受男性歡迎。