But it was painful to separate grandparent from grandchild. They had been together for four years by then, and it took a long time for the parents and the child to adjust to their new relationship.
保母本身有三個子女，自五歲至十歲不等，帶孩子的經驗相當豐富，因此她為附近人家照顧二、三個小娃娃，以增家庭收入。第一個孩子，自然是疼愛得緊，惠君對寶寶的安全、衛生與營養等問題十分注意，經常提醒保母：奶瓶與奶嘴要消毒、尿布應單獨洗滌……。