Her deep understanding of the emotional pains of the family means that, although she encourages them to "do something for society," the social workers 'creed is not to coerce the reluctant. Commonly held erroneous views also cause many to give up the intention to donate.
「另一個感情上的因素則是『捨不得』」，曠慧君深解家屬的感受，因此儘管她也期望他們在哀戚之餘，還能「為社會做一點事」，但此時社工員的信條是「絕不勉強」：「絕對不會因為家屬拒絕捐贈器官，就故意冷淡他們」，曠慧君強調。