Parental blame is a repelling force; it only pushes children further away. On the other hand, support and encouragement are always the best attracting forces, keeping families close together.
父母的責怪是「推力」，只會把孩子越推越遠；換個角度，支持和鼓勵則永遠是最好的「拉力」，讓家人永遠凝聚在一起。