Then there are men who insist upon being strict fathers and disciplinarians or staying at the same company until they retire. And there are women who are determined to play the role of the traditional Chinese wife and mother. Ignoring the changing times, they place tremendous pressure on themselves.
其他如堅持當個嚴父、嚴師，堅持做個「無才便是德」的賢良主婦、或者堅持要在同一個公司做到退休等等，都是昧於時代變化，會給自己帶來無謂的壓力。