Her eldest sister, four years her senior, being the first child of the family, had the given name of kui (" precious ") and was loved like a treasure by the family. But Hong You-mien was the second-born" girl child "-not what the family had been hoping for-and was given a name that meant" unneeded. "
大她 4 歲的長姊因為是家裡第一個小孩，取名為「貴」，得到家人寶貝般的疼惜，但她自己卻是不被期待的第二個「查某囝仔」，被取名為「『免』啦！」