Li Yuan-sung always encouraged children to develop their own reasoning and character. The children, for their part, grew up immersed in the community's teachings. Thus, in family disputes, both parents and children would utilize Buddhist teachings to try to win their arguments with each other. Some family members would even take their cases before the master.
由於李元松鼓勵孩子發揮自己的見解與個性，再加上從小對於教義耳濡目染，孩子跟父母吵架時不僅會互相以教義來「壓」對方，甚至還會去向上師告狀，如此，傳統家長權威式的管教自然無法維持。