And a will that meets with everyone's submission cannot be completed in just the time that it takes to sit down and write it. Families should get into the habit of talking about everything as a part of their normal lives, so that they become accustomed to this sort of open communication. "Talking often and deeply causes people to feel close to each other."
然而，一份讓大家都心悅誠服的遺囑，絕不是光靠下筆那一刻的用心就能完成的，因此平日就應該和家人養成無所不談、坦誠溝通的習慣，「常談、深談，讓彼此的心貼近」。