This is how Ko Ching-ming distinguishes their natures. People are often bedazzled by the earth-shaking "sacrifices" of romantic love, but Ko believes that classical love, which "succeeds" by day-to-day effort, morning and night, is even more special. This is the deep and subtle spirit of "joy without excess."
人們經常為著浪漫愛「成仁」的驚天動地而眩目不已，但是柯慶明以為在生活中朝朝暮暮付出而「成功」的古典之情更是難得，此正所謂「樂而不淫」的精神奧義。