She says that marriage and children are the two biggest critical points in a woman's life, and are big sacrifices. For that reason, she suggests that people who want to get married should be married for at least three years before deciding to have kids, in order to have enough time to make sure they get along well enough.
她認為結婚和生育是女人生涯的兩大危機，必須有所犧牲，因此她建議，如果決定步入婚姻，婚後 3 年內先不要生育，讓雙方有足夠的時間彼此磨合。