Only ask correct or incorrect, don't ask about gain or loss. If you always wonder whether some matter is advantageous to you or not, you'll worry about this one or fear offending that one; then I wouldn't be Jaw Shau-kong.
如果什麼事都要想對自己好不好，顧慮這個，又怕得罪那個，那我趙少康也就不是趙少康了。