He's been to dances and single clubs, but he says that many of those participating make it quite clear they're just after a husband or wife. When he sees that crowd, he loses interest fast. At other times, "My fear of failure is too great, and I'm constantly worrying about whether she likes me."
不喜歡唱歌，對教會排斥；參加過舞會、也到過單身俱樂部的許啟清說，有些人參加活動的心態，擺明就是來找老公、找老婆的，老是看到這一群人，就覺得沒意思；不然就是「得失心太重，一直想對方會不會看上我」。