Rather, they reproach and punish their kids, forbid them to see their friends, or even threaten to throw them out. All this only hurts the kids more, and makes them even more anxious and lonely, which is totally unhelpful.
遺憾的是，就如同孩子不瞭解愛情的真諦一樣，許多父母也不去探究問題的根源，反倒抓住孩子的性偏差行為大加撻伐，禁絕孩子和朋友來往，甚至威脅要把孩子趕出家門，這只會造成二度傷害，讓孩子更焦慮、更覺孤寂，完全於事無補。