Our father is basically very open-minded, and apart from having once said that he would prefer not to have a Japanese for a son or daughter-in-law, he allowed us to decide everything else for ourselves, including whether we wanted to emigrate, and whether our children would learn Chinese... even though Father himself is an "extremely Chinese" man.
爸爸基本上是很開放的，他除了表示過不希望日本人做他的女婿或媳婦外，其他事情一切由我們自己作主，包括移民外國與否，包括下一代學中文與否…… 雖然爸爸本身是「極中國」的男人。