But with no answers forthcoming, parents are anxious and confused. As they waver back and forth in their thoughts and actions, their choices are leading to a polarization in the way children grow up.
然而，沒有答案，為人父母者為之緊張、錯亂，想法、作法因之擺盪、分歧，孩子的成長方式在父母的選擇下也越趨兩極化。