During their conversations, the mother realized that she too had suffered many wrongs and much pain as she was growing up, and that no matter how hard she had tried, she never experienced her parents 'affirmation. It became obvious to her that without realizing it, she had been treating her own daughter the way her parents had treated her.
協談中，媽媽覺察到自己的成長經驗其實充滿了委屈與傷痛，因為不論自己多麼努力，都得不到父母的肯定，不知不覺中，她也把這種態度投射到女兒身上。