Liang believes Lan has lived too sheltered a life and can't reveal his deepest emotions. Liang has encouraged him to expand his horizons by reading, getting out with others, and even by arranging a job for him clearing tables in a restaurant.
梁弘志認為藍聖文因受家裡過分呵護，很少與外界接觸，這樣的「履歷」很難表達較深刻的感情，因此鼓勵他和同齡的人玩、看書，甚至安排他到餐廳打工、端盤子；還不時告訴他待人處事的道理。