Kung realized one needn't forcefully "tie" the neck-it's more a matter of gently guiding its growth, so that when it's fully mature, nature will have done the work itself.
龔一舫後來領悟，「打結」時並不需要將柄強拉過結圈，只要「靠」在結圈上，等瓜體長成、定型時，自然就會穿過結圈成功「打結」。