Yu feels that different cultural backgrounds have enabled her and her husband to grow that much more. Her husband is ten years older than her, and she has nothing but respect for the way he deals with people, treats his wife, and handles family matters.
她認為正因文化不同，異國婚姻才更能讓人成長，像長她十歲的先生，在待人接物上，與對妻子、家庭的處事態度與方法，在在令她打心眼裡信服。