It may not be that they do not want to succeed, but rather that they are afraid that too much success could make the men around them feel inferior, or make them appear less attractive themselves. Others may lack confidence and are unwilling to take on the heavier duties that come with success.
她們不一定不想成功，但卻害怕太成功會讓她們身邊的男人自慚形穢，也讓自己變得不「可愛」了；有的則是自信心不足，不敢擔負隨成功而來的繁鉅重任。