When our children oppose us, it's nothing strange; the real cause for worry is if even these external forms of opposition become simply imitations of others--that's where adults should truly start to be concerned.
反躬自問：我們是不是一向太約束孩子了？孩子反抗並不值得奇怪，糟的是如果連反抗的外在形式都由模仿來的，大人就真該好好思索了。