Becoming a monk or nun is a lifetime pursuit of the truth. It is a way of life. "The Buddhist door" is certainly not "the final life buoy if one's marriage fails and one has no home to return to."
出家是一輩子為追求真理而選擇的生活方式，絕不是「婚姻失敗，有家歸不得，佛門是最後一個救生圈」的情境。