However, this is a blind spot which many men can not understand. They agree that a housewife ought to set her own value, yet commonly do not support the part about the "paid post." "When you take the mutual love-life between the sexes within the home and make it into a paid service, what does that do to the 'affection' between man and wife?"
然而這卻是許多男性無法瞭解的盲點，他們同意家庭主婦應該建立自我價值，卻普遍不認同「有給」的想法，「把家庭裡兩性的感情互動變成了酬庸，夫妻間的『情』置於何地？」