A Mr. Lien refuses to take part in singles activities because he feels that a mature relationship between a man and woman should be based on love. "It ought to be possible in theory for people to find true love through singles activities, but it doesn't happen, mainly because men and women don't deal with each other on a spiritual level."
已屆適婚年齡卻仍單身無伴的連先生，則堅持不參加兩性婚友活動，他認為兩性成熟的交往，還是要建立在「愛情」的基礎之下：「照理說，兩性婚友活動應該可以產生真正的愛情才對，會發生和愛情脫離的現象，主要是因經常脫離心靈品質的緣故。」