Representations of the bride entering her husband's clan: When the bride's family holds the engagement party, the groom's family must leave quietly after dining, as an assurance that the bride will not return to her parents 'home after marriage.
表示新娘已經出嫁，成為男方的一份子女家請訂婚宴時，男家食畢，須悄悄的離去，不可說別離的話，恐日後成真，雙方離異。