When his wife Tien Shih-hui found out that Tang was younger than she, she also hesitated. She emphasizes that women who are of marriageable age should build up the belief that, "even if unsuccessful, I must still affirm my own worth."
太太田世蕙在知道男方比她小時，也是一陣猶豫，關鍵就在於雙方是不是坦誠交往，她強調適婚女性必須有的心理建設是，「即使不成功，還是要肯定自己的好」。