According to Lin, her father's "obliviousness" means he doesn't know what he's lost, and this has been a huge comfort for her. The same can be true for many others in the same situation.
對林玲來說，爸爸的「無知無覺」、免於受苦，是她心頭最大的安慰，對其他的失智症家屬而言，亦復如此。