"Men have a hard time showing when they are feeling down," says Selena Tsao. "My husband rarely complains to me, but every night after ten or so, when the children are asleep, he goes into 'down time.' He sits there by himself on the sofa smoking and watching TV. I think he's recuperating, getting his feelings in order."
「男人比較不輕易吐露負面的情緒，他（先生）很少向我訴苦，可是，每天晚上十點以後，小孩睡了，他就會進入『山洞時間』﹘﹘一個人坐在客廳沙發抽菸、看電視，我想他是在休息、整理情緒吧！」