But when it comes down to themselves, all kinds of misgivings and concerns crop up: "What will other people think?" and "Marriage is a concern for both families--you have to consider the parents." Even though they don't consider themselves fuddy-duddies, the answer in the end is no.
一會兒「別人會怎麼想」，一會兒「結婚是兩家人的事，總要顧到父母的想法」，雖不說是自己拘泥，答案終究是一個「不」。