After he passed away relatives didn't understand and thought they had "starved the old man to death." The couple felt very hurt and thought their good intentions and filial conduct had been misinterpreted and they had been wronged but had nowhere to turn for sympathy.
老爸爸過世後，其他眾姊妹對負責照顧的兄嫂不諒解，認為他們「活活把爸爸餓死」，這對夫妻傷心欲絕，認為好意及孝心被大家曲解，有冤無處申。