"It was really hard for me to make the decision to get married," says A-kuo (who we described earlier), looking back over the path his romantic life has taken. Having begun to date in middle school, over time he passed up a number of chances to get married, always for the reason that he was "not ready."
「我很不容易決定結婚，也不輕易離婚，但離婚對我來說是個選項，不是一條不可跨越的紅線，」前面提過的阿國，在回頭檢視自己的感情路時則表示，國中時開始談戀愛的他，錯失過幾次結婚的對象，原因都是覺得自己「還沒有準備好」。