Lee cites this example: Even if a child is very talented musically, it doesn't follow that she necessarily wants to become a musician. It's key that parents "respect a child's choice."
李崗舉例，即使孩子很有音樂天分，也不代表他就「想要」成為音樂家，關鍵在於父母能否「尊重孩子的選擇」。