A funeral is a major event in the human drama, and it seems that it should go without saying that the deceased would play the leading role. Yet the deceased has no way to insist upon what form the funeral should take.
喪禮是人生最後一件大事，殯儀中死者當然應該是「主角」，但是當事者對喪禮的形式卻無法堅持。