Given the circumstances, parents could not simply maintain more traditional forms of authority. "The master himself had two daughters whom he loved very much. He would even check into how much allowance we were giving our kids, pressing us to give them 'raises.'
「上師自己也有兩個女兒，因此特別寵愛孩子，還會調查我們給小孩多少零用錢，說我們給太少，要『加薪』。