According to marriage counselors, as long as spouses love each other and are sharing the responsibilities of the marriage, the relationship is basically working. They also note that by lowering your expectations of your spouse, you can discover more of the things that make them attractive.
婚姻專家認為，只要能顧好「bed & bread」，基本上就是一個行得通的婚姻；降低對配偶的期望，反而會發現配偶的可愛。