From a young age, her son's reactions lagged behind those of his little friends, and his schoolwork was less than ideal. Her husband, a high-ranking civil servant, could not accept what was going on, and often called the child "stupid." This created a wall of ice between father and son, and the boy once even ran away from home.
她兒子的反應自幼就較同年紀的小朋友緩慢，學習情形也不理想，她在公家機關擔任高級主管的先生偏又不能諒解，常罵孩子「笨」，使得父子關係形同冰炭，孩子甚至一度離家出走。