When she was a girl she had disobeyed her family and run away with her boyfriend. From that point on, all connections with her family had been cut off. After becoming a mother, then a grandmother, she became more and more ashamed of herself vis-a-vis her mother.
原來這位歐巴桑年輕的時候不顧家人反對，與先生私奔，從此與她的家人斷絕聯絡，在為人母、為人祖母之後，她對母親的愧疚日益加深。