They think only of their own best interests, and this attitude is frequently what causes them to miss the opportunity to find an appropriate mate. When people don't find success, argues Ms. Liu, the fundamental problem is most often to be found within themselves.
劉怡辰指出，一般參加者多半懷有自私心態，只站在利己立場考量，但常常因這種心態而使自己錯失最適合的伴侶，所以問題的根本，還是在自己身上。