For example, society didn't used to allow a daughter-in-law to pay much attention to her own parents, but now many married couples practice the principle of "each to his or her own parents." It is no longer unheard of for a husband to spend the holidays with his wife's family. These days people are saying that "rather than gain a daughter-in-law one loses a son."
比如，過去社會是不容許女兒太照顧娘家的，現在許多人乾脆「你照顧你爸媽，我照顧我爸媽」，老公跟著老婆回娘家過節的比比皆是，可能有人會感嘆「娶了一個媳婦，跑了一個兒子」，「其實現在是轉向『誰的父母更需要照顧？』