When some housewives write to her to complain that their husbands are not faithful and neglect the family responsibility, she advises them to examine themselves first, because the husband is not always at fault.
因此，如果有女人向她哭訴丈夫有外遇，棄家庭子女不顧，她一定先勸那個女人反省自己有無失責之處，而不是站在女人的立場，對有外遇的男人大舉撻伐。