Seen in this way, from the process of meeting and separation one can only say whether or not fate links two people together. But to know whether the fate which links them is good or bad, one must see whether their final relationship is harmonious.
這樣看來，從過程中的聚散來說，只能說明兩人有緣或無緣；而這分緣是良緣或孽緣，還是得講究最後關係的融洽與否。