When the two sides come in contact, they not only imagine, they deliberately exaggerate the patience, humility, diligence, and self-sacrifice of the so-called "traditional" female in the mainland. This is despite the fact that when people go to the mainland, what they see and hear has absolutely no relation to what they imagine; they just block it out.
在兩岸接觸時，不僅想像，且刻意宣揚大陸女性耐心、謙遜、含辛茹苦、自我犧牲等所謂「傳統」的女性形象；儘管大家到大陸旅遊時，所見所聞，與想像絕不相同，也被有意地忽略。