"A husband and wife are definitely going to have their differences--after all one's a man and one's a woman--but how do they handle these differences? When the Yuans agree, they follow the husband's opinion, and when they differ they follow the wife's," says Hsu Pang-yu, revealing the secret.
「夫妻倆，一男一女，想法一定不同，不同後怎麼辦？兩人意見相同時不妨照先生的想法，不同的時候就聽太太的」，許邦友指出他們相處的秘訣：例如有人請吃飯，兩人都願意去，這回聽先生的主意；萬一太座反對，當然就聽她的囉。