Because the sex act is so important to some men, the Warm Life Association advises in its marriage guidance courses that women should consider setting aside their inhibitions and consenting to oral sex and the use of sex paraphernalia. By occasionally injecting a bit of variety and fun into marriage, women can perhaps make their husbands more resistant to outside temptation.
由於「性」的確是部分男人偷腥時的重點，因此晚晴婦女協會開設的婚姻輔導課程中，還特別提醒會員，在閨房內不妨卸下「賢妻良母」的包袱，不必排拒口交或情趣商品，適時地為婚姻注入一點新鮮感和情趣，也可以增加男性的外遇免疫力。