Says Liao, "People who get into affairs lack this maturity. They don't have the courage to face issues square on and resolve them. If men are truly unapologetic about their affairs, that's one thing, but if they jump into them while feeling they shouldn't, they end up with all sorts of psychological hang-ups, including confusion, regret, and low self-esteem.
「外遇者就是少了這種成熟度，少了正視問題、解決問題的勇氣，」廖清碧指出，如果男人真的對外遇一無愧疚倒也罷了，如果明知是火坑還要往裡面跳，心裡糾結著自責、迷亂、悔恨、自暴自棄，那就需要當心了。