When she was five her parents divorced, and Hsiao Wen was abruptly taken by her father away from her mother, on whom she had mainly relied for those five years. First she moved to the countryside to live with her dad and paternal grandmother. Then in second grade she was sent to live with an aunt.
5 歲父母離婚，小玟被爸爸突然帶離從小依附的母親，回鄉下跟爸爸、阿嬤一起生活；小 2 時又被送去與姑姑同住，過了一年寄人籬下的日子。