Three years after his son's death, Huang hasn't surrendered to his grief, turned to religion or sought counseling. He says he doesn't want to forget any of the pain and doesn't like family and friends 'constant offers of consolation, which he feels have caused his wife to wallow in self-pity.
喪子三年多來，黃春明並不耽溺在眼淚之中，也不求宗教、心理慰藉，他不想用任何方法來忘記傷痛，甚至不喜歡親友不斷的安慰，讓太太陷於自憐的情緒中。