Day says that fathers of his generation require split personalities-using different modes of communication with the older generation and the younger generation. "I adopt a traditional Chinese approach in caring for my parents," he says, "but more open Western educational methods for the children."
戴勝通說，他這一代的爸爸必須要有「分裂人格」，面對上下兩代要用不同模式溝通，「對上採用中國傳統奉養方式；對下則要改採歐美的開放式教育方式。」