For example, Li says, some classes for foreign brides put too much stress on making them fit into their new families and communities and be "good mothers" and "good wives." This pressure to fit in can be an almost unbearable weight on these foreign brides, and does nothing to boost their confidence and independence ..
李丁讚舉例，有些為外籍新娘規劃的課程過於強調如何適應家庭與社會，成為稱職的太太和母親，這樣的道德壓力，形成外籍新娘難以承受之重，並不能讓她們產生內在的能量和自由。