After marrying, the interloper formally becomes a part of the life of his or her spouse, and inevitably has to face criticism and comment from new in-laws and acquaintances, not to mention the ubiquitous influence of the original spouse. And on top of that, the new couple has to contend with feelings of guilt and shame.
第三者扶正、正式進入外遇者的生活領域後，無可避免地要開始面對親族同事的指指點點、面對前任配偶所留下的無所不在的影響，同時還要和自己及配偶的愧疚感和羞恥感掙扎。