T'ien Ch'e-ch'ang, manager of the Po Ai Office in Hong Kong, which has arranged meetings in Hong Kong for many relatives from Taiwan and the mainland, says at once cruelly and truthfully, "Family feelings can't make up for harsh reality itself."
曾安排許多親人在香港會面的香港博愛事務所負責人田圻暢說得殘酷卻真實：「任何親情都代替不了現實本身。」反共只是政府的事？在現實的情況下，除了極少數的人可以設法將妻、子接到自由地區、取得居留權，並住滿五年後接回台灣（而且，他們在自由地區能適應嗎？）