I still don't have answers for all these questions, nor do I dare think too carefully about them. However, one thing is certain, one can't pass quick judgment on the way the older generation did things, calling it absolutely wrong or absolutely right; it just depends on your point of view.
這林林總總的問題，到現在我還是不敢說有了答案，也不敢細想，但的確有一絲絲感想，就是長輩的育兒經驗並不一定全錯，也不一定全對，全看你怎麼拿捏了！