If parents make cold remarks to their children during this period, calling them negligent or unfilial, it will only deepen the children's feelings of guilt and helplessness.
如果此時父母還冷言冷語，祭出如「翅膀長硬就忘了父母」、「不孝」之類的大帽子，只會加深孩子的內疚與無力感。