The Chinese notion of pre-destiny in human relations originated because there was only limited opportunity for meeting partners in olden times, but waiting for a predestined match these days--waiting passively for someone to catch you--is un-healthy and 'fatalistic!'
中國人講緣份，是因為古時候相遇的機會太少了，今天還等緣份、等人追的一味被動，那是不健康的『宿命論』！