Liu Yung-fu advises both men and women that wearing neat, clean clothes is the absolute least one should do from the standpoint of politeness. He also says that a sincere desire to be considerate and an ability to focus on the other person will do more than anything else to win over a person's heart.
不論男女，劉永富建議，整齊斯文的打扮是起碼的禮貌，誠懇體貼的言行最令人心儀。