Kao Chia-chen's own principle is to enter the children's lives, concern yourself with their inner selves, and to have them recognize you and know that you truly care for them. You can't use "management" --it's really a question of struggling alongside them.
高嘉珍的親身體驗則是，要融入孩子的生活，帶孩子的「心」，讓他們認同你，知道你真心關懷他們，不是「管理者」，而是和他們共同奮鬥的參與者。