Disappointment cannot be avoided If a person has gone through a great deal for a relationship, such as time spent living together, or having an abortion, says Chien, these are like huge bets laid on the table. If they don't pay off, the reaction will certainly be intense.
其次，若在愛情過程付出太多，如已經同居，或者為對方墮胎，在簡春安看來，都是下了大賭注的投資，若是沒有修得「正」果，反應也是一定激烈。