For example, one of her students had a matchmaker change the "take leave of your parents" part of the marriage ceremony to "thank your parents." "Women shouldn't have to cut ties with their natal families when they get married," she argues. "The marriage ceremony should be a time to express your love and gratitude to them."
舉例而言，她有位學生就要求媒婆，把婚禮中的「拜別父母」橋段改寫為「感恩父母」──「女兒結婚並不是要跟原生家庭切斷關係，而是歡喜與感恩的時刻！」