Li takes pains to point out that a responsible woman should not blame her "romantic" or "debauched" mistakes on the man while playing the part of the poor, innocent victim and making excuses. Her book was a precursor to the later feminist slogan in Taiwan, "Orgasms, not harassment!"
李昂強調，一個能替自己行為負責的女性，就是不將自己浪漫／浪蕩的過錯推到男人身上，裝出一副被男人欺凌、誘騙的可憐相，來謀求同情，替自己找藉口；這也是日後女性主義上街呼求「我要性高潮，不要性騷擾」的先聲。