), and afraid of being separated from mother or going to school alone--the so-called "fear of separation." A little older and they worry about whether they are too short, or wet the bed, or they feel the frustration of stuttering. And when the first pimple appears, or the first period or nocturnal emission, then another concern and stress has begun.
，還怕和媽媽分開，自己去上學﹘ ﹘所謂的「分離焦慮」；大一點了會擔心自己是不是長得太矮、或是為尿床、口吃而沮喪；等到第一顆青春痘冒出來、第一次月經、夢遺來時，則又是另一種焦慮和壓力的開始了。