To break the impasse, she urged her husband to take her and the children to Australia where he would pursue his studies. Her mother-in-law, seeing her son advancing with his education, and thinking that she herself could move to Australia when she got old, gradually came to accept the fact that "young people have their own ideas and methods," and she stopped interfering in their lives.
為了解決僵局，她「慫恿」老公帶著妻小到澳洲去唸書，婆婆看到兒子願意上進，又想到未來可以到澳洲養老，也就逐漸接受「年輕人有自己的想法和辦法」的事實，不再事事干預、反對了。