Tell the children it's not their fault The first thing to note is that "during this time neither the parents nor the carer must try to turn the child against the other party, to avoid making things even more painful and complicated," as Yu-wen Hsieh, deputy executive director of the Hsin Yi Foundation warns.
告訴孩子：不是你的錯！首先要注意的是，「不管是家長或是托育孩子的人，都要絕對避免在這個時候，挑撥孩子對另一方的親子之情，免得情勢更惡化複雜」，信誼基金會副執行長謝友文警告。