The Rukai custom is for the young man, accompanied by two or more friends, to go to the girl's house with gifts of betel nuts and tobacco. She will be waiting for him, accompanied as well by friends or family members.
魯凱族少男的約會，則是和兩個以上的同伴，帶著榔、菸草到意中人家裡，少女亦由同伴或家人陪伴接待。