I then ask the person: "In your relationships with your family and certain important friends now, where is your position?" In the end, people often discover that the picture of their relationships today is extremely similar to the one depicting their own families when they were small.
然後我再問他：「在你跟現在的家人或某個重要的朋友之間的關係中，你的位置在哪裡？」結果他會發覺原來跟自己小時候的家庭景象非常類似。