says the child's father Tu Wei-lun (not his real name), the leading male character in this story. Caught in the middle of the three generations, he has taken to letting off steam with jokes. But his Shanghainese wife says repeatedly that the boy's grandparents look after him best.
孩子的爸爸，事件中的男主角杜維倫（化名），夾在三代間，已經習慣以嘻笑怒罵打發；倒是上海太太連聲稱讚公婆把孩子帶得好。