Some parents, for instance, are layabouts themselves, with no ambitions or achievements, and the children naturally follow suit. Others yell and squabble all day. If children are steeped in anxiety, fear and hate, how can they be expected to care about their education or their future? Also, some parents obstinately insist on their children passing the high school entrance exams.
譬如有些父母本身就遊手好閒，沒有什麼成就動機，孩子自然有樣學樣；有些父母每天大吵大鬧，孩子淹沒在焦慮、憎恨、擔驚受怕的情緒中，那還顧得了什麼學業、前途？