Although the pursuit of spirituality is important, always remember that people still live in the "real world" and have real obligations. Before becoming a monk, didn't Jia Baoyu, hero of the novel Dream of the Red Chamber, get married and have a son?
此外，性靈追求雖然重要，然而人生在世，總有應盡的義務，即使賈寶玉勘破紅塵，不也是「先盡人道，再返天道」嗎？