"One shouldn't mystify the idea of 'fate,'" says Wang Tsu-ming. An arranged meeting between prospective marriage partners is like two molecules colliding to produce a "chemical" reaction. If the reaction is right, the couple will marry. If you refuse such a meeting from the outset, then there is no chance of that "collision" taking place.
「不要把緣份二字神秘化」，王子明說，相親就像兩個分子碰撞產生出「化學」反應，反應對了，親就結成了；完全拒絕不就失去了碰撞的機會。