For couples who have little choice but to live apart, there's no harm in experimenting for a period of three or four years. Perhaps one side will find that the place they have emigrated to is not as fine as they imagined, or that career is not as important as they thought.
非得分開生活的夫妻，不妨三、五年時間實驗一下，也許一方會體認到移居地沒有那麼好、或者事業也沒有那麼重要。