This attitude has advantages, as it can keep us from having a deep sense of loss over something, but it also can cause people to avoid overcoming challenges. Just saying sarcastic words does not accomplish anything.
這種心理有時對人有益，可以使我們不致太沉溺於遺憾、渴盼的情緒中；但應用得太多就不健康了，會使人消極、逃避，不願面對挑戰，不肯努力去爭取，只會說些風涼話，自然也就得不著什麼。