She doesn't understand how her sisters-in-law can work like that year in and year out. The other family members often tell her how hard life used to be in the old days and encourage her to bear with it, but she just can't understand why life has to be so tough and why she had to marry into a family that lives so far away.
她說她常不明瞭弟媳們為何能數十年如一日的如此工作，她的家人常跟她講過去家裡如何由苦到甘，鼓勵她多多忍耐，但她不瞭解人生為何要這麼苦？她為何要嫁這麼遠？