Such questions in fact directly reflect the way of life in Silicon Valley. Wives focus on their husbands 'lives, and husbands on their wives'. "Life is not just simple, it's numbingly boring," is how Chang describes it.
這個問題其實正反映矽谷人的生活步調，太太以先生生活為重心，先生也同樣以太太生活為重心，「生活單純到可以『淡』出一隻鳥來」，張愛美形容。