It may be a good thing, an ideal, to be sexually conservative, but it isn't a restriction that applies only to the woman. Once promises have been ex changed, men must also observe restraint; "virtue" only has meaning if it is built on a foundation of equality between men and Women.
陸小姐說，「守貞」是一件好事、一種理想，但它不應是單為女性量身訂做的緊箍咒；一旦有了承諾，男性一樣要守貞，守貞只有在男女平等的基礎上才有意義。