Some men, like Huang Hsiang, remain in Taiwan but go back to visit often. Others, after seeing their former wives, because of problems over property or inheritance, decide "this is it, there won't be a next time."
有的好比黃驤回到台灣居住，卻在兩岸來去，當「空中飛人」；也有些人見了面後，就因分財產等壓力鬧得「僅此一回，再無下次」；也有些是台灣的妻子不諒解，「堵住」先生不讓回去的；還有些人費盡千辛萬苦把大陸的妻子接來台灣。