When they are young, they don't have the ability to choose for themselves and must follow their parents 'lead. But once they enter their awkward, rebellious, opinionated teen years, you have to pay some attention to their views.
孩子年幼時，沒有自主選擇能力，只能隨著父母移動；一旦進入尷尬、叛逆、意見多的青春期，到底要聽誰的，也是一番折騰。