And while everyone says that men control the initiative in courtship and are "quick to change channels," Hsu finds that many guys go around writing down phone numbers left and right, then lack the courage after going home to make a single call. "Some men have been coming to these things for over a decade and they still haven't found anybody."
反倒是有些看起來「積極轉檯」的男人，猛抄女方電話，結果回家後一通電話也不敢打，只好又繼續回來參加活動從頭開始，「有些男生因此已經連續參加十幾年了，還是沒有成果，」他說。