After he turned 4O he swore to himself each year that if it didn't happen this year he wouldn't be so choosy the next. It was only later he found out that "the older you are, the more set you become in your ways and the harder it is to make concessions to suit someone else. If you keep on like that, you may as well forget it."
但到頭來才知道，「年紀越大越是定型，更不可能委屈自己去配合別人，再這樣下去也只好算了」，趙寧說到此，平日的意興風發竟被一片落寞取代。