It is said that connections cultivated for l, 000 days are used in an instant. If you normally refuse to attend these gatherings and then send out invitations as soon as you need something, not only will you feel embarrassed but those receiving the invitation maye on to you.
所謂「關係培養千日，用在一時」，若平日疏於參加聚會，一旦有事才去邀約，不但自己覺得難為情，受邀者更會有「無事不登三寶殿」的戒心。