Some parents have the woman's tablet placed in a Buddhist nunnery, but a doting mother won't consider her daughter safe until she can marry her to another family for a permanent resting place.
有人把姑娘的靈位寄放在尼姑庵，但當媽媽的心疼她，總覺得不安全，最好的辦法就是讓她嫁到某個人家，有正式棲身之所。