This angered her in-laws, who couldn't understand her reasons for doing such a thing. They called her "unfilial." Li, however, believed that if she could, at sometime in the future, present the two of them with a more easily lovable grandchild, all the misunderstandings would be forgotten. In the end, she was right.
此舉引起家人的不諒解，甚至被冠上「不孝」的罪名，但李雅卿相信，只要還給公婆一對活潑可愛的孫子，一切誤會都能化解。