Dai had one serious love before he started his mandatory stint in the military. "We were planning to go together to Taipei after I got out of the service. I was going to study filmmaking and she was going to major in political science because she wanted to become a diplomat."
當兵前，戴立忍有段深刻戀情，「當時規劃等我退伍後一起上台北，我念電影，她念政治，因為她想當外交官。」