Countless modern women share her "three noes policy--no actively seeking marriage, no taking the initiative in relationships, and no rejection of meeting possible partners. She takes life one day at a time, and though there are times when she has her daydreams, or can't help but have complaints, she keeps moving forward.
她的「不積極、不主動、不排斥三『不』曲」多少反映了現代未婚女性的心態，日子一天一天這麼過，偶爾午夜夢迴，不免自怨自艾，然後還是繼續往前走。