As an example, let's look at Chapter 32 of The Dream of the Red Chamber. Jia Baoyu has always had contempt for those who try to talk him into pursuing the expected paths of government or business. He movingly says: "Daiyu would never try to convince me to do something like that.
例如在《紅樓夢》第三十二回中，賈寶玉素來不喜歡追求仕途經濟的勸說，而說：「林姑娘從來不說這些混帳話，要是她也說過這些混帳話，我早和她分生了！」