But when I went to the funereal printers, I was astonished to discover that my name had been erased, on the grounds that according to custom one can't describe married daughters as "being at a parent's side."
沒想到訃聞到葬儀社印刷校對時，我的名字居然被拿掉了，理由是按習俗，出嫁女兒不能寫「隨侍在側」。