I've got a strong "sense of calamity." I'm constantly prepared that my husband might want a divorce some day, or that the children will take off when they have grown, and I remind myself all the time that I have to be independent.
我也很有「憂患意識」，隨時準備老公有一天會離開，或是小孩子長大了會飛走，隨時提醒自己要獨立自主。