It's happiness that counts Whatever the circumstances surrounding the breakup, says Chien Chun-an, romantic disappointment often occurs in four stages: destructive (for example, appealing to be boss of the other party, or going to his or her office to cause a scene), decadent (drinking or throwing oneself into another affair), complaining, and growth.
不論在何種狀況下分手，簡春安分析，情感挫折可能會經歷四個階段：毀滅（投訴對方主管、到辦公室大鬧）、墮落（酗酒、或立刻投入下一場戀情）、哀怨、成長。