In Silicon Valley, apart from his work, he devoted his time to church activities. Naturally the church community included unmarried women, "but they were like sisters--for one of them to suddenly become a girlfriend would have felt very strange."
矽谷生活除了工作，他就在教會奉獻，團契裡當然也有未婚女性，「但是像妹妹一樣，突然要變為女朋友，不是很奇怪嗎？」