Wang says, "There have to be happy parents for there to be happy kids--that's my main philosophy, and that's what gave me the strength to come out of my cocoon." When a marriage is in crisis, she says, you have to save yourself first. Only when you have made it can you get the kids 'lives back in balance.
「有快樂的父母才有快樂的小孩，這是我的核心理念，也是讓我破繭而出的力量，」王瑞琪說，婚變當時心中的想法是「先救自己」，唯有自己得救，才能讓孩子的生活恢復平穩。