Dr. Wang opines that however one gets through the process--accompanied by friends, supported by family, or with the help of counseling-- "you have to lose love at least three times to really understand what it means to love another person." Falling out of love can also be a process of self healing, and often one is made stronger by having suffered a loss.
不論是經由朋友的陪伴、家人的支持、諮商團體的協助，「至少要失戀三次，才懂得愛人」，王浩威認為，失戀是一種自我治療的過程，常常是有失就有得。