It's easy to talk about being accommodating toward others, but it's much harder to do. The second emperor of the Tang dynasty, Tang Taizong, had a trusted advisor named Wei Zheng who told the emperor to his face, "You aren't the man you once were.
「容人」這事說來容易作來難，當年唐太宗的諍臣魏徵對皇帝說「你已經不復當年了！