Lee points out that one of the surest ways of getting children to lose interest is to set various targets: telling them to learn one piece of music a week, say, or asking them to write about their own thoughts on a story book after finishing it.
李崗指出，最常讓孩子失去興致的，是大人設定的各種目標，譬如一星期要背好一首曲子、或是閱讀故事書後要寫心得報告等等。