"In this kind of situation, the most important thing is what the people in the house think, and no-one else has any right to tell them what to do," says Lin Ling. Having a patient who no longer recognizes his own family and can't be reined in with words is something that love alone can't solve.
「這種事，家裡人自己的想法最重要，旁人沒有權利說三道四。」林玲說，面對六親不識、無法溝通控制的病患，那種筋疲力竭，不是一句「愛」就可以化解的。