The Warm Life Association often comes into contact with divorced parents involved in disputes over the guardianship of their children. "If the child is a boy, the father is sure to fight hard for custody, but if it is a girl they are more willing to relinquish their rights," says Regina Wu, commenting that this is probably because fathers are afraid of their sons taking other surnames.
晚晴協會常接觸爭取孩子監護權的離婚夫妻，「若是男孩，男方必定力爭，若是女孩，較易放棄監護權」，吳月珍說，大概是怕男孩子以後改姓別人的姓。