She had a childhood sweetheart named Yang Qianwu, a graduate of Central Political University, but hadn ’ t heard from him since last seeing him in Nanjing in 1949. She had plenty of suitors after coming to Taiwan, but refused them all. Sima had never had a girlfriend before, and Qingzhang only regarded him as a younger brother to whom she could pour out her innermost secrets.
一開始吳慶璋就告訴司馬，她有個青梅竹馬的情人楊遷武，中央政治大學畢業，1949 年南京一別後即無音訊，來到台灣後不乏追求者，她都斷然拒絕。