Chang Pi-yu, who works in broadcasting, points out that sometimes her mother-in-law will "give the child strange medicine or have him wear a strange amulet." At times she'll give the child too much snack food or even instill in him sexist attitudes. Chang doesn't agree with any of this but there's no way to clearly communicate her dissatisfaction.
在傳播界服務的張必瑜指出，有時婆婆會給孩子「吃怪怪的藥，掛怪怪的符」，有時給小孩吃過量的零食，甚至一些重男輕女的觀念等，都讓她頗不以為然，卻苦於無法溝通清楚。