She lost a lot of time that could have been spent making friends, but her mother told her she couldn't have it both ways, and would have to choose between learning music or making friends.
但媽媽的意見卻是：「你不可能凡事都兼顧，就像學樂器和交朋友，二者之間你必須要『pick one』」，她媽媽強調。