Nothing can change our love In her Commandments for Women, Ban Zhao of the Han dynasty expresses the view that a husband's love for his wife is a kind of "benevolence," and dogmatically proposes that the wife should naturally feel gratitude for this benevolence, so a husband may divorce his wife, but a wife may not divorce her husband.
漢朝班昭編纂《女戒》，認為夫對妻的愛是一種「恩」，教條式的認為妻子自當感恩報恩，所以夫可以離妻，但是妻不可以去夫。