Someone has said that how you look before the age of 40 is inherited from your parents, but how you look after 40 depends on your own efforts. I agree with this idea that a person's appearance reflects what is in their heart.
有人說「四十歲以前的長相是父母生成，四十歲以後的外貌則是靠自己的努力」，我贊成這種「相由心生」的說法。