For her son's sake, Huang Yu sought help from psychological counselors in religious groups and hospitals. But because her husband was unwilling to go along, several counselors said that there was nothing they could do. Her family simply muddled through day after day in this frozen state.
為了兒子，黃玉曾求助教會和醫院的心理輔導，但因先生不肯配合接受晤談，讓幾位輔導者最後都表示愛莫能助，整個家庭就在這樣僵持的氣氛下「捱」過來。