Her point is that if parents are afraid their kid will be bullied because he is feminine, instead of asking the kid to dislike and torment himself by toughening up and becoming masculine, it is better to teach him to appreciate himself and to enjoy what he has. At the same time, teach him how to get help and protect himself when needed.
陳質采想要表達的是，如果怕孩子因為娘娘腔遭到欺侮，而要他厭惡自己，痛苦地變得粗魯陽剛，不如教導孩子欣賞自己，享受自己所擁有的一切，但也懂得去求救與保護自己。