She quickly realized that the one-on-one way she was looking after him not only left her son with little stimulation from others his own age, but also led to him becoming overly dependent on her. It was then she figured, "Why not take on a couple of other kids so he has some play pals?" "But looking after other people's children is a serious job," says Lin.
不過帶一陣子後，她發現「一對一」的帶法，不但兒子缺乏同儕刺激，且自己的專注力全在他身上，反而養成兒子過度依賴的習性，於是才興起了「不如再帶個孩子來作伴」的念頭。