His mother in Chiayi sensed that her son and this dance instructor were more than just friends. "Mother thought I was a gay," he recalls. "It was hard for me to bear, just as it was hard for the man I loved to look at me like I was a gay.
這時候，在嘉義的母親隱約感覺兒子和舞蹈老師的關係非比尋常，「媽媽以為我是一位同性戀，這也是我很痛苦的一點，和我愛戀的男人，帶著同性戀的眼光來對待我。