Ko Chih-en confesses that during her four-year "war" with her son, each day she felt, "My child is continually challenging my thinking." Fortunately their mother-and-child arguments were constructive, and frustration and anger gave Ko the opportunity for reflection, change, and problem-solving.
柯志恩坦承在 4 年「親子戰爭」中，她每天都活在「孩子不斷挑戰我的思考」中，幸好母子間進行的是建設性的爭論，難過、生氣提供了母親反省思考、改變與解決問題的契機。