Many people want to communicate, but lack the skill-the more they try, the more trouble they make. In some cases, they start off trying to be reasonable, then try to prove that their view is correct, and end up in a major argument.
許多夫妻有心溝通，卻是越溝通心結越深，甚至一開口就講道理、爭輸贏，最後以大吵收場。