"Men who are abandoned by their wives are even more pitiable because in our society men have nowhere to turn, nor are they permitted to show their emotions, so it is more serious for them when they suffer," says Shih Chi-ching. Most men vent their feelings through domestic violence (like taking it out on the children) or by going to brothels. But does this really solve the problem?
「老婆跑掉的男人更悲哀，因為我們社會的男人碰到問題時完全無援，又不被允許表露情緒，受傷的心更嚴重」，施寄青說，大部分男性都以家庭暴力（如拿孩子出氣）、上酒家來解決問題，但真能解決問題嗎？