When Hsin Chi-ming could not tolerate it she would go to her mother's home to complain. At such times her mother would just say, "Chih-man's nature is not so bad. It is just that he never had a father since he was a little child and has not seen how a husband and wife can live together.
這時媽媽總會告訴她說：「至滿這孩子本性不錯，只不過自小沒了父親，沒見過人家夫妻如何相處，你要多忍耐，他發脾氣當沒聽見就好了。」