"It's hard to strike a balance between ambition and a child's best interests, or to find a pat solution to the challenges of parenthood," says Yu. He argues that it is essential for parents to use time more wisely and see to it that kids have a little more excitement and affection in their lives, otherwise the entire exercise of parenthood will just be a waste of time.
「如果想在名利與兒女之間取得平衡，或尋求一種易如反掌的教養邏輯，其實難上加難，」游乾桂說，除非家長願意在人生中加些浪漫，添些溫情，重新調配時間，將生活品質還原，否則一切免談。