Teng Wan-ching remembers how she once went to a classmate's wedding party at which "no-one raised hell." She did no more than call out to the bride and groom to sing a few songs and to drink a toast with linked arms, but later the bride's mother came over specially to thank her, saying "a wedding's no good if it's not lively."
滕婉菁想起，有一次參加一個「無人鬧場」的同學婚宴，她只不過吆喝新人唱歌、喝交杯酒，事後新娘媽媽就特地走過來對她說謝謝，因為「喝喜酒就要這樣鬧，才有意思。」