After seeing many cases of children unable to readjust after a change, Huang Lun-fen suggests that if the child is old enough to understand what its parents say to it, they should tell it as early as possible that "we'll be going to a new place, we won't be coming here any more."
在看過許多因變動而失調的案例後，黃倫芬建議，只要孩子稍大，能夠懂得父母的話了，就應該提早一點告訴孩子：「要換新環境了，不會再來這裡了。」