He said that even before she's engaged an English bride discusses with her husband-to-be whether the children should go to Oxford or Cambridge. When a Chinese bride hears a rat gnawing at the rice bag on the evening of her wedding night she tells her husband, "A rat's eating your rice," but when she hears the same thing later in the night she says "our rice."
他說英國新娘在「八字還沒一撇」時，就跟新郎討論以後孩子要上牛津還是劍橋；中國新娘在上半夜時聽到老鼠咬米袋聲音時，對新郎說：「老鼠在吃你家的米。」