The fact that the marriage is based on a monetary transaction also means that some husbands regard their wives as "property" or "objects"; and the strong tendency of some mothers-in-law to boss these new brides about makes it harder still for them to adjust.
而金錢交易的婚姻，使得部分先生看待新娘有如「財產、物品」；甚至連婆婆都有很強的指使感，增加新娘適應上的辛苦。