In the rough draft the children were clearly listed as my older brother, me, and then my three younger brothers (there was no mention of my sisters-in-law even though they provided just as much care as my brothers).
訃聞草稿本來寫得很清楚，孝子名依序從大哥、我，然後是 3 個弟弟（沒有媳婦，雖然她們的照顧不會比兒子少）。