Such single parents are always full of anxieties themselves, and so the Pleione Formosana Society often holds activities involving adults and children, so that widows and widowers can help each other. Tien says that when the foundation had just been founded, only women were accepted as members, and the activities welcoming new members would inevitably become gloomy affairs; her son would laugh and describe the organization as a "widow's club."
因此，一葉蘭經常舉辦親子活動，讓會員阿姨、會員叔叔彼此互相幫忙。田在華表示，協會成立之初只收女性會員，每次迎新會總是辦得「愁雲慘霧」的，被兒子譏為「寡婦俱樂部」。