Some mainland women stay with their current husbands, but agree to be buried next to their original husbands. Some, hoping to get their hands on some of the relative wealth of those from Taiwan, drop good-for-nothing second husbands and go back to the first. Some women can't bring themselves to choose and take care of both husbands.
有的妻子選擇與在大陸現在的丈夫終老，但是答應死後同元配先生合葬；有的因為台灣老丈夫較富有，而拋棄第二任的糟糠之夫；還有的妻子難以選擇，表示願意同侍二夫。