At that time, if she had got into a big argument, this would most likely have blurred the main point and ultimately resulted in a broken relationship between her and her mother. She would also not have been able to go to Kenting.
當時如果她大吵大鬧，很可能就模糊了問題焦點，最後母女感情破裂，她也去不成墾丁了。