Many times a thoughtless word from a parent will be very damaging to a child who takes everything seriously. Consequently the child will live with the fear of wondering "What does Mama (Daddy) really mean by that? Is it that they don't love me any more?"
很多時候，父母無心的氣話，卻會對凡事認真的孩子產生巨大傷害，孩子也就會長期生活在「媽媽（爸爸）講這個話倒底是什麼意思，是不是不愛我了？」