He never had fixed ideas about who would "depend" on whom, and his wife had nothing against going to live in America with him; if need be, she could change jobs, take another qualification, and start from scratch.
對於誰「依附」誰這件事，原本他就沒有預設立場。太太也不反對和他一起住在美國，大不了改行，再念個學位，從頭開始。