Chinese by and large don't like face-to-face confrontation. If they suffer a loss they complain behind the other party's back, and won't go resolve the problem nose-to-nose. Over time, a great sense of injustice accumulates, and one's energy is all wasted on handling one's emotions, and there is no way to try to progress.
中國人大多不喜歡正面衝突，吃了虧就在背後抱怨，不正面去解決問題；時間久了，累積了滿肚子的委屈、焦慮與不平，精力都浪費在情緒問題上，也沒辦法再求進步。