They often speak with complete conviction in scorning material considerations in choosing a mate and are perfectly willing to accept or even praise someone else who defies social conventions in doing so.
他們往往可以說得頭頭是道，對計較外在條件的高下嗤之以鼻，對他人若能不計世俗標準去擇偶，也能接受、甚至讚賞；但一輪到自己，可又各種顧慮齊上心頭。