Huang recommends that parents should put more energy into their children. Indeed, "Children don't turn bad overnight. Most of them have been through a childhood filled with conflict, and by the time they reach their teenage years, when they have the ability--and when parents 'ability to control them is reduced--then the problems start to come out," says Chen.
的確，「孩子不是一夕之間變壞的，他們多半有過一段飽經掙扎隱忍的童年；而到了青少年階段，有能力了，父母對他的控制力也變小時，才把問題彰顯出來，」陳毓文如是說。