Lu says, "Most parents, myself included, don't know how to love their children." Parents often think that doing a lot of things for their children is the same as loving them, so they end up urging them on and reproving them day in, day out, but they fail to do what's most important.
盧蘇偉不禁自問，這也是他多年來不斷提問、呼籲的課題，「大部分的父母都不懂得如何愛孩子，包括我自己在內，」他說，父母常以為為孩子做許多事就是愛了，日常生活中也總是一籮筐叮嚀、責備，但是最重要的事卻沒做。