Of course, anyone taking part in such activities naturally goes in with certain hopes, but setting one's sights too high is not a recipe for success, and worst of all, failure to find a mate through such channels can lead to frustration and despair. This is especially true of women, who tend not to take the initiative in courtship.
參加這類活動，說沒有期待那是騙人，期待過高卻反而不成，最糟的是，許多人、尤其居於較被動的女性，容易在活動中失望，甚至失去自信。