I sincerely hope parents will give children the right to participate in decision making, will do their best to understand what it feels like for them to live overseas on their own, and won't make comparisons or adopt high-pressure tactics, creating family problems, which no amount of money can make up for.
我真誠希望父母們讓小孩有參與意見的權力，並儘量瞭解小孩在外獨立生活的感受。不要以高壓方式或比較心理，造成「小孩心理不平衡，父母傷心流淚」的家庭問題，那才真是用再多金錢也買不到、換不回的「諒解」及「遺憾」。