Limiting Yourself Will Limit Your Partner: When defining themselves, apart from saying some good points such as that they are American civilservants, have qualifications from a top university, own a restaurant or have permanent residence, the lonely hearts will also say that they have a good brain for business, are very thoughtful and responsible and do not smoke and drink and so on.
限制別人，也限了自己在表達自己方面，除了提出像自己是美國政府文官、美名校碩士、開餐廳、有居留權等具體的「好處」外，說自己有商業頭腦、具寬厚思想、有責任感、不沾煙酒… … 等的也不在少數。