Single fathers also need to make sure their own lives are good, and have to strive to make sure they don't project all their own hopes and dreams onto their children. Not only does that put the children under undue pressure, it can also tear the heart out of the father's life once his children grow up and leave home.
「孩子很重要，但絕不是全部，」朱建峰表示，單親爸爸也要隨時讓自己過得好，不能把寄託全部放在孩子身上，這樣不但孩子壓力過大，自己也會隨著孩子長大離家而失去生活的重心。