"It's like a husband or a wife having an affair," Kuo explains. "Once a kid has had sex, the unique dependency of children on their parents is destroyed, and this in turn makes parents feel a strong sense of betrayal and loss." Overcome with these negative emotions, parents are often unable to face their kids 'problems rationally.
「就像是夫妻一方有了外遇一樣，一旦孩子有了性行為，原先親子之間特有的依附關係將被撕裂，這會帶給父母很強烈的『被背叛感』和失落感，」郭宏基剖析，這種負面情緒發酵的結果，往往使得父母親無法理性面對孩子的問題。