There are so many eating utensils on the table . Which ones do I use first ?   Use them from the outside in .   I see . A set for appetizers and another for the main course .   Right . We do the same thing at home . Don't you remember ?   Oh yeah . The big napkin goes on my lap .   Let's look at our menus .   Cindy , help me order because I'm still not very familiar with American cooking .   Well , we order appetizers first and then entrees . 