(you cannot hide behind the characters you've created Grim. i'm not hating you, but honestly the characters will only do by your choosing. I take full responsibility for the actions of all my characters because I control then like puppets on strings. it's the same as the authors of writing novels of great books, they all takes responsibility for the characters and their environments. if you don't want anyone to get irritated by you, or angry at you then don't bring it upon yourself.)