Though, Nilia is a monstrous humanoid, not a humanoid, so wouldn't the man need to have charm monster to charm her? And even if it would have worked, feeding oneself to someone is a obviously suicidal/harmful order, so that command wouldn't have had an effect either. The original pre-edit command to eat the deer would have worked though, if she was a regular humanoid.<img alt=":P" src="./images/smilies/icon_razz.gif" title="Razz"/>If she received the enthralled condition by failing both the save and the sense motive check, she would be enthralled towards him, not Kay, after all.