you dont like sadism in bondage as just being tied up is strippoing you down to your bare flesh which your actully usin g to control your partner in any submisve reltiopn ship the submisive jobs is to becomne the dream of the dominante wone therefore making them adicted to you giving you controk unlike in sadism where a huge part is the dominant one having comeplete control over your pain and pleasure so not cjust controling your body your flesh but yourt feelings to<br/><br/>dont mind my bollocks im half genius half insane and as i said iv got like a billion fetishes and im both submisive and dominant<br/>im a dominant submisive lol