Here are my view on these questions.<br/><br/>1a) Usually in kink based RPs<span style="font-style: italic">(Vore is a kink)</span>the player being put in the submissive role tends to be treated so they can say no to anysort of treatment.  Unless they have done something to 'say' it is acceptable<span style="font-style: italic">(Like joining a game where everyone could become prey or a rule based system)</span>then they should be off the menu.  Thus wanting their character to be prey, not wanting to be eaten<span style="font-style: italic">(But knowing it could still happen)</span>and refusing to be eaten are both valid options for a player to choose.<br/><br/>b) Generally this is a very major problem and can actually cause an RP to fail.  Usually the two players involved 'should' be able to come up with who loses, but not always. Personally I'd say in the case of no agreement, then the person who started the fight should lose, as it is their fault for the fight plus means someone can't just go around beating everyone at everything.<br/><br/>2) I find this a reason why forum RPs are difficult.  Fast posting can isolate players that can't post too often, slow posting can grind an RP to a halt.  I know for a fact there are people out there that post five times a day or more.  I'd suggest making sure everyone in an RP is happy to post at a similar rate, or setting a sort of rule of posting order up before starting.<br/><br/>3) Well, there are three ways of dealing with an RP that isn't clear enough on what's allowed and what isn't: 1, absolute caution, stick to only basic oral soft vore till someone else does a different type without causing complaints; 2, assume lack of exact details means anything acceptable as it won't be your fault if things weren't specific enough; 3, search for what the creator of the RP enjoys and looks at in the forums and figure out what he/she most likely intended the RP for, and if in doubt ask via PM.<br/>I normally use way 3, and never think about using way 2 even if it'd be the creator's fault it I did something he/she didn't like.