strangely accurate again...im going to be hones jab i didnt think you would come to such an in depth conclusion.<br/>my ex was as cruel as any cruel mistress can get. in fact i dont think she liked anything but being a sadist there was no pleasure to it.<img alt=":(" src="./images/smilies/sad.gif" title="Sad"/><br/>BUT i was with her for 3.5 years probably because as you said "submisive jobs is to becomne the dream of the dominante wone" thats why i make a point of roll playing anything my RP partner wants. but that still leaves the question: what fetish shal i use for my experiment?